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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"We owned a small bussiness he was playing golf instead of going to clients.. the result of that lead to fincial problem.. I never told him to stop !! Just not as much..."
And so when the business suffered because of him, and you not saying anything to him about his neglect .. it is now you who will have to suffer his guilt for him.
You're his whipping post now ...
You say he should trust you .. why didn't you tell him that his addiction to golf was making the business suffer? Were you the one responsible for tracking the financials?
Trust sometimes, also involves tough love .. we trust our partners to tell us the truth, even if it hurts.
Why didn't you tell him that his neglect was hurting the business?
This is all just guilt .. he doesn't know where to aim it, and he certainly isn't going to fault himself .. you're it.