should i reach out or let him?
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LOL. The charm of the Spanish man... trying to get with a woman.
I have so many Spanish friends I have learned to steer clear of them romantically
I have so many Spanish friends I have learned to steer clear of them romantically
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I was not happy until a few days ago with my career and life in general. It was not going as the way I wanted it. Didn't think about the money as it was good enough but not even close to what my peers earn.
I always felt restless to move to a better job, better field, better city. Whether to go to school again or not. Had no goals, no focus, no clarity, indecisive, was just going through the motions, depression, heartbreak.
But now I feel a bit content within. And I have goals now
. So I am a bit happy.
I just turned 27.
I always felt restless to move to a better job, better field, better city. Whether to go to school again or not. Had no goals, no focus, no clarity, indecisive, was just going through the motions, depression, heartbreak.
But now I feel a bit content within. And I have goals now
. So I am a bit happy. I just turned 27.
Haha she is acting weird and distant also!
Posted by pisceswoman123God loves a trierPosted by MyStarsShineOfc This is just our opinions.Posted by pisceswoman123Well there is always the option to withdraw investmentsPosted by MyStarsShineI see your point but he is already invested.Posted by pisceswoman123Gut feelingPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pisceswoman123I hope he doesn't
Is the other guy a fwb?
If that is the case she didn’t tell you because for her that it is not a relationship and she wanted to keep her options open.
Now that she is closer to you and she want to be your girlfriend she felt like she needed to come clean. She waited a week because she didn’t know how to tell you.
If you love her you should give her a chance. That is my opinion on it 😊
Why?
Or maybe he will choose to go there ?
I will choose to see it through if I am invested. If it doesn’t work at least I triedclick to expand
Hope the OP will be okay ...
Posted by Leo188881Posted by BiboroonI think most people aren't offended by it. It's just something I would prefer not to do because I if someone did it to me all the time, I would hate it.
Yeah Venus in Virgo here and I do it too. I explained to the people closest to me that I only do it because I care, not because I don’t like them and they get it.
If I stop nagging people it clearly shows that I lost all interest.
But I don’t hate it. I am rational in love, don’t fall in love recklessly and would do anything for people I care about.
I also feel I do too much for people and it feels like trying to buy their love sometimes or buy myself karma points by giving and doing too much for others. Not always with gifts and money, but with gestures and the little practical things. Can you relate to that?
I hate being vulnerable so it kind of conflicts with other parts of me. I am so strong and resilient in so many ways, yet this aspect makes me feel insecure and weak.click to expand
This ^^^^^^^ But no I don't hate this venus because we are giving even if it's in a more practical manner, not huge over-the-top gestures.
Posted by Shadowcatstaap lol you're a VIA too aren't you ? lol
I love my venus in whore.
Venus
.....affecting you Scorpios?
Have you noticed life feeling more optimistic ? The transit is here until November this year and I can definitely feel the affects of Jupiter hitting, or about to hit five of my planets
I have plans for two trips abroad, and am in the process of launching an aromatherapy line which I have been meaning to do for some time
Anyone else making the most of this lucky transit ?
Have you noticed life feeling more optimistic ? The transit is here until November this year and I can definitely feel the affects of Jupiter hitting, or about to hit five of my planets
I have plans for two trips abroad, and am in the process of launching an aromatherapy line which I have been meaning to do for some time
Anyone else making the most of this lucky transit ?
Posted by FireInLuvLol. Guessing you’re an Aries too?
Don't waste your emotional energy on this. Stop now. You are too old for this fairy tale world love affair you want to come about. You are 42 he is 28. He's in Spain you are in Italy. You kissed within seconds of meeting on a plane. You are an Aries he is a Cancer. You are doing what a typical Aries would do in this situation. Fantasize what you can't have. The dream is better than reality. Stay grounded.
As a super typical Aries I am guilty as charged. However in my defense, HE kissed me and it was after 6 hours of talking (super long haul flight).
If I were marriage minded this would be a pitiful waste of time...but I’m not. I am extremely busy with a very full life and a potentially part time lover in another country sounds awesome.
So until I’m clear he’s defs not interested I do want to let it run its course. Though when/if I hit the wall, I will come back and give you your props.
But thank you for your wise advice (not being sarcastic!!)
I already gave a solution to that, but no one wanted to listen.
The reason is because slum lords come into a community then strat flipping homes with cheap materials then sell it for more then it's worth. Only wealthy people can afford it, so the poor get closer and closer to eachother, no one has anything to actually care about, and crime rates go up as the middle class fluctuate to poor.
Here is the solution. Start making your schools teach more trades. Make them teach useful skills no one can take from them. Skills to actually do the work themselves. Get groups of people together and start flipping homes, but for an affordable price, then the poor will fluctuate back into the middle class. People will have more to show for, making the community more happy and stable. Then you are taking your community back, and can place whoever you want where ever you want. People will then be useful, and feel useful. All because everyone shut the fuck up and actually did some hard work for a change. Like I said, everyone wants the world to change yet no one wants to change themselves. Because let's be real, it's much easier to sit back and watch the world burn and do nothing about it. If you want an actual change though you need to get your hands dirty. Sitting around mentioning a bunch of problems and a broken system does nothing but make people feel hopeless. You want a better system? Go outside and fix that shit. No one is going to do it for you.
The reason is because slum lords come into a community then strat flipping homes with cheap materials then sell it for more then it's worth. Only wealthy people can afford it, so the poor get closer and closer to eachother, no one has anything to actually care about, and crime rates go up as the middle class fluctuate to poor.
Here is the solution. Start making your schools teach more trades. Make them teach useful skills no one can take from them. Skills to actually do the work themselves. Get groups of people together and start flipping homes, but for an affordable price, then the poor will fluctuate back into the middle class. People will have more to show for, making the community more happy and stable. Then you are taking your community back, and can place whoever you want where ever you want. People will then be useful, and feel useful. All because everyone shut the fuck up and actually did some hard work for a change. Like I said, everyone wants the world to change yet no one wants to change themselves. Because let's be real, it's much easier to sit back and watch the world burn and do nothing about it. If you want an actual change though you need to get your hands dirty. Sitting around mentioning a bunch of problems and a broken system does nothing but make people feel hopeless. You want a better system? Go outside and fix that shit. No one is going to do it for you.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by dewiklaessen26you always seem unhappy unsatisfied with your man.
I have to say i'd rather had a venus in sagittarius to compensate with my sagittarius moon and ascendantclick to expand
I am not believe me it just takes alot of patience he is 23 i am 26 it's his first relationship first time ever living together for him first time he worked in his life i have already been there so ofcourse i see a reflection of myself in him but also difference ofcourse things are just rough at the moment i love him very much he can just be very unbearable sometimes