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and....... frigid 
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Chatz,
If you read some of my "old" posts from last year, I wrote about a libra female friend I was frustrated with. The long and short of the story is that she was (or still is) consumed by work (or so it seems).
My friend was at a company that was struggling. People were getting laid off or quitting and she was on the road (she's a corporate IT trainer) seemingly 3 weeks out of every month. She hung on for at least 2 years like this.
Sometime last year, my friend finally bite the bullet and got herself a new job that would push her to nearly a six-figure salary. However, new job didn't equal less stress. Through informed sources, I heard my friend was having issues though I wasn't 100% sure if it was work related (I'd say 75% sure). I don't really know what that means though.
Whatever the issue is, my friend has dug in deep and has basically vanished from the radar.
And as others here (Little Sparrow, among others) have noted, once a Libra digs in, it is hard to convince them to "move" or budge. Once a Libra buries themselves into their cave, you will not get them out.
I'm not sure if my friend's work is the issue or she has other issues and she is using work as the escape. Regardless, it appears that work can throw a Libra off-balance just as any other person. I am sure that my constant chatter to my Libra friend has not helped. I'm an Aries and patience has never been my best virtue (though I am admittedly better these days).
If you read some of my "old" posts from last year, I wrote about a libra female friend I was frustrated with. The long and short of the story is that she was (or still is) consumed by work (or so it seems).
My friend was at a company that was struggling. People were getting laid off or quitting and she was on the road (she's a corporate IT trainer) seemingly 3 weeks out of every month. She hung on for at least 2 years like this.
Sometime last year, my friend finally bite the bullet and got herself a new job that would push her to nearly a six-figure salary. However, new job didn't equal less stress. Through informed sources, I heard my friend was having issues though I wasn't 100% sure if it was work related (I'd say 75% sure). I don't really know what that means though.
Whatever the issue is, my friend has dug in deep and has basically vanished from the radar.
And as others here (Little Sparrow, among others) have noted, once a Libra digs in, it is hard to convince them to "move" or budge. Once a Libra buries themselves into their cave, you will not get them out.
I'm not sure if my friend's work is the issue or she has other issues and she is using work as the escape. Regardless, it appears that work can throw a Libra off-balance just as any other person. I am sure that my constant chatter to my Libra friend has not helped. I'm an Aries and patience has never been my best virtue (though I am admittedly better these days).
lol
What about all the talk with "doormat", or "pushover", can walk all over and on top of .. they are weak, and have no backbone?
Now, the other side of the mouth talks .. the truth comes out. They aren't that at all .. piss them off and hell hath no fury.
Make up your minds ... are we weak little weenies, or strong when provoked?
What about all the talk with "doormat", or "pushover", can walk all over and on top of .. they are weak, and have no backbone?
Now, the other side of the mouth talks .. the truth comes out. They aren't that at all .. piss them off and hell hath no fury.
Make up your minds ... are we weak little weenies, or strong when provoked?
that's horrible.
Yes the book talks about being a giver, but it focuses on giving more of the right things so that you can ask for and recieve the right things. It's like there are many ways to love someone and there are many ways to feel loved...but its like hunger, just because you're hungry (just because you want love) doesnt mean you'll eat anything (doesnt mean any kind of attention will make you feel loved). But when you go to a restaurant and they're serving what you're ordering and you eat it and its SO good...then you're more likely to leave a big tip and come back. Loving someone is the same way, when you recognize their love taste and you fulfill it they're much more willing to leave a tip and give you good service when you patronize their restaurant. And it's not about changing your personality, you can continue to speak the love language you're most fluent in such as acts of service (baking cupcakes and kind gestures) but you should be flexible enough to serve what they're hungry for.
*disclaimer* there is no cheater, liar, or selfish person that is deserving of this kind of love and attention. If the person is lying, cheating, selfish, or otherwise mistreating you leave them and find someone who is capable of accepting love and giving it.
*disclaimer* there is no cheater, liar, or selfish person that is deserving of this kind of love and attention. If the person is lying, cheating, selfish, or otherwise mistreating you leave them and find someone who is capable of accepting love and giving it.
Amen to Unusual. Leo it is the truth...and I know first hand. Dont rush to ly all your cards out on the table...take you time even if you feel that he is kinda rushing it. Do it in YOUR OWN TIME. You have an advatage...you are not inclined to allow your emotions to show quickly. A lot of women have to work on that...holding back and not exposing themselves so quickly. You are lucky. Girl take advantage of that. Im not saying play games or not to keep it real. Im just saying...take YOUR time. Cancer's stick around..he will be there and once you do open up he will feel as if he has accomplished a major goal (which he has). Take it SLLLOOOWWWW!!!!
man unsualcancer you are dead on it, i respect how you think! Great advice, it's best to resist the urge to reveal feelings, the pressure is him chasing and men love the chase even when they whine and sulk and seem to want more that's just part of the chase so to speak. Again great advice!
lol
FOR ADULTS ONLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! READ AT YOUR OWN RISK
My first time was a damn TRIIIIIP.
I was 15 and everybody in the apt. complex wanted him but he wanted me. We used an empty apt. as a Club house it had a mattress and a dresser and a stuff in it. We also used that space to play "Spin the Bottle" We this guy was like a black Fonzie...he wore his cigs in the sleeve of h is t-shirt and he had his jeans cuffed like fonzie and he called his penis the "Mighty Mobilizer" and that it was....except for the first time we did it I skipped school and we went to the club house first...well the "Mighty Mobilizer" would not function...LMAO
So he went home to ask his brother why the Might Mobilizer would not work and his brother said that he was to excited....LMAO....well the next day I skipped school again and went to his house which was on the first floor, I lived on the third floor. Well, the Might Mobilizer finally rosed to the occassion and it was exactly what he said it was "The Mighty Mobilizer"
I ran into him about 10 years after I had graduated at blockbusters...he knew all about my high school years what school, he knew about me running track I was so shock. He met my son and said that he was supposed to be his...I met his son but little did I know that his mothers name was the same as mines.
Well we dated for a few months and he asked me to marry him he met my family and all then one day we was at his house just chillin and I wanted to sex him just to rekindle the Might Mobilizer and he told me NO and I said why and he said that he was scared of me. I never got an answer why and I have not seen or heard of him since.
So my first time is a memory that I will cherish always....I love him so.
My first time was a damn TRIIIIIP.
I was 15 and everybody in the apt. complex wanted him but he wanted me. We used an empty apt. as a Club house it had a mattress and a dresser and a stuff in it. We also used that space to play "Spin the Bottle" We this guy was like a black Fonzie...he wore his cigs in the sleeve of h is t-shirt and he had his jeans cuffed like fonzie and he called his penis the "Mighty Mobilizer" and that it was....except for the first time we did it I skipped school and we went to the club house first...well the "Mighty Mobilizer" would not function...LMAO
So he went home to ask his brother why the Might Mobilizer would not work and his brother said that he was to excited....LMAO....well the next day I skipped school again and went to his house which was on the first floor, I lived on the third floor. Well, the Might Mobilizer finally rosed to the occassion and it was exactly what he said it was "The Mighty Mobilizer"
I ran into him about 10 years after I had graduated at blockbusters...he knew all about my high school years what school, he knew about me running track I was so shock. He met my son and said that he was supposed to be his...I met his son but little did I know that his mothers name was the same as mines.
Well we dated for a few months and he asked me to marry him he met my family and all then one day we was at his house just chillin and I wanted to sex him just to rekindle the Might Mobilizer and he told me NO and I said why and he said that he was scared of me. I never got an answer why and I have not seen or heard of him since.
So my first time is a memory that I will cherish always....I love him so.
SF - Yaaayyyy!!! That is TERRIFIC. LMAO. Giirrlll I know that you are grinning from ear to ear. LOL. Thats good! I'm happy for you!