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Posted by TaurusNikki
Most of my libra friends keep in touch with their Exs, and I mean all of their Exs
It's the I don't want to seem like the bad guy syndrome, for some reason they can't let go of past mistakes, or take their share of the blame, it's
Iike the person is the one who messed up, everything is always on the other person
I think I know what you are talking about. There was one leeb I was with many years ago, who also hurt me a little bit, but we were young and I was naive.. well he tried to add me on FB for years until I refused his request for 200th time. It was obvious he wanted to make sure I think good of him and he cared to be liked. But that was the only situation I can think of
Posted by TaurusNikki
Most of my libra friends keep in touch with their Exs, and I mean all of their Exs
It's the I don't want to seem like the bad guy syndrome, for some reason they can't let go of past mistakes, or take their share of the blame, it's
Iike the person is the one who messed up, everything is always on the other person
I keep in touch with my exes but they also keep in touch with me and they are not leebs 🙂. We all moved on, married, some have kids, etc... I don't see any problem in keeping in touch with your exes if the relationship was also friend based
Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
Most of my libra friends keep in touch with their Exs, and I mean all of their Exs
It's the I don't want to seem like the bad guy syndrome, for some reason they can't let go of past mistakes, or take their share of the blame, it's
Iike the person is the one who messed up, everything is always on the other person
I keep in touch with my exes but they also keep in touch with me and they are not leebs 🙂. We all moved on, married, some have kids, etc... I don't see any problem in keeping in touch with your exes if the relationship was also friend basedclick to expand
Friend based is fine, at least to me it is, but in a serious relationship portion, most of the libras I know keep I touch with the Exs and I mean all of the Exs not just 1 or 2
It's just from my experience with my libra friends
Agreed,
But your still a suspect Tiz, lol
But your still a suspect Tiz, lol
Posted by TaurusNikki
Agreed,
But your still a suspect Tiz, lol
lol, give him a credit, he is trying
Posted by Lib911Posted by TaurusNikki
Agreed,
But your still a suspect Tiz, lol
lol, give him a credit, he is tryingclick to expand
Lol, I can't
Gotta keep him unbalanced, lmao
Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by tiziani
She is a Libra too btw, for whatever that's worth.
Good lord, good luck on thatclick to expand
But your still a suspect Tiz
lol, the posts since I left. I knew the butthurt brigade would rear it's ugly head eventually. Doesn't matter if I said things are fine when they aren't nutso. RAWR NEGATIVE, YOU AREN'T STROKING MY EGO INTO ORGASM. YOU'RE A TERRIBLE PERSON. LICK MY ASS AND MAKE MY INSECURITY BETTER.
Freaking weenies, I swear. :/
Freaking weenies, I swear. :/
lol
Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Oh I forgot your best quality. I love you guys for this and this is probably why I have a lot of libra friends: you guys are attentive listeners and care about the ones you hold dear. I'm talking strictly friendship.
Yes, yes! They are really good in the friendship depart and they actually remember and pay attention to what you have said... even if they take up most of the convo talking ^__^
Oh yea! Totally! I was gonna say they pay attention to what you say and then respond accordingly. They are not a conversation hog.
BTW, I've only had ONE bad romantic experience with a libra male. My opinions on libra males are formed mainly by what I observe in them presently as friends and acquaintances than what I went through romantically. The reason for that is because break up with my ex happened like 3 yrs ago and I don't have that much memory left of that relationship. Thank God for that. Secondly, I didn't face the typical bullshit that women write about lik coming on strong and then disappearing etc. The only libran thing I faced was the whole securing another girl and then leaving the present one only to string her along. It's really funny how similar they are. Lol. That's why I believe in astrology.
LOL... astrology!! There are too many coincidences!! Yeah seems like you haven't had too many good experiences with male libras /:click to expand
What got me into astrology was when more than one person asked me if I was an aquarian. I had to check out this art which allowed people to successfully guess my sign. Reading about astrology allowed me to notice a pattern in people. I have three Aquarians in my fam and we all get along because we are so similar. Can't be a coincidence. I always attracted librans. When I got into astrology, I realized that the aqua stellium was pulling libras because that's our match. If I could get a dime for every time a libra is pulled to me, I'd be so rich. If only I could convert libras to currency. Lol. I have a problem with their so called "logic" or there lackof. My male libra friends are just messed up in the things they do. I str
I strongly disagree with the things they do. Like I can't stand their constant sycophancy that they end up compromising what they really want. I hate their fear of being the bad guy that they end up doing wrong by a person by hiding and lying. I know that's a make-up of a libra and they mean well, but it seriously lacks moral ethics. End does not justify the means. For example, a libra friend of mine wants to break up with his gf and I told him to man up and communicate that. But noooooooo! He can't be the bad guy and he can't see her cry an pout, so he's dragging it out and getting it on with the new love interest on the side. That shit irks me and I yell at him to smarten up and told him not to call me until he fixes his shitty personality. So what does he do? Pulls a victim attitude about how I'm a bad friend and ain't supportive. Supportive of what? Douchebaggery
Posted by feby16aqua
and the butthurt brigade lmao. I'm stealing some of this stuff, I hope you don't mind rocky.
LMAO @ butthurt brigade! Rocky, you're hilarious. I love the terms you come up with. The other one I like is douchelord. Lol
Let me share another story. This other libra friend of mine was checking (getting to know a woman). He showed me her pic to ask if I thought she was pretty. She wasn't my taste so I said just that. He goes, "Then I'm not gonna date her" and I'm like, "WTH. You just said she's hot so why don't you wanna date her?" He replies, "because I'm not gonna date a woman who some people might not find attractive. I want someone who everyone will say is hot." I could just feel my temper rising at that statement. I have zero tolerance for stupid and cocky comments. I was like, "you're a moron and I hope you know that. Haven't you ever heard of "beauty is in the eye of tr beholder in your 26 yrs of ignorant life? If not, you're hearing it now. Not everyone is gonna find a person attractive!"
He responded and that irked me a bit more: "you don't have to be rude about it". I was like "well then, don't say incredibly stupid things and remember if you truly hold that standard of beauty, you are gonna be alone forever. Suppose there was a universal beauty out there, don't you think that universal beauty would want someone just as beautiful, and if not beautiful, then at least someone who is perhaps tall or rich or one of the things that women are usually attracted to? Yes?! Well, I'm not trying to be mean, just being a realist." He replies that he understands and then had to go. Probably to put some pins in the voodoo doll of me because I didn't validate his stupid thinking.
He responded and that irked me a bit more: "you don't have to be rude about it". I was like "well then, don't say incredibly stupid things and remember if you truly hold that standard of beauty, you are gonna be alone forever. Suppose there was a universal beauty out there, don't you think that universal beauty would want someone just as beautiful, and if not beautiful, then at least someone who is perhaps tall or rich or one of the things that women are usually attracted to? Yes?! Well, I'm not trying to be mean, just being a realist." He replies that he understands and then had to go. Probably to put some pins in the voodoo doll of me because I didn't validate his stupid thinking.
Posted by aquarius09
Let me share another story. This other libra friend of mine was checking (getting to know a woman). He showed me her pic to ask if I thought she was pretty. She wasn't my taste so I said just that. He goes, "Then I'm not gonna date her" and I'm like, "WTH. You just said she's hot so why don't you wanna date her?" He replies, "because I'm not gonna date a woman who some people might not find attractive. I want someone who everyone will say is hot." I could just feel my temper rising at that statement. I have zero tolerance for stupid and cocky comments. I was like, "you're a moron and I hope you know that. Haven't you ever heard of "beauty is in the eye of tr beholder in your 26 yrs of ignorant life? If not, you're hearing it now. Not everyone is gonna find a person attractive!"
He responded and that irked me a bit more: "you don't have to be rude about it". I was like "well then, don't say incredibly stupid things and remember if you truly hold that standard of beauty, you are gonna be alone forever. Suppose there was a universal beauty out there, don't you think that universal beauty would want someone just as beautiful, and if not beautiful, then at least someone who is perhaps tall or rich or one of the things that women are usually attracted to? Yes?! Well, I'm not trying to be mean, just being a realist." He replies that he understands and then had to go. Probably to put some pins in the voodoo doll of me because I didn't validate his stupid thinking.
WOW!!!! Sorry to your friend but he sounds like a moron. In any case, I doubt he really liked her if he had to base his dating her off of that. He just seems like a very superficial person. Another experience btw with Libra men!! And I know it may be just some men and not Libra men but screw that! We're on an astrology forum under the category of LIBRA for a reason.
I don't know if you'd have this experience with other Libra men but I have... most of the Libra men are VERY superficial IME. They are the only men in my life that will judge a random girl (who they don't know) by her looks and criticize her for it. Literally, they will act like women by looking at a celebrity and make a nasty comment about the way she looks. Most other zodiac sign men I know could careless about the way some random woman looks. It's fine that Libra men are this way, there is nothing wrong with being superficial, eve
It's fine that Libra men are this way, there is nothing wrong with being superficial, everyone is to some degree... but it is definitely a reason (for me) why I'm not attracted to them.
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
Posted by aquarius09
I strongly disagree with the things they do. Like I can't stand their constant sycophancy that they end up compromising what they really want. I hate their fear of being the bad guy that they end up doing wrong by a person by hiding and lying. I know that's a make-up of a libra and they mean well, but it seriously lacks moral ethics. End does not justify the means. For example, a libra friend of mine wants to break up with his gf and I told him to man up and communicate that. But noooooooo! He can't be the bad guy and he can't see her cry an pout, so he's dragging it out and getting it on with the new love interest on the side. That shit irks me and I yell at him to smarten up and told him not to call me until he fixes his shitty personality. So what does he do? Pulls a victim attitude about how I'm a bad friend and ain't supportive. Supportive of what? Douchebaggery
Gawd, it's amazing what people do when they're forced to face accountability. This happens with a lot of people and I blame society taking this downhill from the parents of the 80s and 90s.
I agree with the bad guy fear bit though. It's not rawr they're terrible for doing it, it's terrible that they allow this to happen and then end up unhappy and not getting what they truly want. Libra or not, people who do this end up being miserable and end up bottling in resentment. I'm always trying to talk them out of this approach because in the long run, it's not good for them.
Or I'll see this tendency and others start to take advantage of it and I end up having to beat those assholes off with a stick because this tardo over here is allowing people to walk all over them- cue the woe is me victimizing bit.
I had something like that happen at work with a Libra coworker. He was supposed to be making sure something was done by others since he was a lead. But he was trying to be all agreeable and nice and just taking their word for it when they said they did their work. I'm also a lead, so I'd drop by and give him an fyi that so and so was flaking out and he should REALLY go check what they were doing instead of taking their word for it. It's always on the lead of the night if something doesn't get done.
Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
Like stupid who's hooking up with pass around? Everyone else has had her, now he wants what everyone else has, haha.
Still gross!
(And again, another important disclaimer- if this does not apply to you, do not take it personally. You clearly are not of this group most have an issue with.)
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
Like stupid who's hooking up with pass around? Everyone else has had her, now he wants what everyone else has, haha.
Still gross!click to expand
Totally gross, what a dickhead
Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Let me share another story. This other libra friend of mine was checking (getting to know a woman). He showed me her pic to ask if I thought she was pretty. She wasn't my taste so I said just that. He goes, "Then I'm not gonna date her" and I'm like, "WTH. You just said she's hot so why don't you wanna date her?" He replies, "because I'm not gonna date a woman who some people might not find attractive. I want someone who everyone will say is hot." I could just feel my temper rising at that statement. I have zero tolerance for stupid and cocky comments. I was like, "you're a moron and I hope you know that. Haven't you ever heard of "beauty is in the eye of tr beholder in your 26 yrs of ignorant life? If not, you're hearing it now. Not everyone is gonna find a person attractive!"
He responded and that irked me a bit more: "you don't have to be rude about it". I was like "well then, don't say incredibly stupid things and remember if you truly hold that standard of beauty, you are gonna be alone forever. Suppose there was a universal beauty out there, don't you think that universal beauty would want someone just as beautiful, and if not beautiful, then at least someone who is perhaps tall or rich or one of the things that women are usually attracted to? Yes?! Well, I'm not trying to be mean, just being a realist." He replies that he understands and then had to go. Probably to put some pins in the voodoo doll of me because I didn't validate his stupid thinking.click to expand
WOW!!!! Sorry to your friend but he sounds like a moron. In any case, I doubt he really liked her if he had to base his dating her off of that. He just seems like a very superficial person. Another experience btw with Libra men!! And I know it may be just some men and not Libra men but screw that! We're on an astrology forum under the category of LIBRA for a reason.
I don't know if you'd have this experience with other Libra men but I have... most of the Libra men are VERY superficial IME. They are the only men in my life that will judge a random girl (who they don't know) by her looks and criticize her for it. Literally, they will act like women by looking at a celebrity and make a nasty comment about the way she looks. Most other zodiac sign men I know could careless about the way some random woman looks. It'
Everyone is superficial to a certain extent, but when other people's opinion starts to control/affect your affairs, you need to realize that you have no mind of your own. Yes, I've come across superficial men of all signs and I, myself, am superficial, but if I like a guy, I do not care what others think of him. I certainly wouldn't care what others thought of my love interest's looks because as long as he's attactive to me, that's all that matters. The stupid superficial ppl base the beauty standard on what others think. He just wanted a girl who was going to make him feel Godly to other men. Kinda pathetic that u have no talent/quality of your own to feel highly of yourself that you require a universal beauty to make u feel good in feont of others.
Guys are just so ridiculously stupid at times, it's baffling to me.
Makes me wonder if there's a reason why they're constantly trying to stay on top. Historically speaking, it's been happening for ages. I can't help but wonder at times that if ages ago they realized that their utter stupidity with things is a weakness and they have to beat down the "weaker" sex to stay on top.
Each side has some major bs going on on either side, but there are times guys really do exhibit the "grunt grunt I'm a derpy male" and continue to think they're better overall.
Overall it shouldn't be who's "better" but what each has to offer. Oh, egos.
/ tangent
Makes me wonder if there's a reason why they're constantly trying to stay on top. Historically speaking, it's been happening for ages. I can't help but wonder at times that if ages ago they realized that their utter stupidity with things is a weakness and they have to beat down the "weaker" sex to stay on top.
Each side has some major bs going on on either side, but there are times guys really do exhibit the "grunt grunt I'm a derpy male" and continue to think they're better overall.
Overall it shouldn't be who's "better" but what each has to offer. Oh, egos.
/ tangent
Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
Posted by aquarius09
Everyone is superficial to a certain extent, but when other people's opinion starts to control/affect your affairs, you need to realize that you have no mind of your own. Yes, I've come across superficial men of all signs and I, myself, am superficial, but if I like a guy, I do not care what others think of him. I certainly wouldn't care what others thought of my love interest's looks because as long as he's attactive to me, that's all that matters. The stupid superficial ppl base the beauty standard on what others think. He just wanted a girl who was going to make him feel Godly to other men. Kinda pathetic that u have no talent/quality of your own to feel highly of yourself that you require a universal beauty to make u feel good in feont of others.
Omg, I have been telling my bf the same damn thing
It's like he always has to have people think of him in a certain way, and I'm like who the hell cares, if you like who or what you are nothing else matters
But what no libra man has yet to admit that part of himself, there is good and bad in everyone, but damn if people don't like you for you, then WTH
Posted by aquarius09
Everyone is superficial to a certain extent, but when other people's opinion starts to control/affect your affairs, you need to realize that you have no mind of your own. Yes, I've come across superficial men of all signs and I, myself, am superficial, but if I like a guy, I do not care what others think of him. I certainly wouldn't care what others thought of my love interest's looks because as long as he's attactive to me, that's all that matters. The stupid superficial ppl base the beauty standard on what others think. He just wanted a girl who was going to make him feel Godly to other men. Kinda pathetic that u have no talent/quality of your own to feel highly of yourself that you require a universal beauty to make u feel good in feont of others.
One that I know of does this, but with things. Has to have the best of everything. If the friends get into RC cars, then he gets into RC cars AND gets the most expensive, overpriced stuff, just so he knows he's got the best over them. He's like this with all his materialistic stuff. I know Libras are prone to liking "fine" things, but it's always a competition with him. It rarely makes sense because most of these things are phases and he'll use/play with whatever it is for a month or two, then it collects dust. And I'm talking serious cash here- a couple hundred for a tennis racquet, 800+ for RC car stuff, thousands on some hobby he'll drop within 6 months, drops a grand on some semi heavy duty camera equip he barely uses, etc.
All because he has to one up everyone and have the best. He assumes others are jealous because he has nicer things, but they just think he's being a douche, haha.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09
I strongly disagree with the things they do. Like I can't stand their constant sycophancy that they end up compromising what they really want. I hate their fear of being the bad guy that they end up doing wrong by a person by hiding and lying. I know that's a make-up of a libra and they mean well, but it seriously lacks moral ethics. End does not justify the means. For example, a libra friend of mine wants to break up with his gf and I told him to man up and communicate that. But noooooooo! He can't be the bad guy and he can't see her cry an pout, so he's dragging it out and getting it on with the new love interest on the side. That shit irks me and I yell at him to smarten up and told him not to call me until he fixes his shitty personality. So what does he do? Pulls a victim attitude about how I'm a bad friend and ain't supportive. Supportive of what? Douchebaggery
Gawd, it's amazing what people do when they're forced to face accountability. This happens with a lot of people and I blame society taking this downhill from the parents of the 80s and 90s.
I agree with the bad guy fear bit though. It's not rawr they're terrible for doing it, it's terrible that they allow this to happen and then end up unhappy and not getting what they truly want. Libra or not, people who do this end up being miserable and end up bottling in resentment. I'm always trying to talk them out of this approach because in the long run, it's not good for them.
Or I'll see this tendency and others start to take advantage of it and I end up having to beat those assholes off with a stick because this tardo over here is allowing people to walk all over them- cue the woe is me victimizing bit.
I had something like that happen at work with a Libra coworker. He was supposed to be making sure something was done by others since he was a lead. But he was trying to be all agreeable and nice and just taking their word for it when they said they did their work. I'm also a lead, so I'd drop by and give him an fyi that so and so was flaking out and he should REALLY go check what they were doing instead of taking their word for it. It's always on the lead of the night if something doesn't get done.click to expand
Your co worker being nice and agreeable could also have to so with him being
agreeable could also have to so with him being lazy. Libra men tend to be lazy. I do agree that overall male nonsense is coming from mommy issues. I learned in a psychology class that if u come across a delusional or messed up male, look into his family background particularly his relationship with his mom. If he was neglected, you got your answer
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."click to expand
I so agree with you there
No one wants to be friends with a fake person, but yet some libras get mad that people will leave them if they find out who they really are, but if you were real to begin with you wouldn't have any problems, pretending your something your not is sad, to never face the truth then get angry when your called out on your B.S is funny as hell cause they will still try to lie their way out of it
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09
Everyone is superficial to a certain extent, but when other people's opinion starts to control/affect your affairs, you need to realize that you have no mind of your own. Yes, I've come across superficial men of all signs and I, myself, am superficial, but if I like a guy, I do not care what others think of him. I certainly wouldn't care what others thought of my love interest's looks because as long as he's attactive to me, that's all that matters. The stupid superficial ppl base the beauty standard on what others think. He just wanted a girl who was going to make him feel Godly to other men. Kinda pathetic that u have no talent/quality of your own to feel highly of yourself that you require a universal beauty to make u feel good in feont of others.
One that I know of does this, but with things. Has to have the best of everything. If the friends get into RC cars, then he gets into RC cars AND gets the most expensive, overpriced stuff, just so he knows he's got the best over them. He's like this with all his materialistic stuff. I know Libras are prone to liking "fine" things, but it's always a competition with him. It rarely makes sense because most of these things are phases and he'll use/play with whatever it is for a month or two, then it collects dust. And I'm talking serious cash here- a couple hundred for a tennis racquet, 800+ for RC car stuff, thousands on some hobby he'll drop within 6 months, drops a grand on some semi heavy duty camera equip he barely uses, etc.
All because he has to one up everyone and have the best. He assumes others are jealous because he has nicer things, but they just think he's being a douche, haha.click to expand
Yes, I noticed that material competitiveness in them, but the only difference is that they truly can't afford to live large. Their credit history sucks because they can't afford it, but still do it. I'm just amazed at why would u drown yourself in debt just to one up people. Why don't u just get help so that other people don't affect u.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."click to expand
And it's sad. This is why I started this post. I know I give Libra dudes a hard time, but it's because they go around doing all this dumb shit that just fucks things up for them. They're not bad guys. When things are good, they're awesome in relationships. But all this other stupid shit just sabotages things for them and they end up being terrors or making life difficult for themselves (and those around them).
They have a lot to offer when they're not flipping out with all this stuff. I find it sad that their self esteem is shit and they let that and insecurity overtake them and turn them into these fine examples you hear of all the time on the forum. Given what they have to offer, they deserve better than what they deal themselves.
When they aren't being stupid, they're a pretty decent package for relationships. It's why I gave that last Libra dude a shot, despite past experiences, because I know what they're capable of in relationships and figured why not.
...and then that's where it gets frustrating- you give them a chance and they fuck it up.
Then they wonder why they get so much flack.
Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
I so agree with you there
No one wants to be friends with a fake person, but yet some libras get mad that people will leave them if they find out who they really are, but if you were real to begin with you wouldn't have any problems, pretending your something your not is sad, to never face the truth then get angry when your called out on your B.S is funny as hell cause they will still try to lie their way out of itclick to expand
Precisely! Thanks for that elaboration. They'll end up alone if people started seeing them for their fakeness. Oh wait! No, they won't. They have their line up of exes who they can fall back on (safety blanket). Lol.
At least they are self-aware and know the possibility of being abandoned one day for their fake bullshit. Lol
Posted by aquarius09
agreeable could also have to so with him being lazy. Libra men tend to be lazy. I do agree that overall male nonsense is coming from mommy issues. I learned in a psychology class that if u come across a delusional or messed up male, look into his family background particularly his relationship with his mom. If he was neglected, you got your answer
Yeah, I've noticed that trend too. Mommy issues are a bit of a red flag and a turn off- with any male.
Most guys that I've met who act as crazy as they do- use women, sleep around, serial date, act really weird, all had issues with mom growing up. Or maybe didn't have a significant father figure in their life.
Posted by aquarius09
Yes, I noticed that material competitiveness in them, but the only difference is that they truly can't afford to live large. Their credit history sucks because they can't afford it, but still do it. I'm just amazed at why would u drown yourself in debt just to one up people. Why don't u just get help so that other people don't affect u.click to expand
This one can afford it though, mostly. I'm sure he has a bit of debt involved though. He talks about saving up for a house, but that was ages ago, and he continues to buy random crap because he can. It's like you're never going to save up a house payment if you keep doing this.
Him whipping out his Amex for a lot of purchases is telling, too.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
Given what they have to offer, they deserve better than what they deal themselves.
When they aren't being stupid, they're a pretty decent package for relationship.click to expand
No! No! No! Nobody deserves better until they fix their issues (whatever they may be) because if you don't fix it, you are going to not just screw up, but you will always screw up the person who is with you. That becomes an ongoing cycle. I've met women scarred by their ex boyfriends with issues. These ex bfs weren't all libras, assorted signs. People deserve better when they fix their issues and then tackle a relationship
Most libra males always find a way to sabotage a relationship when things look good for some reason, my bf included, he was like that in the begining
I'm like are you freaking kidding me, but with alittle understanding of why he was doing what he was doing, made it clear, but still a stupid thing to do, all of the fear that something about that he didn't want me to know would make me leave him, but I left him in the begining for lying, but it took time and we are good, we have our moments but the self sabotage, it's just ridiculous
I'm like are you freaking kidding me, but with alittle understanding of why he was doing what he was doing, made it clear, but still a stupid thing to do, all of the fear that something about that he didn't want me to know would make me leave him, but I left him in the begining for lying, but it took time and we are good, we have our moments but the self sabotage, it's just ridiculous
Posted by aquarius09Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
Given what they have to offer, they deserve better than what they deal themselves.
When they aren't being stupid, they're a pretty decent package for relationship.
No! No! No! Nobody deserves better until they fix their issues (whatever they may be) because if you don't fix it, you are going to not just screw up, but you will always screw up the person who is with you. That becomes an ongoing cycle. I've met women scarred by their ex boyfriends with issues. These ex bfs weren't all libras, assorted signs. People deserve better when they fix their issues and then tackle a relationshipclick to expand
I agree but you know this would only happen in a perfect world... so all people can really do is learn from there mistakes... unless they're insane 😛
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
I so agree with you there
No one wants to be friends with a fake person, but yet some libras get mad that people will leave them if they find out who they really are, but if you were real to begin with you wouldn't have any problems, pretending your something your not is sad, to never face the truth then get angry when your called out on your B.S is funny as hell cause they will still try to lie their way out of it
Precisely! Thanks for that elaboration. They'll end up alone if people started seeing them for their fakeness. Oh wait! No, they won't. They have their line up of exes who they can fall back on (safety blanket). Lol.
At least they are self-aware and know the possibility of being abandoned one day for their fake bullshit. Lolclick to expand
I swear Aqua, I was just saying the same thing, about how libra males always seem to keep in touch with their Exs, i mean all of their Exs, I swear that I don't get why they do that, what the hell is the point
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
I so agree with you there
No one wants to be friends with a fake person, but yet some libras get mad that people will leave them if they find out who they really are, but if you were real to begin with you wouldn't have any problems, pretending your something your not is sad, to never face the truth then get angry when your called out on your B.S is funny as hell cause they will still try to lie their way out of it
Precisely! Thanks for that elaboration. They'll end up alone if people started seeing them for their fakeness. Oh wait! No, they won't. They have their line up of exes who they can fall back on (safety blanket). Lol.
At least they are self-aware and know the possibility of being abandoned one day for their fake bullshit. Lol
I swear Aqua, I was just saying the same thing, about how libra males always seem to keep in touch with their Exs, i mean all of their Exs, I swear that I don't get why they do that, what the hell is the pointclick to expand
Why do they keep their exes around? Lol. It's quite simple. In fact if you google that question (LOL) one of the top search result is "Libra hubby says door is always open for exes". LMAO! On that website all these women shared the same aggravation. Anyway, the answer has to do with indecisiveness/second guessing themselves. God forbid if they were wrong about leaving the ex, they wanna be able to come back. You probably saw on this forum how libras are notorious for making come backs.
Posted by aquarius09
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
Yes, yes but on the flip side of that it's just as much the girls responsibility to understand when she's come across a guy with a lot of baggage and that he's not ready to be in a relationship and it's her responsibility to get out of it. If the girl can't recognize that it's probably because she has baggage too.
There are too many girls that come here get treated poorly and blame it on the guy when they need to take responsibility for their share and understand that they LET the guy treat them that way and yet they continued to stay in said relationship. And so many come on here asking "omg why is [insert sign here] being cold/distant/disappear" and refuse to look at the obvious truth (maybe because of inflated ego or pride) that he's just not that into them.
Posted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikkiPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
I so agree with you there
No one wants to be friends with a fake person, but yet some libras get mad that people will leave them if they find out who they really are, but if you were real to begin with you wouldn't have any problems, pretending your something your not is sad, to never face the truth then get angry when your called out on your B.S is funny as hell cause they will still try to lie their way out of it
Precisely! Thanks for that elaboration. They'll end up alone if people started seeing them for their fakeness. Oh wait! No, they won't. They have their line up of exes who they can fall back on (safety blanket). Lol.
At least they are self-aware and know the possibility of being abandoned one day for their fake bullshit. Lol
I swear Aqua, I was just saying the same thing, about how libra males always seem to keep in touch with their Exs, i mean all of their Exs, I swear that I don't get why they do that, what the hell is the point
Why do they keep their exes around? Lol. It's quite simple. In fact if you google that question (LOL) one of the top search result is "Libra hubby says door is always open for exes". LMAO! On that website all these women shared the same aggravation. Anyway, the answer has to do with indecisiveness/second guessing themselves. God forbid if they were wrong about leaving the ex, they wanna be able to come back. You probably saw on this forum how libras are notorious for making come backs.click to expand
Very true,
Posted by aquarius09Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
Given what they have to offer, they deserve better than what they deal themselves.
When they aren't being stupid, they're a pretty decent package for relationship.
No! No! No! Nobody deserves better until they fix their issues (whatever they may be) because if you don't fix it, you are going to not just screw up, but you will always screw up the person who is with you. That becomes an ongoing cycle. I've met women scarred by their ex boyfriends with issues. These ex bfs weren't all libras, assorted signs. People deserve better when they fix their issues and then tackle a relationshipclick to expand
Yes, I know. I'm not saying they deserve that despite their stupid behavior. It's just sad that overall, they do deserve better than what they give themselves WITH this behavior. But they self sabotage.
All the ones who suffer from this misc. bs should stay away from dating until they get their shit together. I think that's a huge issue in the dating pool, people are dating who have no business to be doing so.
Posted by aquarius09
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
I freaking HATE it when people do this. It's so freaking psychotic. I was talking to someone about this last night. People who cannot be single and rely on relationships for their happiness have some serious issues and should not be touched with a 10 foot pole. There is something wrong with people who cannot be single or take time off between relationships to recoup.
Posted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
Yes, yes but on the flip side of that it's just as much the girls responsibility to understand when she's come across a guy with a lot of baggage and that he's not ready to be in a relationship and it's her responsibility to get out of it. If the girl can't recognize that it's probably because she has baggage too.
There are too many girls that come here get treated poorly and blame it on the guy when they need to take responsibility for their share and understand that they LET the guy treat them that way and yet they continued to stay in said relationship. And so many come on here asking "omg why is [insert sign here] being cold/distant/disappear" and refuse to look at the obvious truth (maybe because of inflated ego or pride) that he's just not that into them.click to expand
+1
This is why I get so annoyed with the morons here who encourage all that bad behavior/grey area that exists with guys.
"Oh, he's distant because he has these deep seated feelings, blah blah (some other idiotic reasoning for asshole behavior)."
Address the issue or drop him. Pick one because that's what needs to be done.
Sure, blame is on the guy for even daring to behave like that with someone he supposedly cares about, but women gotta realize that guys push and will continue to do so if you allowed them to push to begin with. You can blame social upbringing on that tactic.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
I freaking HATE it when people do this. It's so freaking psychotic. I was talking to someone about this last night. People who cannot be single and rely on relationships for their happiness have some serious issues and should not be touched with a 10 foot pole. There is something wrong with people who cannot be single or take time off between relationships to recoup.click to expand
LMAO@psychotic and shouldn't be touched with a 10 feet pole.
I agree, but the hard part is to identify such a person. Nobody ever admits to being that way especially not a potential interest. That's not gonna go down well if your love interest tells you that they don't know how to be single. Imagine such a world. Hilarious!
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by aquarius09Posted by TaurusNikki
IMHO
I fine that libra men want a girl other guys want to have, it's a ego boost thing
That is so freaking stupid
It's a serious low self-esteem issue. It's all about "I feel like shit on my own so to conceal that in front of others, I'll get a dime to be cool by association. Voila! Now nobody has to know how lowly I think of myself."
Given what they have to offer, they deserve better than what they deal themselves.
When they aren't being stupid, they're a pretty decent package for relationship.
No! No! No! Nobody deserves better until they fix their issues (whatever they may be) because if you don't fix it, you are going to not just screw up, but you will always screw up the person who is with you. That becomes an ongoing cycle. I've met women scarred by their ex boyfriends with issues. These ex bfs weren't all libras, assorted signs. People deserve better when they fix their issues and then tackle a relationship
All the ones who suffer from this misc. bs should stay away from dating until they get their shit together. I think that's a huge issue in the dating pool, people are dating who have no business to be doing so.click to expand
+1!
I'd want them to suffer for their self-sabotage so they learn a lesson or two, but sadly that's not the case. They go and replace you to repeat the cycle as quickly as they came.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by xtinaPosted by aquarius09
Not knowing how to be single/alone is a serious flaw. You rely on someone else for your happiness. I'm going to go after libra men here because I see how their shit affects others. They don't break up, take sometime off to reflect and them get into another relationship. They relinquish the current partner only when akother partner is secured in the shadows. So they just bring the baggage of the previous relationship into the new one. New partner suffers the shortcomings of the last partner until they get replaced. This way, the libra male never fixes his head but just keeps piling on his issues and the process all those poor girls that cross paths with them get their psyche ruined.
Yes, yes but on the flip side of that it's just as much the girls responsibility to understand when she's come across a guy with a lot of baggage and that he's not ready to be in a relationship and it's her responsibility to get out of it. If the girl can't recognize that it's probably because she has baggage too.
There are too many girls that come here get treated poorly and blame it on the guy when they need to take responsibility for their share and understand that they LET the guy treat them that way and yet they continued to stay in said relationship. And so many come on here asking "omg why is [insert sign here] being cold/distant/disappear" and refuse to look at the obvious truth (maybe because of inflated ego or pride) that he's just not that into them.
+1
This is why I get so annoyed with the morons here who encourage all that bad behavior/grey area that exists with guys.
"Oh, he's distant because he has these deep seated feelings, blah blah (some other idiotic reasoning for asshole behavior)."
Address the issue or drop him. Pick one because that's what needs to be done.
Sure, blame is on the guy for even daring to behave like that with someone he supposedly cares about, but women gotta realize that guys push and will continue to do so if you allowed them to push to begin with. You can blame social upbringing on that tactic.click to expand
True say! Women are guilty of that! I see two reasons for that: 1) Savior syndrome or 2) I want what I want and I
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