DECiPHER A PiSCES MALE
I am a female scorpio still in high school so theres the hormones and all that floating around.. but Im curious about the pisces male since I am currently interested in one at this time. I have a dilemma holding me up within my social life and I was hoping for some insight as to what i should or can still do and basically just some advice hopefully leading towards some good possibilities.
My dilemma is that of course this having to do with a boy, Ive read alot of astrology on him & the scorpio & pisces in love,etc & i find its pretty true what is said about him & how he acts and his characteristics & alot of the horoscopes i read on scorpio & pisces in relationship is great, we have a history because how i met him was in my class & he tried to holla at me like get my number in hopes of bf/gf thing so we talk for several months [started in december of 06] & we seem to be pretty compatible we understand each other pretty well & all that and have built a pretty strong friendship having good trust in each other and im not even gonna lie theres a physical attraction as well here, so anyways heres what else happened in about the beginning of june he gets a gf which of course im not all that thrilled about, but he still talks to me til about mid july then everything seems to come to a halt i barely talk to him now a days and when i see him its like somewhat awkward; so his gf she is a nice girl not bad i honestly have to admit she showed him alot of public affection like hugs to say goodbye or hi and all that to show she liked him and i never really did because im not even sure why i guess you could say watching from a distance kinda thing and partly because i wasnt ever actually really close by we have like a completely different set of friends but i am friends with some of his boys, we talked over texting mainly alot hes not much a a calling type of guy and also not really much in school i was kinda shy and so is he so we basically never revealed alot feelings to each other besides flirting here and there but im pretty darn sure he did like me alot at one point but im not sure if its still there.. because of this like sudden shut down from him so what does this all mean?? i am clueless right now i tried to describe the situation as well as i can but without having to turn it into a long story an im wondering where do i go from here i want him to be my boyfriend do i tell him my feelings now or wait it out til they break up????? please help..
My dilemma is that of course this having to do with a boy, Ive read alot of astrology on him & the scorpio & pisces in love,etc & i find its pretty true what is said about him & how he acts and his characteristics & alot of the horoscopes i read on scorpio & pisces in relationship is great, we have a history because how i met him was in my class & he tried to holla at me like get my number in hopes of bf/gf thing so we talk for several months [started in december of 06] & we seem to be pretty compatible we understand each other pretty well & all that and have built a pretty strong friendship having good trust in each other and im not even gonna lie theres a physical attraction as well here, so anyways heres what else happened in about the beginning of june he gets a gf which of course im not all that thrilled about, but he still talks to me til about mid july then everything seems to come to a halt i barely talk to him now a days and when i see him its like somewhat awkward; so his gf she is a nice girl not bad i honestly have to admit she showed him alot of public affection like hugs to say goodbye or hi and all that to show she liked him and i never really did because im not even sure why i guess you could say watching from a distance kinda thing and partly because i wasnt ever actually really close by we have like a completely different set of friends but i am friends with some of his boys, we talked over texting mainly alot hes not much a a calling type of guy and also not really much in school i was kinda shy and so is he so we basically never revealed alot feelings to each other besides flirting here and there but im pretty darn sure he did like me alot at one point but im not sure if its still there.. because of this like sudden shut down from him so what does this all mean?? i am clueless right now i tried to describe the situation as well as i can but without having to turn it into a long story an im wondering where do i go from here i want him to be my boyfriend do i tell him my feelings now or wait it out til they break up????? please help..
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Example-if you are both talking on the phone and laughing and cutting up and out of the blue he tells you to shut up let him talk....LOL! If, you get upset or you don't take to people telling you to shut up....You could say, hey let me call you back and cut the conversation short. Or he calls you up and says he is mad about something you did or did not do. I would be polite but end the conversation or say something like let me call you back. That way you will be avoiding confrontation with him instead of just getting upset and letting your feelings take over which in return can cause you to blow up! Let him win his game. Don't compete! I know with my experience, it will keep him around more because you are not blowing negative energy back to feed him.
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it is quite possible to cultivate fulfilling, long-lasting friendships between opposition signs...pisces and virgo can coexist harmoniously...i know this because i experience it on a daily basis and i am thankful for it...
-jack
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