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Posted by MyStarsShine

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For me it was easy because emotionally I became cut off from them at a very early age, everything starting at 13. I simply came to the realization that they are too selfish and self-absorbed to care. Once I understood that, it was easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I stopped caring about THEM, never really missed them to begin with. Sooner than later they became strangers in my mind's eye.

My dad died in October and I felt nothing. Until last month, I hadn't seen or spoken to my mother in almost 2 years. Last month was an accident, she happened to be in the same food court that me and my partner were having lunch in, she saw us and we saw her. It happens. I briefly introduced my boyfriend (and came out to her in the process) and we were on our way. Whole thing lasted a minute.

I have a Virgo moon which helps with all that, and some have considered me heartless for not wanting my family in my life. But I just did what was best for me. I could either carry the bitterness inside me for the rest of my life, feeling like I wasn't worth loving even by my own family, or I could simply accept the fact they didn't deserve to have a son/brother like me and focus my energies on someone far more important than all of them.

Has your mother tried to contact you since that brief meeting and if she did, and apologised for what she did to you, would you consider trying to build a rship with her ?

1) Nope. She probably expects me to reach out first. But we share the same moon, she should know better.

2)

Her, apologize and admit she did wrong? Yeah sure, when pigs fly. And no. I don't make the same mistake twice. Same reason why I never rekindle a failed relationship. I don't want or need her in my life. When I did need her, she wasn't there. My 33rd birthday is only 4 weeks away. What on earth would I need her for now? She is nothing to me.

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