Posted by Sweeetz
His Libra must have Cancer moon and/or Venus. This doesn't sound like a Libra. I've heard us described as clingy but I don't know that to be true. How can we be clingy and flighty at the same time?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
I just do it because I want to get laid, haha.
I'm dropping it because the friend side of it isn't good anymore and combining that with the sex is just no bueno. No basic level of consideration? No more nookie, sorry pal.
As George Carlin once stated- respect the provider of thy nookie. Doesn't matter if you're committed or not. A basic level of respect and courtesy should always be there, even if it's just sex.
Posted by theleomanPosted by rockyroadicecream
I just do it because I want to get laid, haha.
I'm dropping it because the friend side of it isn't good anymore and combining that with the sex is just no bueno. No basic level of consideration? No more nookie, sorry pal.
As George Carlin once stated- respect the provider of thy nookie. Doesn't matter if you're committed or not. A basic level of respect and courtesy should always be there, even if it's just sex.
and that is all i am sayingclick to expand
Posted by geminicandIePosted by WaterCupPosted by Sweeetz
His Libra must have Cancer moon and/or Venus. This doesn't sound like a Libra. I've heard us described as clingy but I don't know that to be true. How can we be clingy and flighty at the same time?
Libras can be like that, believe me. They don't take "No" for an answer in some cases. Even rudeness doesnt work. And no, they dont even need a lot of scorp or cancer to act clingy...a libra stellium is all they need.
Say whattttt???click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by theleomanPosted by rockyroadicecream
I just do it because I want to get laid, haha.
I'm dropping it because the friend side of it isn't good anymore and combining that with the sex is just no bueno. No basic level of consideration? No more nookie, sorry pal.
As George Carlin once stated- respect the provider of thy nookie. Doesn't matter if you're committed or not. A basic level of respect and courtesy should always be there, even if it's just sex.
and that is all i am saying
Same applies to you, honey buns.
I'm doing this because of my overall wellbeing.
You're doing it because your dick went limp after you had fun and shit got real. Do not compare.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by ANRivas2Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by geminicandIe
Well, no matter how good he was in the bedroom, I wouldn't respect someone who doesn't respect me back.
I would personally be turned off, but she could have some emotional issues and be even more attached!
It's actually kind of sad.
This behavior surprises me from a libra. She probably has a venus in scorpio or something.
It doesn't surprise me. I've seen it before.
And you all gotta remember, I work in a restaurant. That industry has the epitome of crazy all in one place. That's why so many of my experiences with signs are so extreme. I had a Libra chick that I worked with, insanely insecure, slept around like she was "empowered" but always woe is me because none of these guys took her seriously.
We don't know her side, but her actions are a little telling. This guy reminds me of my Leo friend who did the same shit. My friend was stringing some chick along as a fwb. She said she'd be fine, but she clearly wasn't. He went along with it, pretended to play dumb on the fact he was leading her on and knew she had a crush, but kept fucking her under the guise of fwb.
But when it came to holding accountability on his end of things, he was the victim and she was being crazy. No doubt she was, but I felt sorry for her because she was attempting fwb as a way to be with him to sate her crush, and he was just using that to his advantage to get laid.
This is a perfect description of men who take advantage of women and the women who let them, although you forgot the part where they ignore good guys for guys who just want to use them and then complain that all men are dirtbags.
Yeah, except that doesn't apply to the topic.click to expand
Posted by geminicandIe
I think even those people who do successfully manage fwb have some inner demons. Like they do some internal defense mechanisms in order to justify it and be truly okay with it. I know this sag woman who took that route; she told me she took pleasure in breaking men's hearts and making them suffer. It turns out she was revenging against her father who abandoned her as a little girl. Now, she is happily married to a scorpio man but it took a lot of therapy to get her there...
The goal for all of us is just love.
Posted by ANRivas2
To answer your question OP, i'd just completely cut off all contact and hope that she'll eventually feel so stupid that she'll stop. Question: how long have you gone without responding to her harassment since it started? To someone like that, any response can be encouragement, even a text saying you'll call the police on her lol. Also, if you've been keeping up contact with her and responding, and her only form of harassment has been texting and calling, you won't get a restraining order.
Posted by theleoman
I have only seen this Libra girl 2 times and she will not leave me alone> She now claims to be in love with me now. I only spoke to her on the phone for about 10 times see her twice, that was enough for me .
She was to demanding for attention expecting me 2 call and reply to text at anytime of day,it turned me off and I told her i was not interested .Plus it she seem way to attached and way to fast.
40 calls later and 40 text with no response from me she is still acting like everything is good and even states she knows I am not interested but is still saying things like its good terms although know its not.
I sent one text saying in a formal way discontinue calling this phone its harassment.
I basically want nothing to do with this person and she feels like i am obligated to talk to her.
She comes up with the most bizarre reasons that i should continue communicating with her i want her out of my life
Any tips?
Posted by pinklibra
I don??t care if he had my toes curling so tight they looked like gang signs
Posted by theleoman
40 calls later and 40 text
Posted by notyourtypePosted by DamnataPosted by theleoman
40 calls later and 40 text
So.much.precision
*eyeroll*
Ali Baba and the 40 thieves
My thoughts, exactly. His post just reeks of BS to me.click to expand
Posted by theleoman
and it shouldn't be turned around on me.
Posted by DamnataPosted by theleoman
and it shouldn't be turned around on me.
Pardon us for believing you are full of shit, pussy cat.
I will get back to this thread and point some things in your posts.
You just threw that "I had sex with her once" and it was all the women needed to jump on the "omg clingy crazy chick" train. And then starting fantasies in their minds about how good the D is, how good other D in their lives were and so on.click to expand
Posted by notyourtypePosted by theleoman
I am not actually getting a kick out of this someone in this thread asked me how many calls and text. Its actually a serious matter and it shouldn't be turned around on me. I am actually trying to get out of a situation . if someone says stop you should stop its not enjoyable.
So it never occurred to you to block her anywhere between the 10th and 30th subsequent calls/texts? If you make multiple requests to someone to stop contacting you and they still persist, the sensible thing to do would be to block them after the first few subsequent calls/texts. The fact that you'd waited so long makes your story questionable.
Posted by theleoman
Her calls are blocked but i can see them and the text messages go through, no other personal information but she does know my name
Curious what kind of phone and service provider you have. When you block someone, their call is blocked BEFORE it even reaches your phone. So the fact that you can still see her calls and messages leads me to believe that you're either BSing or you didn't actually block her.click to expand
Posted by theleoman
Its been blocked along time ago
Posted by tiziani
If you said no directly and cut them off, there's nothing more you can do other than move on. And possibly change your number.
Posted by blisss
I have a situation with a Libra who also won't leave me alone! Her moon is in Sagittarius. I asked her to leave me alone and move on with her life and now she's attempting to spy on me through passive aggressive means. After several years of not speaking, I don't understand why she came around again other than to extract revenge. But really why wait that many years?
Posted by mindofaquarius
I guess he didn't say no clear enough - she must be real crazy or desperate to keep pursuing him after a clear no. my last simular situation I had with a leo, he did say no - BUT he always returned giving me mixed signals, wanting to see me, flirting etc - so ehm.. that no was a no but it hooked my desperate yajayjay each and every time because he came back - always in a charming way -.-
so I'd reconsider how you turn down girls, maybe you should clearly cut off those who you don't want. u know looking for new pussy is way harder than returning to the doormat pussy. but don't complain about girls going crazy lol
Posted by blisss
I have a situation with a Libra who also won't leave me alone! Her moon is in Sagittarius. I asked her to leave me alone and move on with her life and now she's attempting to spy on me through passive aggressive means. After several years of not speaking, I don't understand why she came around again other than to extract revenge. But really why wait that many years?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by blisss
I have a situation with a Libra who also won't leave me alone! Her moon is in Sagittarius. I asked her to leave me alone and move on with her life and now she's attempting to spy on me through passive aggressive means. After several years of not speaking, I don't understand why she came around again other than to extract revenge. But really why wait that many years?
Sag moon = OMG HOW DARE YOU NOT WANT ME? I AM AMAZING AND EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE ME.click to expand
Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by blisss
I have a situation with a Libra who also won't leave me alone! Her moon is in Sagittarius. I asked her to leave me alone and move on with her life and now she's attempting to spy on me through passive aggressive means. After several years of not speaking, I don't understand why she came around again other than to extract revenge. But really why wait that many years?
Sag moon = OMG HOW DARE YOU NOT WANT ME? I AM AMAZING AND EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE ME.
Well, this could have some validity.....click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by LunarMaidenPosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by blisss
I have a situation with a Libra who also won't leave me alone! Her moon is in Sagittarius. I asked her to leave me alone and move on with her life and now she's attempting to spy on me through passive aggressive means. After several years of not speaking, I don't understand why she came around again other than to extract revenge. But really why wait that many years?
Sag moon = OMG HOW DARE YOU NOT WANT ME? I AM AMAZING AND EVERYONE SHOULD LOVE ME.
Well, this could have some validity.....
It's actually just a bit of a guess. Fire sign + being the Sag placement = hmm, probably can't stand the idea of not being wanted, maybe, and won't tolerate such an answer.
Sags do have an "all about me" thing going, you know.click to expand
Posted by pinklibra
Yall amaze me, lol. Like stalkers don??t exist and it??s impossible for this girl to really be this delusional over him. Why he gotta be full of shit? Because it never happen to you or because you never seen or witnessed it happen to someone YOU know? Now that??s bull right there.
Posted by EtienneLantier
"libra chicks don't do this stuff.." Seriously? Have you meet them all? We both know that the answer is no, so now you can tell me why did you say such thing.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by pinklibra
Yall amaze me, lol. Like stalkers don??t exist and it??s impossible for this girl to really be this delusional over him. Why he gotta be full of shit? Because it never happen to you or because you never seen or witnessed it happen to someone YOU know? Now that??s bull right there.
Again, the tile alone points out that he may not be as clear as he thinks he's being. If his stupid ass thinks telling a crazy chick to fuck off is "mean," then he's got his own problems to deal with, which begs the question of what's going on on his part?
I've had some ridiculous stalker shit happen to me and I did what had to be done. ...Got some idiotic flack for it, but I was making myself clear. Do what has to be done. If you tiptoe about it, shit ain't going to fix itself.
If he were truly sick of her shit, he'd have nipped it in the bud and wouldn't be concerned about being "mean" by telling this nutter to gtfo. Why's he so concerned about being mean about it? Why would he be worried about hurting her if he had no desire to have her around anymore?
Again, I'M not condoning her shit, but I have seen the dumb shit guys get themselves into because they thought with their penis, shit hits the fan, and all logic goes out the door and they continue to add fuel to the fire. Then it's pity party and all her fault.
I just don't think he's handling it like he says he is.click to expand
Posted by pinklibra
Yall amaze me, lol. Like stalkers don??t exist and it??s impossible for this girl to really be this delusional over him. Why he gotta be full of shit? Because it never happen to you or because you never seen or witnessed it happen to someone YOU know? Now that??s bull right there.
Ugh dxp is so irritating sometimes. Like someone would really go out of their way to make up a post about a girl stalking them to complete strangers just to get some attention. He don??t even know yall, why would he lie? He don??t owe yall anything lol. I read post on here every day that I can??t believe people have the audacity to write , so why are yall acting like that over his.smh.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Moral of the story? Keep your dick in your pants, stupid.
Posted by Sweeetz
His Libra must have Cancer moon and/or Venus. This doesn't sound like a Libra. I've heard us described as clingy but I don't know that to be true. How can we be clingy and flighty at the same time?
Posted by LIb4LifePosted by Sweeetz
His Libra must have Cancer moon and/or Venus. This doesn't sound like a Libra. I've heard us described as clingy but I don't know that to be true. How can we be clingy and flighty at the same time?
Pinklib, I am 100% in total agreement w/u. Either this chic is not a Libra or he's not telling the true whole truth. Something is very fishy here. If she is a Libra, and I have my doubts, she must be a very very very very rare Libra....like the only one in the Universe! Now, I'm not saying that we can't get silly, but like you Pinklib, in my 47 years on this earth I have never had a piece of dicky from ANY man that cause me to loose my self respect and dignity. In fact, it's a little sad to admit this, but most Libra's male and female are usually so dang arrogant and shallow at times that their ego's won't allow them to behave like this even if they tried...lol? For me, I would have to really really like you to act even remotely in this manner and trust me, you will have to lay the pipe more than two times, and if I call you once tor twice and you didn't return my call or text, I can guarantee you that you won't ever hear from me again. In fact, I realized as I got older that I probably screwed up a lot of potential good relationships when I was younger because of my arrogance, stubbornness and unwillingness to bend just a little when it came to
reciprocating my feelings. With this chic, I'm not even sure this is an age thing. If in fact, if this is true and you feel like your "sanity and safety is really being threatened, then you should definitely contact the authorities. As one of the posters stated, I would hate to see your situation on an episode of Snapped...Seriously, there is no amount of attention worth this kind of aggravation.click to expand
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