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the main problem is we don't trust many people. so we try to solve or deal with our poblems on our own. it isn't until we have no solution or we find one that we come out of our shells. so even though we might be dating you that doesn't mean you know everything about us. we will eventually let you in but it will happen with time and patience on your side. so you can't force a cancer to let you in if they don't want to let you in so your efforts might be fruitless. like maianm said let him know you are there for him and that you are not trying to pry into his business and he will move your way slowly but surely. remember we don't move in a straight line so have patience..
And as I sit here thinking I can't help but smile and laugh cuz the memory of him is such a joy....
You know what the old saying says
"You will always love your first love"
And I believe because I do still and will always love the man that bust my cherry.
You know what the old saying says
"You will always love your first love"
And I believe because I do still and will always love the man that bust my cherry.
thanks SweetestFatale, i'll give it a try... i'm having extreme difficulty though, because the problem is he's gonna be GONE, and i won't be seeing him much for the next few months. so naturally i just want to soak up all the time i can with him...
well said solitas, this issue be it right or wrong has been blown out of proportion, I have stayed away from the fray because at the end of the day my intentions to help are genuine albeit i may not say things the way others would like me to say it, i can say the same for a lot of people here, ::shaking head:: the name calling and bullying is out of control, i dunno but all this is just a big ole mess, i hope it smooth's itself out soon.
Hi coach41, yeah I think work throws off Libra. My Libra was struggling making money for the last couple years. I helped her with a few things and she started making a decent income AND was buried in her work (concentrating ONLY on work) for weeks at a time. She came up for air once in awhile simply because I think I helped her generate money. I think you're right on here. BTW, welcome to a fellow Aries!
Quick change artist .. if you blink, "they" switch.
ok, I've read up on this.
CanTaur,
Yes, be cautious at this point. I'm not sure when you professed how you felt about him (1 month, 1 week, 2 weeks after him doing the nice things he's done), but these guys are very generous with their friends. He sees you as a friend and he hasn't completely ruled out a relationship with you. When you asked him what you did, you put him on the spot and if he's anything like my Libra, then he needs time to process and analyze his thoughts and feelings. By asking him that question and wanting an answer on the spot, he gave you the most honest answer he could give you at the time.
He did the things he did for you because Libra is a sign of relationships and from what I've experienced with my boyfriend, that means friendship as well as romance. They crave having friends in their corner. Once they commit to one person, they are committed to you quite strongly. I think you scared him but it was actually good for you to give him that jump start to help him process his feelings for you.
The crying spell probably made him uncomfortable because they are not near as emotional as us bulls. My boyfriend has seen me cry twice; once he comforted me, the other time, he just sat next to me. He's not completely gone yet, but you have to give him space to process his thoughts.
In regard to the letter you left him, it seems like you've left out what you said in it other than apologizing for how you acted since he replied with "I appreciate the time you took to write the meaningfull letter but I don't know how to respond to it at this point", so did you write something else?
Also, you apologized for being you. Don't do that with these guys. Part of what he admires about you I'm sure is the fact that you speak from the heart. You didn't get the reply you were hoping for, so you reacted in the moment based on how you felt. That meant crying and dashing off instead of talking through your feelings. If that's how you are, then don't apologize for it. Apologizing for who you are makes you lose your true identity.
Just give him some time. I don't think he's completely done and it may turn around.
CanTaur,
Yes, be cautious at this point. I'm not sure when you professed how you felt about him (1 month, 1 week, 2 weeks after him doing the nice things he's done), but these guys are very generous with their friends. He sees you as a friend and he hasn't completely ruled out a relationship with you. When you asked him what you did, you put him on the spot and if he's anything like my Libra, then he needs time to process and analyze his thoughts and feelings. By asking him that question and wanting an answer on the spot, he gave you the most honest answer he could give you at the time.
He did the things he did for you because Libra is a sign of relationships and from what I've experienced with my boyfriend, that means friendship as well as romance. They crave having friends in their corner. Once they commit to one person, they are committed to you quite strongly. I think you scared him but it was actually good for you to give him that jump start to help him process his feelings for you.
The crying spell probably made him uncomfortable because they are not near as emotional as us bulls. My boyfriend has seen me cry twice; once he comforted me, the other time, he just sat next to me. He's not completely gone yet, but you have to give him space to process his thoughts.
In regard to the letter you left him, it seems like you've left out what you said in it other than apologizing for how you acted since he replied with "I appreciate the time you took to write the meaningfull letter but I don't know how to respond to it at this point", so did you write something else?
Also, you apologized for being you. Don't do that with these guys. Part of what he admires about you I'm sure is the fact that you speak from the heart. You didn't get the reply you were hoping for, so you reacted in the moment based on how you felt. That meant crying and dashing off instead of talking through your feelings. If that's how you are, then don't apologize for it. Apologizing for who you are makes you lose your true identity.
Just give him some time. I don't think he's completely done and it may turn around.
Yeah, Libra, that's true. It may take a long time! Right?
hahahahahaha
QS, those smoldering eyes and swishy tail will do it every time!