Arm's Length

I really don't think this is playing games. I really believe this is who she is and she sees Atom as a very valued and loved friend.
Atom you have done as much and MORE than any man should have to go through. If I understand your posts, she knows you have romantic feelings for her and want to move onto the next level. I think the next move HAS to be hers.
I am glad you are interested in other women. Fingers crossed.