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Aug 16, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1622 · Topics: 4
hmm, well, i just can't see the purpose of waiting for somebody who doesn't seem to want to agree to the terms of use. from what i gather, many of these women on here have told their guy, stay here, or keep out, but rarely practice it. that allows a person to use you. even if you're Christian, Jesus said turn the other cheek, not to boot up. so revenge might not be good, but don't blow a damn o-ring because he keeps coming and going like he wants. maybe some of the crap people take from their lover/ex's may qualify them as being dumb. but we are thinking creatures and can change.
I say she's not dumb because she is trying to overcome an emotional attachment, and understands what is happening. Love is like an addiction, and is just as hard to give up sometimes as any chain smoker out there.
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Jul 30, 2007Comments: 3 · Posts: 10583 · Topics: 206
Actually, I don't know about forums being more controlled though. I really don't see how or why that would be so.
I guess my next question would be, what would you do if he walked up to you in real life and held the same picture up in front of you?
We all have our different ways of dealing with them, I suppose.
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Aug 16, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1622 · Topics: 4
Public place is where every one enjoys their life with their differences of opinions when you want to censure the incoming opinion then it is not public place any longer
its public when the public is welcome to enjoy it. its public when the public who participate try to live harmoniously. this isn't some stuff where, o gee, (x) person doesn't agree with (y) person about (y)'s stance on abortion, now (y) is being permanently banned from the forum. no, this is like, you know what? (y) pisses me the hell off. never has anything worth reading, i wish i had a way to enjoy this forum, w/o having to deal with them.
so i argue that public places may be for the public, but that does not mean that anything that comes across an individuals mind is acceptable, and more importantly must be accepted. a guy who crashes a family picnic at the local state park may be within his rights to sit where he is, but he is causing a disturbance, and I can't blame someone for offering options for people to play nice.
worse case scenario i say its like the silent treatment children get on the playground. its like no i dont want to play with you, you're mean. that lonely child has to learn to play nice and try to work with people if they want to mingle with the public.
This is per user censorship. thus a person is in control. if primegen had said lets ban all people who don't agree with me, then yes he'd be full of crap.
this is pretty fun.
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Aug 01, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1322 · Topics: 35
This is interesting, Genome: "Sometimes people do spookable behavior because they enjoy the double take reaction they get from others." Can you elaborate? Cause ever since my Cap-ass moved, I've been getting bizarre "private calls" from him. And it's not to talk to me- the last one I answered finally and he hung up. And I don't "put out" for this guy- he knows I'm a hard sell and it ain't happening. Yea, we did once, two years ago, but I wouldn't again after that. I think he's just an attention whore/narcissist?
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Jul 30, 2007Comments: 3 · Posts: 10583 · Topics: 206
Archer, Dy, Alana, Freebird, and AguaAqi seem to be pretty good with him. They try to understand him. I've also witnessed them address his inappropriateness, and he was receptive. Depends on the person...