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Aug 24, 2011Comments: 17 · Posts: 5119 · Topics: 78
Posted by lamisaahun
It’s been 2 days my boyfriend stopped talking to me. We didn’t have a fight or anything. I know something’s been bothering him and I asked him about it too. Day before yesterday, we spent the day together and he was very mean to me. I could tell he’s saying all these to get rid of me. He didn’t mean anything he said. However he won’t breakup with me. He just leaves me hanging. He’s expecting me to break up. I don’t want to. I was very happy in this relationship and I want to know what I did for him to behave like this.
He has this friend who doesn’t really like for no absolute reasons and I found that he always tells him stuffs against me. One day, my boyfriend asked me if I was with him until I find someone better because that is what he heard from “somewhere”. I got defensive and that made him not want to believe me more. There was a huge fight about it and a lot of yelling and all.
Then things got better and then day before yesterday, he was joking around as usual and I was laughing. Then suddenly, he says I love my car a lot. I have you cuz of it. I know for a fact he wasn’t kidding when he said that. Then he started getting all mean. I just laughed it off.
I don’t know what to do.
This guy is insecure. He erupts when you talk to a platonic guy friends (who is in a relationship). He has trouble opening up to you, and now he's being passive aggressive towards you. It does sound like he's trying to push you away. Unfortunately you can't have a healthy relationship with a guy like this. He has too many emotional issues. Don't fool yourself into thinking that sticking it out with him will be of much benefit. You'll only be validating his bad behavior.