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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
Im all defense of the Bull men, if there is someone among that number that REALLY bares his interest I feel like he would make it exclusive to her, because Im the same way. I do a little flirting and whatnot as to stay entertained, but when I find someone that truly interests me I quickly clear the room of any distraction and devote my true affection to them. I call them my "suitors". It may seem wrong, but I'm sure, like me, the Bull Men let everyone know nothing is exclusive. Now after that point is made, I feel like any efforts made are self directed and initiated. And don't get me wrong these "suitors" decide to be suitors, I dont ask them for anything other than friendship and I dont lead anyone on. I dont have sex with anyone except the ONE person I am truly interested in and I dont make it a secret that Im interested in someONE when I am.
I have been viewing these aries posts for awhile now, trying to get some insight into my spouse.
What I have experienced is:
1) watches porn often
2) can be VERY bossy
3) wants to brag all the time to everyone, likes to make up lots of stories
4) tends to be very childlike sometimes
5) never really apologizes for anythng they do
6) in the beginning, swept me off my feet like no one ever has
7) extremely dedicated to their offspring
8) can be very aloof, moody and not talk for days especially when they have done wrong
I am a taurus, any advice on dealing with the above? it is very difficult to live with an aries personality in my opinion...
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
Let me guess, you're on the Aries side of the cusp?
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Aug 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 10616 · Topics: 40
"Also...men are not interested in feeling secure the way women tend to be...they want to be kept on the edge of their seat."
Aint that the truth, the older I get start to realize men love all the suspense and drama, the unknown! It gets on my nerves but hey if you can't beat em then join em. I couldn't have said that 5 years ago as I get older the less I ask why, my motto is why not.
You also have to remember that men are weak when it comes to emotional issues like this. If his number 1 priority is keeping a happy home with the person that he intends to spend the rest of his life with (which it should be) and if she's that upset by it he was put in a lose/lose position. It sucks to be the friend that's "let go" but he's probably more concerned with keeping the peace in his relationship.
But in the end we're only hearing one side of the story without his this is all just a guessing game but it seems like the most likely scenario to me. Who knows, she could've been standing next to him when he made the phone call which would explain why it was so abrupt. It's too many unknowns but respect his wishes because regardless of whether or not you think this will work out he's grown and he's chosen her and is obviously doing everything he can to work it out.
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Oct 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 38
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Oct 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 38
If the relationship isn't how you would want it to be move on. As simple as that.
Also, remember his loyalty is now with the woman he loves.