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You want to get what? Nasty!!!
You can post here too, after you have your first time Mr.N.
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"Now I'm happy, love life, love people and am back to being a true Gemini :-)"
Well, that is everything to be thankful for, then .. if you are being the exact person you believe you are inside.
I truly don't believe anyone is bad .. we just bring out the bad in some people.
Everybody is perfect for somebody .. but, everybody isn't perfect for everybody.
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Gemini's .. even the men if I catch them cheating and they are stupid enough to pass out drunk on my couch.
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It's so lonely on dxp in the evening!!!!!
*sighs and silently waits for someone besides Roxi to post something juicy*
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I think he used the wrong word. I think he wants a girl who is emotionally reserved rather than distant. Reserved is the cause, distand would be the apparent affect. Just to clarify the root of what he is trying to convey.
Libras see emotional reservation and control as a virtue. Again because we hold a higher value to the objective than the subjective, the reasonable than the emotional. We see emotional control as virtuous, because they are only one persons and they are unreasonable we believe on should have reservation and responsibility with them as to not put the weight of them on other people. Those who wear their heart on their sleeve to us is symbolic of a lack of strength. The only reason one would want to do that, in our mind, is to get a reaction from others to validate something that only the person who ones them can. It is good to have strong feeling and to express feeling, but not so much to express strong emotion. We see a distinct difference between feeling and emotion. From what I understand, though I am not sure this is more relative to Libra men than women. I could be wrong but I don't think I am.
"Everybody is perfect for somebody .. but, everybody isn't perfect for everybody."
You are right, Angel. In fact, that's what I keep telling my ex who is a little down on himself. We weren't right for each other, but there's someone for him.
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I would have to say Capricorn or Libra lol...the ones I know
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Thank you, nic'. I think I have it pretty much figured out that I'm just me with her---take it or leave it. Yeah, I've done the dinner thing and the concert thing, etc. But she's also seen me in all sorts of other moods, not "on" to try to impress her. That's not me. The making dinner, etc., is just my way of showing how much I care. Frankly, there's probably nothing I can do to "win" her. I'm with Chatz as far as ramming (yeah, yeah, Aries humour) my head against wall after wall.
I HAVE put her first, maybe more so than I should have---geesh, most women like that! (Right, Leo Lass?).
She certainly won't get any pressure from me from now on. I certainly didn't see it that way, nic', but you were very succinct in your explanation----(yeah, we Fire Signs can be logical at times too).
So I have an "Oh well," attitude right now. It's to the point where no matter what I ATTEMPT to do w/ Libra Girl, I've blown it.
Case in point: I haven't heard from her AT ALL since Wednesday----and that feels as if being with her really didn't matter (notice: FEELS---so I may be wrong). I haven't quite figured out the art of Libra where they can go away or be incommunicado for a few days and it's like they totally forgot about you (please note, LS, I don't even do that with my FRIENDS).
My take on this right now, especially from nic's comments, is that Libra Girl has all of this figured out and is weighing (oh, yeah, the scales things) all my actions, etc., deciding what to do. You Libran are GENIUSES! 'Cause I certainly couldn't do that.
I "think" she's going to come out of the woodwork with one of her little enticements to get together. Maybe because she really IS just lonely and doesn't want to be. Maybe because I've always been a loyal friend running to her every beck and call. But I think all of you have mirrored / made it clear that her communication / persuasion would certainly not be for romantic reasons.