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Posted by MyStarsShineSarah was the mother of an old friend of mine, who I had a thing for for like 2 minutes shortly before I met my boy.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowSarah was your sister ?Posted by MyStarsShineMaybe there's a hint of bitterness because on some level I miss who she never was, but I don't miss "her". Sarah was more of a mother to me than she was, even she only knew me for a few years.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAs a mother myself, that is very sad to read, but as long as you feel peaceful about it and don't let it make you bitter, then fair enough. I am sorry she wasn't there for you, I would rather die than not be there for our lad 😥Posted by MyStarsShine1) Nope. She probably expects me to reach out first. But we share the same moon, she should know better.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHas your mother tried to contact you since that brief meeting and if she did, and apologised for what she did to you, would you consider trying to build a rship with her ?
For me it was easy because emotionally I became cut off from them at a very early age, everything starting at 13. I simply came to the realization that they are too selfish and self-absorbed to care. Once I understood that, it was easy for me to emotionally distance myself. I stopped caring about THEM, never really missed them to begin with. Sooner than later they became strangers in my mind's eye.
My dad died in October and I felt nothing. Until last month, I hadn't seen or spoken to my mother in almost 2 years. Last month was an accident, she happened to be in the same food court that me and my partner were having lunch in, she saw us and we saw her. It happens. I briefly introduced my boyfriend (and came out to her in the process) and we were on our way. Whole thing lasted a minute.
I have a Virgo moon which helps with all that, and some have considered me heartless for not wanting my family in my life. But I just did what was best for me. I could either carry the bitterness inside me for the rest of my life, feeling like I wasn't worth loving even by my own family, or I could simply accept the fact they didn't deserve to have a son/brother like me and focus my energies on someone far more important than all of them.
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Her, apologize and admit she did wrong? Yeah sure, when pigs fly. And no. I don't make the same mistake twice. Same reason why I never rekindle a failed relationship. I don't want or need her in my life. When I did need her, she wasn't there. My 33rd birthday is only 4 weeks away. What on earth would I need her for now? She is nothing to me.
It's like I told her a few years back during one of the last times I spoke to her: if she died right there and then in front of me, I wouldn't bat an eyelid. And I wasn't being mean and petty, I was simply being honest with her. My heart forgot who she is a very long time ago, there's no turning back the clock. I reserve my heart space for those who deserve it. Otherwise it's wasted.
It's okay you don't have to use gifs to answer ... your written word is plenty enough 👍click to expand
And what the fart is wrong with my gifs??? Owwwww have another drink, mammy.
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by jeanePosted by Caramel_PrincessPosted by jeaneI don’t know why but her messages come off contradicting too? When I read the first post it came off like he drops her completely for 2 weeks.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Caramel_PrincessPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowI think that her feelings should be validated, I mean if she didn’t feel loved and cared for why would she be posting about it? Something deep within her (her gut?) is telling her the pieces don’t fit anymore.Posted by Caramel_PrincessWhyyyyyu?
PULL the plug on this one, trust me. You will just waste more time, effort, energy, and you’ll destroy yourself trying to turn a cheetah into a zebra. He’s not changing.
Let this one go. Two years is too generous. Time to go get you a much better man and he’s out there.
I'm curious to know why she should pull the plug on this relationship? Instead of doing something to make it better?
If someone loves you, you just feel it and you know it.
I'm not totally disagreeing with you on this babe but... Sometimes women can be too attention seeking and demanding too! We can be insecure af! We may expect the guy to validate all of our feelings... Not all women and not in all relationships... But this happens. Taurus are all about actions rather than words...
Maybe I got this wrong... Idk
from my reading he acknowledges her feelings and tells her that everything is good between them. what he is not acknowledging is the behaviour that she has accused him of.
he spends time with her in the morning and the evening. he is looking to spend more time with her on fridays and saturdays. he has his kid and work and he tells her he is busy. she's here complaining about texts without emojis. he's at work and she texts him, she calls him and complains when he doesn't have the time to text back.
it's been two years and she still wants more to make her feel secure. if at times he does pulling away, i wouldn't blame him, she sounds clingy and overly focused on needing him to soothe her when she starts creating problems in her head.
And then she defended him in her replies, so I’m honestly not sure what’s truly going on with this one. She could be just delusional.
for me she says that he is a great guy and she is happy when she is with him which is everyday. but then when they are not together for those 12 hours in between she become insecure.
why did want to break up with her? it's a good question but he says something is missing. could it be her need for constant reassurance? could it be that she doesn't believe him when he says there isn't a problem and that he loves her and all the affection he can give her?
i'm just not convinced she isn't desperately trying to find a problem where there isn't one.
i don't see my fella everyday. i'll text him sometimes and he won't text back. i'll call him and he won't call back. he's not ignoring me, the kid's busy!
can you imagine if you are up to your eyeballs with work and then your partner starts, you're not texting me, you're not calling me, even though you saw them 4 hours ago! it seems mad to me.
This board needs you!!! Don't you dare go away....click to expand
i'm here until my bull dumps me.
Libras tend to be people pleasers and Gems like a bit of challenge. OP are you a people pleaser? Do you tend to let others walk over you and not fight for what you want?
Posted by Nightcap-of course, I was too busy pouring another drink to notice lolPosted by tctaoPosted by Nightcap-panties on the bedpost lolPosted by tctaoPosted by Nightcap-did the goat get drunk ?
from back in college
I'd say so. He woke up naked at the sorority house and then had to do the walk of shame 🐐
They were stuck on his head for some reason. Some questions ya just don't ask if you're not prepared for the answer 🐸click to expand
Posted by DeadInsideyeah, that would needs exposed in order to heal properlyPosted by tctaoit's a systemic problem and there is a lot of group who failed the module, because he was managed so badly. and they was blaming my group because of mistake that they indirectly created.Posted by DeadInsidebut it's not just him is it ? isn't it more of a systemic problem - or are you just talking about him in particular ?Posted by nothankuit's just unfair the way how we are treated, ppl cant do shit and hope noboy rebels even though he has more power than mePosted by DeadInsideHow come you told him about that? I have a similiar situation at work in a way and now I dont have as many hours as I used toPosted by nothankuyes
So he gave you a bad grade not because of your quality of work but because you questioned his teaching basically?click to expand
Posted by raad182Congrats on the viewership.
I've Always been good at public speaking and have a youtube vídeo with 1M views.
I have Sun and Mercury in the 11th, Júpiter in the 3rd and Saturn in the 9th.
For Public Speaking, I would say that you would spot the following
- Strong 3rd, 7th, 9th and 11th house
- Mercury placement
- Fire moon
What kind of mercury placement?
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Cmowwwwwwwn. Let's hear it....😏
No filter?. 😃
Cmowwwwwwwn. Let's hear it....😏
No filter?. 😃
Posted by peachy06Engage me.... Why is that?.😊
Leave him while you still can
Posted by Caplove+1
That's weird. Whatever is going on, your grades are not/should not be tied in with his personal feelings of you or your distaste for his teaching style /method.
It sounds like you reviewed him and he's taking it out on your final grade? If that's the case, then present all your facts. If you've done the work in your class, then it speaks for itself. You'll be okay Cappy. You can do it! Courage.
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Posted by OakButttttttttt?. I've got the big gurl panties on , I can handle it?.
good connection, but...
