Mars in Cancer attracted to Venus in Scorpio

The guy I've been dealing with for 80yrs is a Cancer Mars and I'm a Scorpio Venus.

I may have ran him away for the last time a few days ago.

He told me earlier this week how he's not one to go back to anything, and likes to move forward. I asked him what explains the constant back and forth we have, and he changed the subject.

I don't get he's the obsessed one though, I feel slightly more obsessed.

In what way do you feel obsessed with the Venus in Scorpio?