Hi I am a cancer female and recently my Capricorn boyfriend of 2 months broke up. I know that doesn't seem like a long time, but we were together everyday because I was living with him. Everything was great we never argued until this girl who was my friend for nearly a year took of her shirt infront of both of us. He claims he didn't see anything. Mind you she has a boyfriend who she cheats on. I stopped being her friend because I simply couldn't trust the situation and after that night she took off her shirt she started bringing me down so I cut her off. I then told him I don't.feel comfortable with him hanging.out with her because of how she is and he took it as if I didn't trust him, and also told me he can't be controlled which is not something I.was trying to do.in the first place. All.I wanted was for.him.to.respect me. Anyway from then things got worst. We broke up and got back together at least 2 times
. We lived together which made things hard but we were just still so cool because of the relationship we had. The second breakup we had he said he was final his mind was made up. I needed to change how I am not just for the relationship but for myself, he told me he just couldn't be with someone so.insecure as I am. A few days before I moved back to Texas his sister and him got into an altercation and he came to me to lay his head on my chest like old times. We slept together and cuddled and the next morning nothing had changed. I had given him money to have his phone turned back on and some money for food because I wanted him to be ok before I moved left his place. He kissed me and I told him I loved him although he probably wouldn't say it back but he told me he.loved me back. I then left his house and said i love you one last time and he said I love you to babe. In the beginning of our relationship (even after the sex) he told me he had never felt what he felt for me for Any other female. He cooked for me every day what ever I wanted. Although I was the first to tell.him I loved.him. he Told me he loved me after he knew it was real. Well yesterdAY when I got.back to.Texas I called him and told him I wasn't going to be with any other guy like that he asked why? I told him I was going go wait for him. He told me he couldn't lie to me and tell me he wasn't going to be with any other girl and with time I would get over it. I told him I couldn't be his friend because its just not fair to me as I still.have feelings for him and he understood. My quest
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Gotcha dg ; )
And truecap, you should change the word 'introvert' into 'shy' in your post. Introverts can have great social skills it's just they get worn out from socializing too much and need a break. Extroverts are those who thrive around people instead of alone. They may not have great social skills either but just prefer to be around others even if they can't communicate well. Introverts don't automatically have bad social skills nor are they automatically shy.
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@ tutisko let me just say this everybody experience with a sign doesn't have to be the same. You make it different of how you act and you respond to them. I agree with some of things said of cancer women, and some I don't. Keep an open mind and think what is best for you.