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Aww...bless...Well a month had passed..come on..Scorpios can make up their mind about someone at first meeting...so that combined with Aries impulsiveness..lol..bobs your uncle as they say! But I am generally not fond of those kind of declarations..and I would question it till he proved it via actions..not words...and I guess in your case he did...
"Also knowing myself long distance relationships dont work for me... I need to see the person almost everyday to remind me why im still with them.... People come in and out of my life.. Its not hard to move on. My friends no that they have to call me cause I wont call them... Even my best friens of 10 years nos that she has to call me.... We dont like having to call people.."
Damn girl you sound just like me! lol
Damn girl you sound just like me! lol
Nooooooooooooooo!
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Hey, I love to read intelligent stories with a happy ending. Sounds like there is no end here! I sure hope ya'll live happily ever after. I'm rooting for you two! I just love to see connection among couples!
I don't always buy into this astrology stuff, but I do demonstrate many Cancer attributes.
I tend to be a good guy and we all know the downside of being a good guy? People used to bring me their motorcycles, lawn mowers, weedwackers, cars anything that needed fixed. I would spend hours in the garage working on stuff for other people, and hanging out with them. Friends would leave and I would stay up late into the night fixing other peoples problems (OPP). I took this as a personal challenge and would hand over repaired machines proudly to my friends, no charge!
I often neglected my ex-wife! I should have told these people to bug off and spent more time with her. Lessons learned, the hard way! We cancers often need to keep the proper perspective, man up and say no more Mr. nice guy!!
If I can help you understand him, anything I can do to help, give me a hollar!
David
Hey, I love to read intelligent stories with a happy ending. Sounds like there is no end here! I sure hope ya'll live happily ever after. I'm rooting for you two! I just love to see connection among couples!
I don't always buy into this astrology stuff, but I do demonstrate many Cancer attributes.
I tend to be a good guy and we all know the downside of being a good guy? People used to bring me their motorcycles, lawn mowers, weedwackers, cars anything that needed fixed. I would spend hours in the garage working on stuff for other people, and hanging out with them. Friends would leave and I would stay up late into the night fixing other peoples problems (OPP). I took this as a personal challenge and would hand over repaired machines proudly to my friends, no charge!
I often neglected my ex-wife! I should have told these people to bug off and spent more time with her. Lessons learned, the hard way! We cancers often need to keep the proper perspective, man up and say no more Mr. nice guy!!
If I can help you understand him, anything I can do to help, give me a hollar!
David
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"What I am referring to is when you just know it's not working and you're so exhausted with giving it your all..........BUT there are still feelings there, not necessarily feelings of love, but more feelings of loyalty it's hard then to move on. Which is possibly why we find it so hard to fully let go in certain cases."
That is exactly how I felt in December when I broke up with my ex. On one level, there was the emotional and sensual connection that was damn near impossible to give up. Then there was the other rational side, which said, "Dude, this ain't working."
The only difference is that I felt love for her when I did break up. That's why I worked really hard to make changes in my fundamental identity the months we are apart. My brother once told me that it is near impossible for people to change abruptly. I agree with that. Change is so hard because you are re-patterning values and behavior, and it requires constant monitoring; otherwise, you will slip into old patterns.
From my observation, I know that the only way people really change is when something abrupt and traumatic happens to them. An epiphany of sort, that ends up shaking their identity and value system. It makes sense really because it finally frees them of the chains that held them back when they were trying to change.
That is exactly how I felt in December when I broke up with my ex. On one level, there was the emotional and sensual connection that was damn near impossible to give up. Then there was the other rational side, which said, "Dude, this ain't working."
The only difference is that I felt love for her when I did break up. That's why I worked really hard to make changes in my fundamental identity the months we are apart. My brother once told me that it is near impossible for people to change abruptly. I agree with that. Change is so hard because you are re-patterning values and behavior, and it requires constant monitoring; otherwise, you will slip into old patterns.
From my observation, I know that the only way people really change is when something abrupt and traumatic happens to them. An epiphany of sort, that ends up shaking their identity and value system. It makes sense really because it finally frees them of the chains that held them back when they were trying to change.