So I met her!!!

This topic was created in the Libra forum by thelibran on Wednesday, February 21, 2007 and has 19 replies.
I planned the whole trip to meet one Gemini named V.V and by the time I landed I had plans to meet two geminis both V.V sharing same surname. Discovering that both had the same surname and studied in the same college and did the same course in 1 year gap almost gave me a weird feeling. The new V.V girl turned out to be a real great company and made me feel like I knew her for long long time. She was just like how i expected the original V.V will be.(almost reminded me of James Stewart character in Vertigo)
Then on monday morning I started off to find her but figured out that she resigned from her old office. Then later discovered her new office and went that side. On my way I called her on office phone and told mer Its M. she said.. Ohh M.. am in a meeting, can i call u back. I told her ok... i hv mailed u my ph no. I was so thrilled bcoz till then no one has ever pronounced my name correctly till they make few attempts. I reached her office, she smiled and took the chocolates i got for her and told me she dont know me. It was great. She had a mysterious glow in her eyes and a sweet smile and showed no signs of surprise or shock. I told her may be it was someone else who used her identity but still she didnt gave any expression. She watched me closely and her eyes were glowing all throughout the conversation and she was busy defending herself telling me she is not the one. Her bf called me tat night and met up with him next day. A scorpio, just out of college kid, way insecure and possesive and was hostile towards me as if I was there to take his girl away from him. He kept of repeating that he know her for 2 years and she is not capable of doing anything like this.
I came back and then had a chat with her this morning in gtalk. She denied everything but displayed the same old character this girl was giving me online for last 30 months. She still denies everything. Tryin to walk in her shoes for a while, I think she dont have any choice than to deny everything.
She show no interest in finding the girl who used her identity.
She swears the same way with the same set of words and spellings like the other one.
She avoids answering key important questions.
I am almost certain I found her. But then she wont accept it. Well i didnt expected her to accept it right away. May be I will have to wait for a while. may be i shouldnt be making conclusions right now...
she even told me some colleague of her's answered the phone.
considering the facts that i was searching for her for 28 months and never found out anything and just like that one time when i searched i found her and every last bit of information matched with her and i found some mole from her gang who gave me valuable info without any pain... It all happened like same old Divine Timing. I played it well to see the chances...
what you think is happening... am i just being plain nuts???
I don't understand.
You were talking to a girl online and tracked her down? If you did that to me, I would never admit it was me. I would be terrified. Men don't understand how scarey it is too have them show up unannounced at your work or whatever, especially when you never told them where you work or whatever.
Don't do this type of thing. It makes you look scarey crazy. JMO
Yea i tracked her down. lol.. i wanted to give her the shock. bcoz she has been eating me up slowly over the years... Winking
Thelibran, that was scary dude.. She probably thinks you are a phsyco... Dude, please don't do that again... Weird...
WOW!
NEVER, EVER do that again. We aren't kidding.
wont be doin that again. I just went on for some adventure after getting fed up of playing mind games. Now i am suffering from the excessive brain works and emotional complications i went through. Sad anyway the other gemini I met turned out to be one fine company... makes me feel tat could be the possible reason behind all these adventures and stupidities...
and i didnt did it to invade personal space. I was balancing myself off from the emotional cr@p she dropped on me over these years. Now am all relaxed and emptied a whole complex database i have been carrying...
** didnt did it to invade personal space.
Researching her. Finding her number, showing up at her work ... that MOST DEFINETLY invaded her personal space. It really doesn't matter what your intent was.
If you didn't like the games she was playing, simply walk away. We always have a choice with what and who we allow into our lives.
I wish I could walk away... But it was never easy and never happened... Trouble with meeting a gemini...
wait a minute - if she wasnt she - how did she get your phone # when you emailed it to her????? and then her bf called you and you met up with him?
i mailed it to her orkut profile as well the chat frnds email id since i dunno which one she might be opening first.
"Maybe all of your caring emails was to get me to end my initial play. Or maybe you really would have cared for me? I'm really sorry for all that. It all happend because I played with u in the beginning, but didn't know how to end it. In some unfortunate moments, my fingers typed in things without the command from my brain. Sometimes I wished for continuing this, not to lose your friendship, but thats too much to wish for, when I use the fake ID card. Now, I've end my play. You know I'm fake, right from the beginning. But, you wished my identity to be true. But, the fact is not the same. I played with you for nothing, and most of the time to spend time with someone who cared for me. You said, you thought I really loved you and it was just my identity that kept me away. Yes thats true, I really liked/respected/loved you but it was my ID/play that kept me away from you. I would just have kept quiet without replying you, but I wanted to tell you what I have to tell you, give you an answer. Anyways, I wanna to stop ranting and blabbering now. I dont have that playful nature anymore.Life is tough for me. I have to live it."
tats the base reason why i started all these... tats from her mail...

now am all hooked up with the new gem girl I met. she calls me regularly. I call her regularly... sweet talks.. great fun... i started wondering if i need to go back to tat town and spend this weekend with her... Sad
Huh??????
Personally, I think you should start getting a CLEAR HEAD, dude!
where did you meet her?
at her office.
Just a warning, thelibran: red flags, dude, red flags. Be cautious for YOUR sake, okay?
Always careful Atom. thanks... A part of me is bloody curious and was out of balance. I had to take my chances and figure out how far the rabbit holes goes...

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