Missing Libra Man like crazy!!
Hi everyone. This is my first time posting on this board. I'm wondering what you can offer, in terms of advice, to my...
This topic was created in the Libra forum by ariesfemale1978 on Tuesday, November 20, 2007 and has 67 replies.
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Wow... it doesn't sound that enticing anymore, lol. I'm not sure I could handle all of that. I really care for this guy and I feel ready to share myself with someone but not on an unconsistent basis... How long do they play the vanishing games until they settle down???
I suppose it depends on the person. Mine only did one vanishing act at the beginning of our relationship. Now he either tells me well in advance or invites me with him!
QS has always said these guys don't do this if you're their #1 lady.
QS has always said these guys don't do this if you're their #1 lady.
TempleOfJaguar good insight infact very good - just reading this brings out frustraton, anger and resentment... as for you Miss 1978 I will take your impatience and restless and excitement into consideration and tell you that you do not Have to slow down - you do not have to wait until he calls - you have his number give him a call, your call doesn't have to be filled with anticipation - afterall this would be too Heavy, call say hi say something cute and that you wan't to know about how he's doing.. As far as I am concerned you have already established contact
***How long do they play the vanishing games until they settle down???***
Until they are sure they want to be in a serious relationship with you. Then.... sometimes you won't be able to get rid of them. That is always nice
Until they are sure they want to be in a serious relationship with you. Then.... sometimes you won't be able to get rid of them. That is always nice
The waiting game was never an option for me unless "they never called" which, now that I think of it, has never happened to me. I actually is normally the one who would miss the calls. LOL!!!
Anyway, if I want to call someone even if I was the last person to call. I just do because I want to and I leave a message. If they never call back then, no I don't keep calling, I then wait for their call, text or email. Which so far has always been returned, even when we are/were angry with eachother.
Anyway, if I want to call someone even if I was the last person to call. I just do because I want to and I leave a message. If they never call back then, no I don't keep calling, I then wait for their call, text or email. Which so far has always been returned, even when we are/were angry with eachother.
I don't know... I guess I'm just confused about why he would 'lead me on' in that way? I keep on replaying his words and actions in my head (and mine as well) and wonder what could've gone wrong... I don't know what else I can do... It was so hard to get the nerve up to call him and I was positive (because he told me so, and because I felt it) that we had a strong connection, now I'm not so sure.
Maybe he's still heartbroken over his relationship not working out? He's probably not ready, maybe I shouldn't bother him. Sorry to go on, but the thoughts in my head just keep coming and I can't let this go yet...
Maybe he's still heartbroken over his relationship not working out? He's probably not ready, maybe I shouldn't bother him. Sorry to go on, but the thoughts in my head just keep coming and I can't let this go yet...
I'm having deja vu because Mr Slavic Libra did a vanishing act to me a few weeks ago.
I went through the same confusion, but my heart kept telling me he loved me. It was still kind of hurtful, but it turned out he had car trouble and didn't want to lose face so didn't call. Slavic men are very macho but this is also a Libra thing -- they don't want to face unpleasantness.
I didn't call him for a week, then he left a message through yet another translator (yeah, the whole of Chicago knows about our private life). I forgave him, and he turned up at my house with flowers, a stuffed dog for my daughter, French wine, and chocolates.
All the right moves....
He hasn't vanished again, yet it's curious that everyone on this thread has experienced some kind of Libra disappearance.
I went through the same confusion, but my heart kept telling me he loved me. It was still kind of hurtful, but it turned out he had car trouble and didn't want to lose face so didn't call. Slavic men are very macho
but this is also a Libra thing -- they don't want to face unpleasantness.I didn't call him for a week, then he left a message through yet another translator (yeah, the whole of Chicago knows about our private life). I forgave him, and he turned up at my house with flowers, a stuffed dog for my daughter, French wine, and chocolates.
All the right moves....
He hasn't vanished again, yet it's curious that everyone on this thread has experienced some kind of Libra disappearance.
***He hasn't vanished again, yet it's curious that everyone on this thread has experienced some kind of Libra disappearance.***
When they are sure they love you. They don't really disappear ever. They will get self involved and caught up and get busy. It is never personal. Once they feel they have deserted you for too long, they feel bad.
Oh, and they really can't take not hearing from you or you disappearing, they will call your cell then your house number. I have had this happen a couple times.
Eagle you are in Chitown too huh?
Aries.... Call him and let him know how you feel. Find out what's up.
When they are sure they love you. They don't really disappear ever. They will get self involved and caught up and get busy. It is never personal. Once they feel they have deserted you for too long, they feel bad.
Oh, and they really can't take not hearing from you or you disappearing, they will call your cell then your house number. I have had this happen a couple times.
Eagle you are in Chitown too huh?
Aries.... Call him and let him know how you feel. Find out what's up.
Thanks everyone. I still haven't heard from him... but I've been ridiculously busy the last few days so I haven't dwelled on it too much. I'm going to put all my pride aside and just put it all out there and call him and tell him I love him. At this point I have nothing to lose. I know that even if he doesn't respond in a way I'd like, at least I won't go on the rest of my life wondering 'what if' if I never told him. Before I take the plunge I'd like to know if any of you have any comments about this??
Good luck with that
Other than most people die of regret from suffocating in " what ifs ".......nope
"Oh, and they really can't take not hearing from you or you disappearing, they will call your cell then your house number. I have had this happen a couple times"
Yes even I have had this scenario and I have the most non-committal Libra ever known!!!
I have now not made ANY contact with him since the 24th of November....he has written, he has text and called me last week....when I did??? he couldn't be bothered with me, now that I don't??? he makes all the contact.
Im a little over it to be honest
Yes even I have had this scenario and I have the most non-committal Libra ever known!!!
I have now not made ANY contact with him since the 24th of November....he has written, he has text and called me last week....when I did??? he couldn't be bothered with me, now that I don't??? he makes all the contact.
Im a little over it to be honest
hey ariesfemale1978
call him
see him
text him
do whatever you can do
do it & do it now
life is too short to think too much
you know who you love.what're you waiting for?
call him
see him
text him
do whatever you can do
do it & do it now
life is too short to think too much
you know who you love.what're you waiting for?
As a fellow Aries, though male, I would advise WAITING and LETTING him call you---it may take a few weeks, or a month, or a few months! Yeah, we want instant action NOW. And we aren't exactly known for our PATIENCE. And we want CLOSURE (immediately!) if things aren't happening our way. But Libras won't offer closure. You have a choice: they can dangle you out there and you get frustrated (Fire signs frustrated? NOT good!) or you can just put him in the back of your mind KNOWING he will get back to you SOME time, but let it be HIS time---so it's no big deal and you don't get FRUSTRATED (and than think it's a challenge---they don't have that concept).
I REFUSE to contact the Libra Girl in my life. It's never worked out when I did. They I wait, sometimes a few days, a few weeks, a month and INVARIBLY she calls. I ask her, "Did you miss me?" And she'll say, "I called you, didn't I?" Things are MUCH smoother not persuing her or even caring as much. You've got a friend for life! Just keep the fire WARM, not incindiery.
I REFUSE to contact the Libra Girl in my life. It's never worked out when I did. They I wait, sometimes a few days, a few weeks, a month and INVARIBLY she calls. I ask her, "Did you miss me?" And she'll say, "I called you, didn't I?" Things are MUCH smoother not persuing her or even caring as much. You've got a friend for life! Just keep the fire WARM, not incindiery.
Libra guys definitely do a dipping act. Out of nowhere. vanish.
And what sucks, after helping them the confrontation they've been avoiding they confess that they did NON think/consider about how the other person would feel.
I personally have my trust undermined with a 2yr relationship with a libra and I don't know when he's lying. And I can't accept/feel the "I love you's" and "I'll never leave you's" no matter how much he charmingly rubs it in my face.
Libras dip. Just be aware.
And what sucks, after helping them the confrontation they've been avoiding they confess that they did NON think/consider about how the other person would feel.
I personally have my trust undermined with a 2yr relationship with a libra and I don't know when he's lying. And I can't accept/feel the "I love you's" and "I'll never leave you's" no matter how much he charmingly rubs it in my face.
Libras dip. Just be aware.
life is too short to spend on someone who is avoiding you. wanting to see you only once a week is crazy.
librans are charming, fun loving, good times guy, not family men. forget about it. find a family man star sign like cancer or taurus or person who is right for what you are looking for. you miss the good times. that's all libran got for you. because you are all worked up about nothing, I will not even suggest remaining friends. they make excellent friends but please don't make more of it than that. they do not feel separation anxiety. they feel liberated to go out and meet more people. they love attention. they love collecting friendships to keep on standby. and sex is like going out for a cup of coffee to them, just a good time. they are not loyal and hate relationships that are mushy. trust me I have firsthand knowledge.
they are indecisive even about what to eat on a daily basis. they feel their way is the best way. they feel they can lie their way thru anything. and everybody is stupid except them. the next one you meet, just laugh and play together but please safeguard your heart. safeguard your heart from anybody for that matter. don't give it away so easily. 3 months is too short of a time. try a year before becoming serious. better yet wait for him to love you first. librans do not like responsibility. they will flee far, far away from responsibility. they are like big children, they want to play. not serious thinkers regardless of intelligence they spend their intelligence outsmarting people or so they think, people is their main focus all the time, not solving the world's problems. very flirtatious, very chatty when they are attracted to someone, attracted just means they want to play with you, not marry you. so don't get it confused.. just stay extremely lighthearted, jovial, "friendly" as in platonic about it all and you will do fine with the lbrans.
librans are charming, fun loving, good times guy, not family men. forget about it. find a family man star sign like cancer or taurus or person who is right for what you are looking for. you miss the good times. that's all libran got for you. because you are all worked up about nothing, I will not even suggest remaining friends. they make excellent friends but please don't make more of it than that. they do not feel separation anxiety. they feel liberated to go out and meet more people. they love attention. they love collecting friendships to keep on standby. and sex is like going out for a cup of coffee to them, just a good time. they are not loyal and hate relationships that are mushy. trust me I have firsthand knowledge.
they are indecisive even about what to eat on a daily basis. they feel their way is the best way. they feel they can lie their way thru anything. and everybody is stupid except them. the next one you meet, just laugh and play together but please safeguard your heart. safeguard your heart from anybody for that matter. don't give it away so easily. 3 months is too short of a time. try a year before becoming serious. better yet wait for him to love you first. librans do not like responsibility. they will flee far, far away from responsibility. they are like big children, they want to play. not serious thinkers regardless of intelligence they spend their intelligence outsmarting people or so they think, people is their main focus all the time, not solving the world's problems. very flirtatious, very chatty when they are attracted to someone, attracted just means they want to play with you, not marry you. so don't get it confused.. just stay extremely lighthearted, jovial, "friendly" as in platonic about it all and you will do fine with the lbrans.
Wow!! Zodiac queen I have to agree with you 110% with your post I have known a few libran men they are always attracted to me and honestly they are very nice ppl...but you are so right when you mentioned they don't like responsibility of a "real relationship" they go in full speed in the beginning but later you're lucky if they answer your text or call..so funny..I try not to take them seriously because they will hurt you and have many female friends also which I don't agree with as a sag..because they get just as pissed off if you have male friends so they are hypocritical .They either like to sit home watching tv after work or go visit 1 of there numerous friends they cannot handle family life ...have to agree there also
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