Hi all! My first post on this board. I have been reading this Pisces board for quite some time trying to get more insights on my Pisces friends. Most of my Pisces friends to me, especially the guys, are the nicest people around. So genuinely nice all the time and sweet.hee...
There is this particular Pisces guy that I'm very in love with. I was wondering how can I make him feel more loved. I'm not sure whether he love me though I did express my feelings to him. He says he will still be my friend. Guess we're could only be friends. And I think I sort of scared him away (lol) cos' he haven't been replying to my emails.
The only time he will reply me is when I get really down with he not replying my emails...and he will tell me he's busy and encourage me to stay positive. But I hope we can talk like friends again...I don't want our only convensation be him encouraging me all the time. When I email him other stuff, he don't reply.
And I think I have been a little too harsh to him maybe. I try to let be honest with him as much as possible...but I guess reality hurts? But my intention wasn't bad, I just want to help him improve so that he can handle his emotions better and have a better career. I think I may be too direct but I try not to be harsh when I write to him. Maybe he took it the wrong way. Or maybe I should suggest anything to him. He should be able to handle his emotions himself.
He does make me confused a little sometimes.hee... Any suggestion to make him feel more loved? But maybe in a way that he'll not feel so stressed, cos' I think I maybe a little too possessive and email him a little too much. Guess he may need some space of his own. Maybe I should back-off a bit?
Haha...realised the more I write. The more "maybes" I wrote. Can someone offer me some advice, please?
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Nov 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2687 · Topics: 74
Well,my father is an Aqua but he doesn`t understand me :-)
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Nov 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2687 · Topics: 74
He is in Ukraine now,gonna stay for 2 weeks.Yesterday he saw 2 hot chicks in the street and he wanted to get one girl for each..lol..i threatened to tell my mom haha.
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Nov 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2687 · Topics: 74
I see the popularity of Sola has increased,what happened when i was not around?
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4935 · Topics: 117
Hey PP -
Received your PM - I have sent you a few return PM's and it appears to not be going through - let me know if you get them.
Anywho....congrats on your awesome accomplishment. I am truly very excited and happy for YOU! Thanks for sharing your wonderful news with me.
Hugs to you,
Freebird
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4935 · Topics: 117
"By the way I don't think it's a bad thing to laugh at life. It's not the same thing as not taking life seriously. From a psychological point of view it's very healthy to find the humour in dark situations as it helps you get through them."
I too agree with you CW - good point.
Life is what you make of it.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"i didnt right what i wrote to attack or insult any one please dont get me wrong,you all have your right to your comments i just wrote what i understood about DD situation."
Don't sweat it, FT .. the only people who believe an opinion is an attack or an assault are the people who feel guilty, and so instead of facing any kind of truth about what another person said about you, the person will defy the opinion and call it an attack.
Normally, I don't explain my decisions of calling somebody out, but, since you felt compelled to explain yourself .. here you go
If you want some understanding as to why these opinions are made to your 'aries girl', then you'd have to look at the whole picture, rather than just this isolated incident .. DD believes that EVERY woman attacks her .. just as GF believes EVERY woman is jealous of her.
My son once said to me, "How come nobody likes my girlfriend"
NOBODY? Think about that .. if nobody, as in no frigging person you've ever met, likes you .. then the problem isn't the other people, is it?
Think about it this way .. what if I started a thread, moaning and bitching, saying nobody in here will talk to me? Wouldn't that be fucking hilarious?
DD is a complete bitch to the other women in here (as well as real life) because she's a game player, so feels competitive with women whom she believes she has to be better, and we as women call her out for it. In every scenerio she has described about work, school, social gatherings, family, friendships .. she conveys that the women envy her, and are mean to her because they secretly desire to be her.
Confidence is attractive .. conciete is not.
If every women is mean to her .. EVERY .. woman, then the issue is her.
If you get fired from EVERY job .. it's not the bosses, rather, you.
If you get played by EVERY girlfriend .. then you're the problem, not the girls.
If you get in a fist-fight with EVERY mate .. then the anger issue is yours, not these other men.
Keep in mind .. there's a difference between attacking and calling somebody out for their actions. In any event, since you apparantly didn't understand the reason why .. there you go. And, on every thread that DD starts (that I read), by giving the impression that she is above another woman in status, because she's better .. I WILL call her out .. I guarantee it.