Signed Up: May 20, 2018 Comments: 0 · Posts: 2 · Topics: 1
I have been friends with a cancer man for roughly 6 years. He has always had a thing for me. Finally about 6 months ago I have into him and let him into my life emotionally and sexually. We got married (something he really wanted). Now, he constantly avoids me. He will ignore me for days. I will go days without seeing him. Then suddenly he appears. He states he was upset, that he is sorry, that he feels his connection to me in his soul etc etc. I forgive him of course and we agree to work together to fix things and move forward. Then hours/days later the cycle repeats. WHAT IS HAPPENING?! Help me
I have never been the type of person who accepts what I am offered. I know my worth and what I want and if you can't meet my standards I will cut all ties. Somehow I can't break free from this man's emotional hell.
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Posted by pinkbird03 Usually if I’m quiet or not initiating, it either means I’m not interested, undecided on you, or still have feelings for another man. It’s also possible that I’m only enjoying your attention and nothing more. If I engage and initiate frequently, then it’s an obvious sign I’m interested.
THANK YOUUU... Women aren't that complicated.
If she likes you, she won't make it hard for you.
I didn't know how to tell the guy, she's probably not even interested. It sure doesn't sound like she is...
Posted by CopperDove I'm a Scorpio and I've attracted, and/or been attracted to, a lot of people with Scorpio Venus and/or 8th house placements and/or Scorpio moon. Also, people with a Pluto that is a prominent feature in their chart somehow (aspecting something major in their chart).
Yeah that's what I mean. I didn't know how to explain it but those sorts of aspects. It would be interesting to see how common that is click to expand
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I'm glad that I understood what you meant. It's interesting for sure. I started studying astrology when I was a teenager and anyone I got close to, I looked at their chart, at least the basics if I didn't have exact birth time. Some people may have this kind of pattern in their relationships but they haven't looked at all of the charts, going back in time, so they won't know for sure.
Posted by Endless I attract a lot of Pisces for some reason, even if I don't have almost any water on my chart, just put a Pisces in front of me for a little while and they start to fantasy about how cool I am or who knows what, also happens with cancer to some degree, Scorpio are oblivious to it :dammit:
I don't think I ever attracted anything else, besides bad luck
do they have a lot of Leo or 5th house planets in their chart or do you have 12th house planets or lots of aspects with Neptune in your chart click to expand
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Not particularly, I have 3 aspects with neptune and gemini mars on the 12th, Capricorn neptune
Jupiter Trine Neptune
Uranus Conjunct Neptune
Neptune Sextile Pluto
didn't really check their charts I was more interested in avoiding them
it’s symbolic of being a good provider... which cancer girls love
Pay for dinner??? click to expand
that’s what a cancer woman told me we never dated lol click to expand
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Cancer women pay attention to the clothes you wear. The car you drive. How you smell, and if you pay your bills on time. That's how they know you can provide. I
This doesn't mean she's looking if you wear designer clothes, leather shoes and drive a luxury car.
Just if you are adulting properly. Are you taking care of yourself, speaks what kind of man you are. It doesn't even matter if you still live with family.. A Cancer woman will compliment an outfit you nicely put together that maybe you wear twice a week.. She will compliment it everytime.
I really think taking a Cancer woman to dinner will make her uncomfortable. I don't think those are dinner girls.
You are setting a theme for her, and trying to make her feel the vibes of a conservative environment, and as a cardinal sign water woman.. Maybe she doesn't want to feel that feeling you trying to set. It's pressure, and might be cringey to her.
I think having drinks, beers, and car rides are more suitable for a Cancer chick. They seriously just wanna chill and have fun with everyone they come across..
Never take advice from a woman btw, man. These bitches don't know what they want... Let's keep it real.