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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
1. He keeps sending you mixed signals b/c you keep accepting them.
2. He doesn't know who he is or what he wants out of life yet, so it's no wonder his relationship with you is rocky. He can't be the best man for you if he's not even the best man to/for himself
3. You guys are both playing mind games with eachother. If you don't want to be together, fine, BUT leave eachother alone & stop going back & forth. Either break up & be done for good OR agree to work on your problems & stay until they're resolved (if possible)
4. You're confused b/c YOU keep going back to him. You can't make sense out of non-sense. If you allowed yourself more than a 10 minute break from him, you'd give yourself more time to sort out your emotions & figure out what YOU want. B/c what YOU want is 10xs more important than what everyone else wants. Stop giving him the power & remote control to what happens in a relationship that YOU're apart of & that you have equal say in.
5. If the past few years have been filled with the same mixed signals & uncertainty, what makes you think another few years will be different? He can't AND won't change what he doesn't acknowledge. And he'll never face his inner issues if you always pop back up in his life around the time he was finally starting to look in the mirror b/c you doing that is a distraction & allows for the real issues to be swept under the rug
6. He was probably kissing your ass all that night b/c he hadn't seen/spoken with you in a long time & to him, you were probably looking smoking hot...i.e. he couldn't resist you
7. He's under the impression that he can come & go into/out of your life at any moment, & yet you still be there for him with open arms. You being this way may signal that you love him, but the only "signal" you're showing him when you allow this is that it's ok for him to have you & yet still give you the minimum
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
There's a slight chance that you could be wrong. Maybe his post wasn't about you. And if it wasn't & yet he's still not willing to discuss his post with you, that's an indication that he either doesn't want to talk about it with anyone period OR that he didn't intend on his readers to assume that his post was a direct shot at any specific person
Leave him alone. He got your phone calls & texts. He knows exactly what you want, but is choosing not to contact you. You can't force him or anyone else to open up when they're not ready to, so save/spare yourself the energy/drain & allow him to come to you IF & when he's ready to
If you guys ever plan on having a successful & happy relationship, communication is the 1 area you 2 will BOTH have to work on. He can't expect for you to ever understand him, be there for him or work out issues with 1 another if 1 or both of you is too stubborn, selfish, or closed-off to talk about things, even when the convo is uncomfortable or 1 you both may want to put off
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OMG! Where to begin! I love Jon Snow, his travels off the wall will be awesome. And WOW about Drogo, I was upset he died. But the ending with Khaleesi and the little dragons was fantastic! I can't wait til next year for it to come back.
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2 and 3 are winners. 1 might make me feel some kind of way depending on how my day is going.