Sorry but I have to say this ...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by oxlostxo on Tuesday, June 21, 2011 and has 110 replies.
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Posted by oxlostxo
Libra guys are jerks ...



I'd love to prove you otherwise Winking.
Posted by Freetobe007
Libra guys seem to be great for flings or friendships with not so much attachment, but not if you want to fall in love


I can't agree more.
I'm a Gemini and I'm usually not that attached, but Libra's are so aloof and get caught up in their own world.
If there's anything worse, it's an Aries girl. They're jerkettes, bullies and sharks. They know it, but ram their way through anyway, making other people look wrong when they are.
Posted by Batuk
Posted by oxlostxo
Libra guys are jerks ...



LEARN HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR MATE, YOU BITCH! If this is your opinion of Libra guys, then thank you for expressing it precisely!
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Oh ... you got so worked up ... I didn't know you are a libra guy ...
And to the rest ... you can hate Ariens as much as you like, this topic wasn't made to compare us with Libra ... this is a pure expression of how I perceive Libra guys based on what I came across so far, and from the look of it I am not the only one who feels this way ... so take it however you like ...
Libra was never truly a good match for Leo, Aries or Sag. Fire signs. You're right lovebucket, for friendship or flings only. The temperament if air cannot meet or keep up with the temperament of fire. Where fire is fulfilled and energized by air. Air is depleted by too much fire. That's Why libra withdraws. From there, the fire sign person feels a lack of their "food" which is air, but the air is gone to recharge themselves.
It's not quite so libra is jerkish - they don't impose or demand their needs be met. They just failed to meet your expectations.
The libra is a most sincere lover. To say otherwise means they must not have loved thee enough to stay.
ESPECIALLY aries, not sans Aries!
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Nice take on things though spicachu smile

you're welcome squirrepithet!
Batuk, you're right about the ideology. Libras disposition is vey gentle and passive. They're just inert and usually undemonstrative. I can imagine Aries demanding libra to give her whatever she wants or fulfill her whims, and Leo needing libra to constantly display affection, which obviously libra will move away from if they've got any sense.
Yes, that's why I question the Aries who wants to be with a Libra. Our basic temperaments are so incompatible. Aries who want to be with libra are in it for themselves only. It's very basic because Aries is the sign of the self, so libra will always have to defer to them. Libra usually leaves when he understands it, and Aries will call them a jerk because lumbar doesn't meet her expectations.
You're born in the year of monkey? Monkey is Leos equivalent, why don't ya rap that too
Sorry about that lumbar reference. Phones are in built secular Tongue and prolly didn't like any Astro reference
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
It's very basic because Aries is the sign of the self, so libra will always have to defer to them. Libra usually leaves when he understands it, and Aries will call them a jerk because lumbar doesn't meet her expectations.


Exactly!
But I never had experience with Aries, like you had. Either way, being too demanding with their partner is a sign of immaturity, and IMMATURE PEOPLE DOES NOT DESERVE LOVE!!!!!
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My experience with Aries is as old as my life. Tongue
They're just not compatible with Libras that I know.
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
Monkey is Leos equivalent,


What is that mean? I was born in the year of monkey,too.
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monkey = Leo, dog= libra, dragon = Aries, horse = gemini
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
You're born in the year of monkey? Monkey is Leos equivalent, why don't ya rap that too


Oh shush !
Monkey yes (Squirrel Monkey ?smile)
Leo - bleurgh !
Although supposedly according to the North/South node thing I need to turn into a cat to become one with my true nature :/
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why did you abandon that acct? It was going so well. Was it p- angels reference? Hahaha
Now I know why both of you dislike Leos. Leos tend to dislike/ be competitive with each other
Lol
Posted by Batuk
Interesting. I never knew that there were connection between Chinese and Western astrology.

It's connected and they match up in big points
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
Now I know why both of you dislike Leos. Leos tend to dislike/ be competitive with each other


And what year did you born? dragon?
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Not dragon Tongue
Posted by everevolvingepithet
The roosters were all posers ha

Tongue roosters are Virgo I think
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
Now I know why both of you dislike Leos. Leos tend to dislike/ be competitive with each other


I always thought it`s because my brother`s and my ASC weren`t compatible. Aqua VS Scorp
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Could be too.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Some of the Chinese traits are way more insightful than Western imo.
Even if they describe a whole years worth of peeps, if I remember back to my school days, the ones in the 'older' portion of the years/class were pretty much like the Monkey descriptions haha

no the older kids had the previous years animal, because the Chinese calendar starts ard march or something
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
Now I know why both of you dislike Leos. Leos tend to dislike/ be competitive with each other


And what year did you born? dragon?

Not dragon Tongue


Wanna play hangman, spica?
_ _ _ _ _ _ ?
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No, I'm secretive like that for no reason. Saying the animal makes it easy to guess the age now..
Doesn't matter ya?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by spica
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Some of the Chinese traits are way more insightful than Western imo.
Even if they describe a whole years worth of peeps, if I remember back to my school days, the ones in the 'older' portion of the years/class were pretty much like the Monkey descriptions haha

no the older kids had the previous years animal, because the Chinese calendar starts ard march or something


Nah, the year went October - June/July, so for 1980:
Upper tier - Monkey
Lower tier - Rooster
kwim ?
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hmm something new, but okay smile
Shut up Batuk, your sag moon ran wild again. That didn't even deserve a response, LOL.
And note the two subjects are unrelated.
Hahahahahaha. Yes I am older than you.
Big Grin
Shutup now mmkay? I need to go. Who cares about age anyway. It's not important.
I have nothing to prove to you. Sayonara.
Posted by oxlostxo
Libra guys are jerks ...



libras have a tendency to say one thing and do another. i am guilty of this sometimes but i don't do it to hurt people. it just happens you know and i always feel bad.
anyhow if you're an aries, you should go after libras with strong aries placements or leo placements.
they'll understand you more.
and us libras should go after fire signs with strong air (libra, aqua, gemini) placements. the aries guy i'm currently interested in has gemini moon, gemini mars, aquarius rising and aquarius saturn so he is super soft-mannered and laid back and i feel super understood by him.
it's all about finding someone who is similar to you in some ways. this will increase your chances of getting along well together.
Batuk, you are an old man dressed as a young girl on the Internet? How scary you are.
Is this how sag moon behave when they dint get the info they want?
Posted by LoveBucket
continued from my last post:
. . . which is why I posted above I don't get it how astrology states Libra male and Leo women are a good match together.

yes I understand your post. A friend of mine is a Leo with cancer venus. I think a fellow fire sign suits her the best.. One with lots of earth too.
Posted by Batuk
But honestly,....once again, you`re a VIRGIN.



what's wrong with being a virgin? i'm a virgin. is there anything you want to say to me as well? lol
Posted by MelanieG
Posted by oxlostxo
Libra guys are jerks ...



libras have a tendency to say one thing and do another. i am guilty of this sometimes but i don't do it to hurt people. it just happens you know and i always feel bad.
anyhow if you're an aries, you should go after libras with strong aries placements or leo placements.
they'll understand you more.
and us libras should go after fire signs with strong air (libra, aqua, gemini) placements. the aries guy i'm currently interested in has gemini moon, gemini mars, aquarius rising and aquarius saturn so he is super soft-mannered and laid back and i feel super understood by him.
it's all about finding someone who is similar to you in some ways. this will increase your chances of getting along well together.

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Good luck with your ares.
Wow you looking for an answer aren't you? I won't give it, so what. Go hang yourself.
Batuk you crazy lesbian, go get bluemoon.
NO. Does that make me virgin in my past life too?
Ok I'm gone, au revoir Winking
Posted by spica
Posted by MelanieG
Posted by oxlostxo
Libra guys are jerks ...



libras have a tendency to say one thing and do another. i am guilty of this sometimes but i don't do it to hurt people. it just happens you know and i always feel bad.
anyhow if you're an aries, you should go after libras with strong aries placements or leo placements.
they'll understand you more.
and us libras should go after fire signs with strong air (libra, aqua, gemini) placements. the aries guy i'm currently interested in has gemini moon, gemini mars, aquarius rising and aquarius saturn so he is super soft-mannered and laid back and i feel super understood by him.
it's all about finding someone who is similar to you in some ways. this will increase your chances of getting along well together.


Good luck with your ares.
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thanks! things are moving reeeeeeaaly slowly between me and him right now but i want to build a strong foundation so if we ever do decide to get into a relationship, we would already have that stable, magical bond between us. but i have this weird tendency to turn into an overdramatic leo chick when i'm in love with someone and i get a little impatient and crazy (venus in leo influence lol) but me being a libra, i'm also super diplomatic and charming. a bit of a smooth talker if you will LOL people always find it easy to warm up to me because i'm so accomodating haha
My bro is a libra ... one thing i can say is they know how to talk, but he was never known to be a jerk.
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
It's very basic because Aries is the sign of the self, so libra will always have to defer to them. Libra usually leaves when he understands it, and Aries will call them a jerk because lumbar doesn't meet her expectations.


Exactly!
But I never had experience with Aries, like you had. Either way, being too demanding with their partner is a sign of immaturity, and IMMATURE PEOPLE DOES NOT DESERVE LOVE!!!!!
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What are you both on about? I never said I was romantically interested in a libra .. And never will, for all the reasons mentioned earlier .. My views on libra guys are a result of libra males that I studied or worked with ... So far the only sign that managed to capture the heart of this Aries is a Capricorn .. And you guys don't and will never compare
^ Amy .. I think there are few of her kind on this board .. It's sort of sad
Posted by amethyst2002
Posted by oxlostxo
^ Amy .. I think there are few of her kind on this board .. It's sort of sad


The sheep/cult mentality? There's several on DXP overall.
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Yeah ... those who dig their teeth and claws into anyone who posts a question or give an opinion on something ..
Posted by oldskoolflavor
Dear xolostxo
you're so perceptive and objective,
your opinion should be shoved down our throats and become reality
(the kind of aries spica refers to in her posts ^^)



That's not how it is ... I don't like people agreeing to everything I say or ask of them ... I call that doormat behaviour ... and I lose respect to such a person ... but it annoyes me when people refuse to listen before they dismiss an idea ... from my experience with dealing with Libra it goes like this ... we both have an idea ... before they listen to my input ... they are already arguing that things should be done their way ... but then I'd have to stick my ground and make them listen ... not forcing the idea ... but just try and let them see it from another angle ... so after being done kicking and screaming they realise that I am not going anywhere until they listen ... when they do finally listen, it goes like this:
1. they realise "hmmmm ... this isn't a bad idea actually ... yeah you are right" ... well ... yeah my a s s ... what do you think i've been trying to tell you all this time?
2. Instead of just forcing the idea across, they finally decide to provide reasoning why they chose such an idea ... and if the logic behind their idea holds .. then i have no problem what so ever ...
It's all about having a discussion where I listen to you and you listen to me and then we get to pick based on the reasoning given ... but with libra ... they always try to make it one way ... i never had trouble dealing with people like I have with libra ...
Posted by oldskoolflavor
sounds like you've ran into libras who view women as irrational/illogical,
because of their emotional nature
you'll be dismissed in a first time because of that assumption
not saying it's fair, but it happens


Yeah i think the ones i met are that sort, but that's the sort i've ever came across, there is one of them at my current work ... i hate working with him ... whatever you ask him ... the first answer that comes out of his mouth is NO ... wouldn't you call that narrow minded? .. meh ... I am yet to come across a good Libra ... but on the other hands .. libra girls are alright, we get along pretty well
Posted by Batuk
Posted by oxlostxo
Posted by Batuk
Posted by spica
It's very basic because Aries is the sign of the self, so libra will always have to defer to them. Libra usually leaves when he understands it, and Aries will call them a jerk because lumbar doesn't meet her expectations.


Exactly!
But I never had experience with Aries, like you had. Either way, being too demanding with their partner is a sign of immaturity, and IMMATURE PEOPLE DOES NOT DESERVE LOVE!!!!!


What are you both on about? I never said I was romantically interested in a libra .. And never will, for all the reasons mentioned earlier .. My views on libra guys are a result of libra males that I studied or worked with ... So far the only sign that managed to capture the heart of this Aries is a Capricorn .. And you guys don't and will never compare


And who cares if you don`t capture them, I`m glad that at least one Aries is keeping distance from us.
How does it sound to you "Libras will never be interested in Aries, Aquarius is our best friend,we will never compare you to them". It sounds just like who the fuck cares? Huh? Yours was the same.
Just put me on your ignore list , bitch.
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Aquarius may be libra's best friend, but Aquarius is Aries' best friend Winking Overall, libra gets stabbed for Aries. Aries is one of the finest matches for Aqua. Look it up if you don't believe me.
"Aquarius may be libra's best friend, but Aquarius is Aries' best friend Overall, libra gets stabbed for Aries. Aries is one of the finest matches for Aqua. Look it up if you don't believe me."
Exactly. I know this too. But Aries stabs Aqua in the back. Aqua, however, goes to Aries' aid without knowing this.
Aquas prefer Aries to Libra. They aren't Libra's best friends. If anything, the best type of Aqua has Libra's worship and respect, for the rest, it is Libra's mistake.
Posted by spica
"Aquarius may be libra's best friend, but Aquarius is Aries' best friend Overall, libra gets stabbed for Aries. Aries is one of the finest matches for Aqua. Look it up if you don't believe me."
Exactly. I know this too. But Aries stabs Aqua in the back. Aqua, however, goes to Aries' aid without knowing this.
Aquas prefer Aries to Libra. They aren't Libra's best friends. If anything, the best type of Aqua has Libra's worship and respect, for the rest, it is Libra's mistake.



Well said, Spica!!
Thanks smile
Posted by annabeIIsxo
Posted by spica
If anything, the best type of Aqua has Libra's worship and respect, for the rest, it is Libra's mistake.



It is mutual though.. with the Aqua Libra thing. Libra worships his Aqua.. and she will do the same for him in return. Aqua rules Libra's 5th house of love and affection bestowed. "He will want to return her love 10 fold"
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Aqua-Libra is based on worship - not an equal footing. Libra sees Aqua as a sort of Goddess that bestows them with blessings.
Not saying that is a bad thing. I have an Aqua Guru, and she's the best.
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