The infamous disappearing act, how to respond?

Posted by Jessy801
Right.... You will see , you will hurt yourself contacting them and they will accentuate the "no care" ... I was asking my Libra once before : "if you care how much I suffered for you , if you care just a little, then let us talk face to face , not by messenger ! " so , I asked him talk face to face after a long disappearing act and what do you think was happened after this ? He said " ok, we can meet In X day and talk" but after this, again he got the same attitude and disappeared again ! So , yes, someone there up say that is good never expecting anything from them to do for you, as in my case, they do nothing , they are always victime and waiting others do something for them. Life with a Libra is so tired, you need always make new things to keep him near you , always do efforts, so I don't sugest to anyone to wasting her time with a Libra man, there are lots of other men who appreciate you as you are, who appreciate what you do without extra effort or without to try hard to keep his balance ! Anyway when he will leave you in one day, even for a disappearing act or forever, he will have no any regret do to this ! They are so shameless and they think they are the best , they can do what they want with anyone , etc.... Run of Libra men as far as you can and find a man who deserving you and your love and who appreciate you !

Posted by notyourtype
Don't initiate contact because as much as we love attention, we dislike neediness 10x more. We're also flighty and don't like what's easily attainable. So be a challenge; live your life and do your own thing. And when/if we do contact you again, pretend like you didn't even notice we were gone. But you have to ACTUALLY be busy and fine without us because if you're simply putting up an act to get our attention, we'll sense it from a mile away and you'll find yourself right back where you started.
That said, I have never disappeared on someone I like. When I do pull the vanishing act it only means one thing: I'm not interested. And honestly, once I've decided that you're not the one, there's very little you can do to change that.

Posted by Aesma
I'm sorry, fiestagal, he's not that into you. People may say Libras are indecisive but when they do like someone, they'd always have time for them or if they can't make time, they'll make it up to you. They'd never make you feel neglected if they're really into you. They'd never do this disappearing act esp if they have to be away for a while, they'd find and make ways to reach you just to even say "Hi". If there's something serious going on in their life that they need to sort out, they'd tell you about it.
The only time I could see the disappearing act happen is if you hurt them really bad. In this case, there's an 80% chance there's no turning back.

Posted by pinklibra

Posted by notyourtype
Don't initiate contact because as much as we love attention, we dislike neediness 10x more. We're also flighty and don't like what's easily attainable. So be a challenge; live your life and do your own thing. And when/if we do contact you again, pretend like you didn't even notice we were gone. But you have to ACTUALLY be busy and fine without us because if you're simply putting up an act to get our attention, we'll sense it from a mile away and you'll find yourself right back where you started.
That said, I have never disappeared on someone I like. When I do pull the vanishing act it only means one thing: I'm not interested. And honestly, once I've decided that you're not the one, there's very little you can do to change that.

Now, THIS is true.
If he??s disappeared it means he??s not into you the way he think your into him. I say that because sometimes Libra??s can feel like someone really truly likes them a certain way and that??s not the case.lol. I??ve tooted my own horn before and the guy just genuinely wanted to be my friend. I was so glad when he told me, because I only liked him as a friend too, however the things he did made me think he might??ve wanted more, and since I??m not good with rejecting people with direct words I did it with my actions, such as disappearing in hopes he??ll forget about me in that way.
But yes, bottom line, if we like you and I mean really like we are not going to disappear. I must add, that we have a nack for playing tit-for-tat though, because we believe fair is fair for example I really like this sagg guy but he??s disappeared on me so ive disappeared too. He doesn??t call I wont call, he doesn??t text I wont text, but I only started doing that once I realized we may not be looking for the same thing. So I keep him at a distance out of fear of being hurt or disappointed. Still I know he likes me, and I like him so I haven??t completely pushed him away, he??s sort of a challenge and a little hard to read, the only thing that??s crystal clear is that he likes me, so I??m a little intrigued by him I guess.

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