Why ..
Does the thought ever cross your mind as to why you are always put on the defensive?
No need to defend .. heard the defense a million times (envy, jealous, blah, blah, blah) .. the question is why does this happen and whether it's ever thought about.
EG made me think of this when she said something to the effect of, "Are we one this yet AGAIN"
Again ?????
Said as though it's so common to ask, "again" .. like a kid who says, "Mommy" a million times a day.
Again ??? How many "agains" go by before one stops to ponder why this is?
No need to defend .. heard the defense a million times (envy, jealous, blah, blah, blah) .. the question is why does this happen and whether it's ever thought about.
EG made me think of this when she said something to the effect of, "Are we one this yet AGAIN"
Again ?????
Said as though it's so common to ask, "again" .. like a kid who says, "Mommy" a million times a day.
Again ??? How many "agains" go by before one stops to ponder why this is?
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I agree with all of the above peixe77. I've had my share of one night stands and am over that. Once you get the fear factor out of the way and right down to a meeting of the minds then the fantasies can take over.
Spanking works for me, receiving and giving. If the guy's got a really sexy voice, then I love having him tell me what he's going to do me. My ears are highly sensitive so I get turned on very easily when my lover nuzzles or lightly bites them. I love it when a man a few days growth on his face, it feels good and scratchy in all the right places '-D.
Spanking works for me, receiving and giving. If the guy's got a really sexy voice, then I love having him tell me what he's going to do me. My ears are highly sensitive so I get turned on very easily when my lover nuzzles or lightly bites them. I love it when a man a few days growth on his face, it feels good and scratchy in all the right places '-D.
Here's the cold hard facts ... everybody lies, so that's not the problem with Pisces and why you guys get so freaked out about it.
It's because we are so fucking good at it, that you don't know you're being taken ... it's not US you're upset about, it's not US that anybody is upset about.
You're upset because of your own gullibility .. that's the angst, we know this already, you know this, and we know that you know it and we know that that is why you struggle .. the struggle is with yourself.
So, if you want to change something, which obviously, you can't change the Pisces ... this leaves only yourselves to change, right? So, next time don't be so damn naive and gullible and you won't have this problem.
It's because we are so fucking good at it, that you don't know you're being taken ... it's not US you're upset about, it's not US that anybody is upset about.
You're upset because of your own gullibility .. that's the angst, we know this already, you know this, and we know that you know it and we know that that is why you struggle .. the struggle is with yourself.
So, if you want to change something, which obviously, you can't change the Pisces ... this leaves only yourselves to change, right? So, next time don't be so damn naive and gullible and you won't have this problem.
I have a piece of advice....follow your heart. Sounds cliche but it works really. 
Sunsign criterion does not work
Sunsign criterion does not work
Scorpio - not that I know of.
I have a male friend who is a Scorpio - we always have deep conversations together.
I have a male friend who is a Scorpio - we always have deep conversations together.
"I know some virgs who can lie so well they need to be actors."
pp, my Virgo husband lies all the time .. he's not good at it, though. Or, maybe he's good from another persons perspective .. but, with me, he gets caught because I can "feel" it when someone is lying to me.
What he is good at is stealing .. he'll walk out on a restaurant tab in a heartbeat, if I wasn't there to pay for it.
pp, my Virgo husband lies all the time .. he's not good at it, though. Or, maybe he's good from another persons perspective .. but, with me, he gets caught because I can "feel" it when someone is lying to me.
What he is good at is stealing .. he'll walk out on a restaurant tab in a heartbeat, if I wasn't there to pay for it.
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"follow your heart. Sounds cliche but it works really.
Sunsign criterion does not work"
Good advice, Air_Gem ... besides, I think the biggest problem people have with relationships is NOT following their heart.
You meet a person, everything is wonderful, perfect .. then after time, things start to fall apart. This means the two hearts are falling away from each other .. what do people do? They ignore that their heart has loved this person with all it's might and now it's done. Instead, they put focus on saying, he did this, she said that, he's a bleep, she's acting like a bleep ... that's trying to force the heart into believing what the head says.
When it's done, it's done .. walk away and take with you what beauty there was while it lasted. Nothing is forever .. so, why force your heart to make a love forever?
If we went into relationships with the intentions of loving to the fullest, to our very core .. and NOT with the intentions of making it permenant with a committment that's FOREVER .. we all might be happier because if we know we only have a short amount of time (while the heart is loving) .. we will make it the best times of our lives.
Programming .........
Sunsign criterion does not work"
Good advice, Air_Gem ... besides, I think the biggest problem people have with relationships is NOT following their heart.
You meet a person, everything is wonderful, perfect .. then after time, things start to fall apart. This means the two hearts are falling away from each other .. what do people do? They ignore that their heart has loved this person with all it's might and now it's done. Instead, they put focus on saying, he did this, she said that, he's a bleep, she's acting like a bleep ... that's trying to force the heart into believing what the head says.
When it's done, it's done .. walk away and take with you what beauty there was while it lasted. Nothing is forever .. so, why force your heart to make a love forever?
If we went into relationships with the intentions of loving to the fullest, to our very core .. and NOT with the intentions of making it permenant with a committment that's FOREVER .. we all might be happier because if we know we only have a short amount of time (while the heart is loving) .. we will make it the best times of our lives.
Programming .........
And it really bothers me, SF ... a friend told me once that when people walk out on tabs, that it gets taken out of the waitresses pay. Maybe that's not true for every establishment ... but, still !!! We ate that food, we should have to pay for it.
Trust me, I don't let him be in charge of paying the bills. I used to long ago .. until I found out he was cheating people.
Trust me, I don't let him be in charge of paying the bills. I used to long ago .. until I found out he was cheating people.
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A good way to scare your friends is to fake kidnap them with with other friends wearing ski masks, disguises, and toting real looking airsoft guns. Abduct them, drive them around town, return them to their house, and say APRIL FOOLS! Don't worry, I've never done this, but it would be so awesome to pull off.