Does it end....just like that?
well i can't speak for ALL leos when i say this but i'm a leo and although i just can't get enough of that whole fairytale love and romance...i'm too, scared of commitment...just that whole idea of being "tied down"...plus, we leos can sometimes get "caught in the moment" of being mushy and cheesy, saying "I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH I COULD SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS" to waking up the next morning with a totally different mood.
i'm not saying that perhaps his feelings have changed for you...infact it has NOTHING to do with you...it's HIM...i think he's effed things up for himself by getting caught in the moment like a typical leo by talking about wanting babies and marriage...in his head, he made things official between the two of you...and now he's scared...he needs to learn to take things one step at a time and just "go with the flow" when it comes to the possible start of a relationship cos if he doesn't, he'll just freak out and run a mile!
i don't know what you could do to mend this situation, i guess you could make him jealous!
i was in a similar situation to yours once, i took this aries guy in circles, telling him "my feelings for him were STRONG and that i wanted a relationship with him" when in reality, i just wasn't feeling it inside...anyway, this went on for weeks so i thought i'd put him out of his misery by telling him i needed space...i eventually logged on to his myspace and saw heaps of comments from other girls...one even said something like "your so beautiful i could plant a field full of you" or some shizzle like that and then i saw another one from this other girl saying that she missed him and couldn't wait to see him "on saturday"...seeing this shit just made my blood boil lemme tell ya!
i think that's what you need to do to get your leo back around...try to get things hot and spicy again...be unpredictable...don't go into the whole babies/ marriage thing just yet, keep it light and fun for now...cos leos are playful little things after all, plus you've only known eachother for 6 weeks for goodness sake LMAO! it's so typical of us "fire signs" isn't it! going into relationships all guns blazing!
i'm not saying that perhaps his feelings have changed for you...infact it has NOTHING to do with you...it's HIM...i think he's effed things up for himself by getting caught in the moment like a typical leo by talking about wanting babies and marriage...in his head, he made things official between the two of you...and now he's scared...he needs to learn to take things one step at a time and just "go with the flow" when it comes to the possible start of a relationship cos if he doesn't, he'll just freak out and run a mile!
i don't know what you could do to mend this situation, i guess you could make him jealous!
i was in a similar situation to yours once, i took this aries guy in circles, telling him "my feelings for him were STRONG and that i wanted a relationship with him" when in reality, i just wasn't feeling it inside...anyway, this went on for weeks so i thought i'd put him out of his misery by telling him i needed space...i eventually logged on to his myspace and saw heaps of comments from other girls...one even said something like "your so beautiful i could plant a field full of you" or some shizzle like that and then i saw another one from this other girl saying that she missed him and couldn't wait to see him "on saturday"...seeing this shit just made my blood boil lemme tell ya!
i think that's what you need to do to get your leo back around...try to get things hot and spicy again...be unpredictable...don't go into the whole babies/ marriage thing just yet, keep it light and fun for now...cos leos are playful little things after all, plus you've only known eachother for 6 weeks for goodness sake LMAO! it's so typical of us "fire signs" isn't it! going into relationships all guns blazing!
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We're all lost .. he has made it to be so .. that was my point.
Why?
It doesn't HAVE to be that way .. that is his choice. If true unconditional love is the ultimate aim .. then shoot straight for it, rather than have people make a grand display over who is right within their own faith and then fight over it.
Why?
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If he's God .. then provide peace, not the means in which people will be terrified ...
Fear God
Fear Hell
Those are the only two options he gives ... fear.
Fear God
Fear Hell
Those are the only two options he gives ... fear.
a shot to the heart! *breaks down*
pL, that's the way to show love, imo...I'm like that too. But, being Scorpio (whenever that matters to a man) those same actions are sometimes seen as being manipulative and/or possesive - when that is not what it is about. 
"Because I want to know what she is made of."
Proverbs, which is the "right" way for her to be? Being herself or reacting to you?
"Because I want to know what she is made of."
Proverbs, which is the "right" way for her to be? Being herself or reacting to you?
"we get each other, but it doesn't mean we're the same!"
kafka .. this is really disturbing to me. People long to have another person "get" them. Isn't that what we are all really searching for?
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Maybe there's no valid explanation as to why the Piscean will up and leave for no apparant reason ... sometimes, as we're leaving, we're even saying, "I love you so much" .. and still swim.
Maybe it's a fear?
kafka .. this is really disturbing to me. People long to have another person "get" them. Isn't that what we are all really searching for?
Why these two signs can't just get over themselves and let this connection flow is beyond me ... I truly believe that if the S/P could control their ego's .. this would indeed be a perfect match because we do "get" the other. Of all the people in my life .. it's with the Scorpio that I understand at my very depths, and them, of me. We may not like it, or approve of it, or condone what each other does or says .. but, we have an understanding of where it's coming from, and why.
Maybe there's no valid explanation as to why the Piscean will up and leave for no apparant reason ... sometimes, as we're leaving, we're even saying, "I love you so much" .. and still swim.
Maybe it's a fear?
You mean the courting period?
- By ignoring her, a bit mean, or do something that will show her real character. Why? Because I want to know what she is made of.
thanks proverb for the insight, I was wondering what that was all about with my leo.
- By ignoring her, a bit mean, or do something that will show her real character. Why? Because I want to know what she is made of.
thanks proverb for the insight, I was wondering what that was all about with my leo.
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