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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
I planned the whole trip to meet one Gemini named V.V and by the time I landed I had plans to meet two geminis both V.V sharing same surname. Discovering that both had the same surname and studied in the same college and did the same course in 1 year gap almost gave me a weird feeling. The new V.V girl turned out to be a real great company and made me feel like I knew her for long long time. She was just like how i expected the original V.V will be.(almost reminded me of James Stewart character in Vertigo)
Then on monday morning I started off to find her but figured out that she resigned from her old office. Then later discovered her new office and went that side. On my way I called her on office phone and told mer Its M. she said.. Ohh M.. am in a meeting, can i call u back. I told her ok... i hv mailed u my ph no. I was so thrilled bcoz till then no one has ever pronounced my name correctly till they make few attempts. I reached her office, she smiled and took the chocolates i got for her and told me she dont know me. It was great. She had a mysterious glow in her eyes and a sweet smile and showed no signs of surprise or shock. I told her may be it was someone else who used her identity but still she didnt gave any expression. She watched me closely and her eyes were glowing all throughout the conversation and she was busy defending herself telling me she is not the one. Her bf called me tat night and met up with him next day. A scorpio, just out of college kid, way insecure and possesive and was hostile towards me as if I was there to take his girl away from him. He kept of repeating that he know her for 2 years and she is not capable of doing anything like this.
I came back and then had a chat with her this morning in gtalk. She denied everything but displayed the same old character this girl was giving me online for last 30 months. She still denies everything. Tryin to walk in her shoes for a while, I think she dont have any choice than to deny everything.
She show no interest in finding the girl who used her identity.
She swears the same way with the same set of words and spellings like the other one.
She avoids answering key important questions.
I am almost certain I found her. But then she wont accept it. Well i didnt expected her to accept it right away. May be I will have to wait for a while. may be i shouldnt be making conclusions right now...
she even told me some colleague of her's answered the phone.
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
considering the facts that i was searching for her for 28 months and never found out anything and just like that one time when i searched i found her and every last bit of information matched with her and i found some mole from her gang who gave me valuable info without any pain... It all happened like same old Divine Timing. I played it well to see the chances...
what you think is happening... am i just being plain nuts???
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
I don't understand.
You were talking to a girl online and tracked her down? If you did that to me, I would never admit it was me. I would be terrified. Men don't understand how scarey it is too have them show up unannounced at your work or whatever, especially when you never told them where you work or whatever.
Don't do this type of thing. It makes you look scarey crazy. JMO
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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
Thelibran, that was scary dude.. She probably thinks you are a phsyco... Dude, please don't do that again... Weird...
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
WOW!
NEVER, EVER do that again. We aren't kidding.
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
** didnt did it to invade personal space.
Researching her. Finding her number, showing up at her work ... that MOST DEFINETLY invaded her personal space. It really doesn't matter what your intent was.
If you didn't like the games she was playing, simply walk away. We always have a choice with what and who we allow into our lives.
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
I wish I could walk away... But it was never easy and never happened... Trouble with meeting a gemini...
wait a minute - if she wasnt she - how did she get your phone # when you emailed it to her????? and then her bf called you and you met up with him?
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
i mailed it to her orkut profile as well the chat frnds email id since i dunno which one she might be opening first.
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
Personally, I think you should start getting a CLEAR HEAD, dude!
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Jan 05, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1715 · Topics: 63
Just a warning, thelibran: red flags, dude, red flags. Be cautious for YOUR sake, okay?
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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
Always careful Atom. thanks... A part of me is bloody curious and was out of balance. I had to take my chances and figure out how far the rabbit holes goes...