Posted by dewiklaessen26Exactly. I really don't know which one struggles more, because my fire moon friends have a more difficult time making and keeping friends because of their immediate and raw reactions. The water moon friends tend to drain their loved ones.Posted by FFSwater moons tend to suffer longer because they hold things in where as a fire moon expresses themselves right away so they can get over that feeling rather them sulking on it
I have both in my life.
Fire moon friends: They react fast and hard, but the emotion and reaction (usually an overreaction) passes quickly. They can sometimes be offensive and insensitive to others.
Water moon friends: Seem to suffer more from heavier emotions (sometimes depression), but they keep their emotions to themselves).click to expand
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Posted by AneemA04Probably just you. You don't come off self absorbed. You come off as VERY twitchy and neurotic. Like you over analyze the smallest stuff.Posted by nikkistarI think it is more so because of the fact of i am typing sentences here, I can become more self absorbed in a way that I only feel limited vibe of the people I talk to.Posted by AneemA04So basically, you use DXP as a self sounding board?Posted by nikkistarI tend to keep ppl at arms length.. Idk why, I just can't help myself.. :/Posted by AneemA04You should be able to share this stuff with your friends, however.Posted by nikkistarBecause I can't share this stuff to my friends or my wider circle of friends, Nikki! I keep my stuff with him private away from my general friends. And not even to my bestfriend.
You need to start keeping stuff about your relationship private. We don't need to have every single neurotic detail told to us.
But here on dxp is different!
Here we are free to be all erratic and we can all argue about how we are not.
To keep a diary is boring as hell coz you don't get reactions from people to help you understand yourself more..
This is an asylum Nikki, this is where we can express something hidden from real public.
Or at least, that's my opinion.
My erratic moments and moods can come out seething while I'm in my circle of friends let alone in public I can manage to be unaffected.
So I express my erratic moments here in order to be able to keep cool and balanced in front of general public.
But, okay. I get what you mean.
Anyways, "neurotic detail" 😂
Also, I hope you're feeling better with your brother and sister in law's passing.. Please don't hold any negative emotions for too long, okay.
DXP is not the best place to get relationship advice. You and I both know that.
Okay, I'm not asking for advice no more coz I notice myself ending up only listening to my own's.
But comments are good! Coz people's comments can reflect a little bit about who they are. So I like reading them on my threads.
Then you will sound bigger as a result.
Or is it just me?click to expand
Posted by GemalitHello my Fellow Gemini,
How do you know if an Aries guy is into You?
I’m still undecided about this guy but we message each other every day, (he messages me first most days). I posted on social media about someone hitting on me (I made it a joke) and he responded to that. For almost a year now he messaged me every now and then but I’d hardly ever reply as I didn’t really see him as a potential romantic partner but suddenly my interest was struck, just happened out of the blue and I know I’m crushing on him, but as a Gemini I developed crushes rather easily and I’m sick of “leading” guys on so I’m being cautious. He’s also complimented me quite a few times and scolded me when I brushed them off.
With my nature being fickle I’m scared of actually really liking the guy and him not returning the feelings as it doesn’t happen often.
Posted by Arielle83Ah, gotcha. She must not have been around to see all the shitty stuff Rom did (in the last year). lolPosted by nikkistarShe’s to Rom, what Smithers is to Mr. Burns.Posted by AriquaOk, Ms. Not Rom but can't help responding to Arielle in regards to Rom. lolPosted by nikkistarWell then, you’re not as clueless as I thought.Posted by AriquaTechnically, mental illness is two words.Posted by nikkistarNo, the word of the day is mental illness.
The word for today is idiosyncrasies.
I’m not Rom.
So, you can say her name all you want. 🤣click to expand
Posted by Apis
There already are.
It's just getting people to listen to them that's the problem.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemalitPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemalitWhy worry if he doesn't like you back? Like you said you can be fickle 😁
How do you know if an Aries guy is into You?
I’m still undecided about this guy but we message each other every day, (he messages me first most days). I posted on social media about someone hitting on me (I made it a joke) and he responded to that. For almost a year now he messaged me every now and then but I’d hardly ever reply as I didn’t really see him as a potential romantic partner but suddenly my interest was struck, just happened out of the blue and I know I’m crushing on him, but as a Gemini I developed crushes rather easily and I’m sick of “leading” guys on so I’m being cautious. He’s also complimented me quite a few times and scolded me when I brushed them off.
With my nature being fickle I’m scared of actually really liking the guy and him not returning the feelings as it doesn’t happen often.
Jk
I think he likes you. If you reciprocate you will know for sure. All I know is they love to chase, they go all out to impress. So romantic and very affectionate. My Aries bestie used to drive 300km(600km) every weekend just to have a cup of coffee with me. And he loves driving so maybe that's why😂
Aries guy and Gem girl is one of the most romantic pairings ever. From what I have seen, if they make it long term they tend to stay in love forever and are cute around each other😍
True haha, I think I’m worried because I’ve have unrequited “love” once before and it took me two years to fully get over... I’m an idiot when I really like someone, and this feeling I’m getting is rather similar to my first one so panick mode is on haha. I’m just being cautious as I’ve screwed up a lot this year where guys are concerned.
I am a romantic at heart and he is very cute (inside and out). Don’t think he’d drive that far though 😂.
Awww...It's okay to take time to heal rather than jump into something new and I get it why you are being cautious.
Why don't you give him subtle hints that you would like to date him? Take it slow but good luck taking things slowly with an Aries guy... From what I have seen they commit easily to Gem girls.
You would be surprised what they would do when they love someone. I never dated my bestie. We are friends but he tried to be more. He's amazing... Had he played me he could have had me and he knew all the rules but he never did.
Just go with the flow. And be yourself. He might love you for who you are than any other sign. And they won't keep you guessing and weirdly you will love it like that!click to expand
Posted by GemalitHaha Miss...I've five planets in Scorp and have never been seen as boring.....😲Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemalitPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemalitWhy worry if he doesn't like you back? Like you said you can be fickle 😁
How do you know if an Aries guy is into You?
I’m still undecided about this guy but we message each other every day, (he messages me first most days). I posted on social media about someone hitting on me (I made it a joke) and he responded to that. For almost a year now he messaged me every now and then but I’d hardly ever reply as I didn’t really see him as a potential romantic partner but suddenly my interest was struck, just happened out of the blue and I know I’m crushing on him, but as a Gemini I developed crushes rather easily and I’m sick of “leading” guys on so I’m being cautious. He’s also complimented me quite a few times and scolded me when I brushed them off.
With my nature being fickle I’m scared of actually really liking the guy and him not returning the feelings as it doesn’t happen often.
Jk
I think he likes you. If you reciprocate you will know for sure. All I know is they love to chase, they go all out to impress. So romantic and very affectionate. My Aries bestie used to drive 300km(600km) every weekend just to have a cup of coffee with me. And he loves driving so maybe that's why😂
Aries guy and Gem girl is one of the most romantic pairings ever. From what I have seen, if they make it long term they tend to stay in love forever and are cute around each other😍
True haha, I think I’m worried because I’ve have unrequited “love” once before and it took me two years to fully get over... I’m an idiot when I really like someone, and this feeling I’m getting is rather similar to my first one so panick mode is on haha. I’m just being cautious as I’ve screwed up a lot this year where guys are concerned.
I am a romantic at heart and he is very cute (inside and out). Don’t think he’d drive that far though 😂.
Awww...It's okay to take time to heal rather than jump into something new and I get it why you are being cautious.
Why don't you give him subtle hints that you would like to date him? Take it slow but good luck taking things slowly with an Aries guy... From what I have seen they commit easily to Gem girls.
You would be surprised what they would do when they love someone. I never dated my bestie. We are friends but he tried to be more. He's amazing... Had he played me he could have had me and he knew all the rules but he never did.
Just go with the flow. And be yourself. He might love you for who you are than any other sign. And they won't keep you guessing and weirdly you will love it like that!
Hmmm I’m seeing a potential romance in the future hehe, and yes fellow gem! Lovely to meet you 😁 you should maybe try to romance your Aries bestie because I’m sensing an interest on your part, as for the first one he was a Capricorn and one big goofball which I loved, but it wasn’t meant to be. I’m worried about how fast Aries moves tbh, that’s why I feel like we’re at a stale mate atm. I was just worried I was reading to much into it.
As for scorpios they are intense but...boring. They want sex and I want to chat all night long, they’ll give you sweet words and then the next second be all over you. Ughclick to expand
Posted by JuneGeminiGirlI don’t know how I’d ask him about his chat 😱, he comes across as very shy in person but so confident over text, it’s strange but thank you...btw is there any possibility of taking it slow with an Aries? 😅Posted by GemalitHello my Fellow Gemini,
How do you know if an Aries guy is into You?
I’m still undecided about this guy but we message each other every day, (he messages me first most days). I posted on social media about someone hitting on me (I made it a joke) and he responded to that. For almost a year now he messaged me every now and then but I’d hardly ever reply as I didn’t really see him as a potential romantic partner but suddenly my interest was struck, just happened out of the blue and I know I’m crushing on him, but as a Gemini I developed crushes rather easily and I’m sick of “leading” guys on so I’m being cautious. He’s also complimented me quite a few times and scolded me when I brushed them off.
With my nature being fickle I’m scared of actually really liking the guy and him not returning the feelings as it doesn’t happen often.
I have dated Aries men and am dating one now, they have no problem letting you know they like you and will do everything they can to get your complete attention. They are confident and so much fun to hangout with, Smart, funny and a bit of a child but all in all they work well with us Geminis. I would suggest you do both your charts to see if the STARS actually do align for Love....Enjoy and have fun with your Aries crush.😉click to expand
Posted by iridiumYes. It's not Rom.Posted by Arkansassy
It's Ari.. Not Rom smh
I thought areyoumytwinflame is coldfire17click to expand
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