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Oct 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1121 · Topics: 38
I wasn't talking about her situation persay I was saying in general. No one should feel they are the one who's doing all the work in any relationship and if you feel you are then you're probably not getting any effort from the other party. A relationship consist of 2 people therefor 2 people have to contribute in order to have a solid foundation. One person can't have emotions/feelings for both parties. Either you both are on the same page or you're not.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
lol .. that was hilarious
proverbs "silent treatment" means ... I'm not looking for an answer, you creature from Mars who is male and thinks that everytime I express myself, I must be looking for a solution to my problem .. I am female, I will express without needing or wanting any answers to my problems, and if you attempt to tell me what I "should" be doing, or how I "should" handle the issue .. then you'll get the silent treatment because the only thing I really need at this time is a hug and for you to just listen WITHOUT trying to fix my problem ... because the fact of the matter is .. my whole problem isn't the issue at hand, it's because I need to cry and I have this "man" who is trying to fix it for me.
You get silence ..... the solution to avioding the silent treatment?
Shut up, open your arms to hold me and just let me cry.
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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
***Angel says that I can come across a little to strong or intimmidating when I want to get strait to the point with people and am trying to do so without creating that distraction. I don't even understand how I do that anyway, I am not a physically imposing individual by any means.***
Nic, didn't you say you had scorp in your chart somewhere? Maybe this is why. I am told this all the time and I swear I don't mean it in the way people take it. I am just brutally honest. I really don't know how to sugar coat. I do try though.
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Sep 28, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2181 · Topics: 82
lol PP that sounds about right!
Except he actually LIKED it when I wore revealling clothes, but only when I was with HIM!
If I was having a night out with my girl friends he'd always ask what I was wearing and then would go nuts if he thought it was too short/low cut whatever. He would actually say "you're not wearing that, I'm putting my foot down" haha like I ever listened. I do not take well to being told what to do, he used to drive me nuts with that, like he was the boss of me.
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Mar 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 371 · Topics: 13
"THERE you have it. And he does that specifically to get her jealous...because to many Scorp men, a show of jealousy = love."
I agree, Taurusbabe.
Cancergirl, it seems this scorpio was possibly using the situation that you two were friends to his advantage. In essence, if you're calling him and the Bull knows it, who knows what he's telling her on the other end? Let's face it, you don't speak to the Bull so you don't know what BS he's feeding her. Let's just say he told the Bull that you're interested in him as more than friends - she doesn't like it and shows her jealous side. He gets what he wanted from her: A REACTION. Her jealousy spells out love and caring for him. This is not foreign for Scorps. By doing this, he may have dug his own grave because his friendship w/ you is over. Granted, what he did to you was fucked up but its very possible she asked him to cut off ties with you. Could be insecurity, possessiveness, trust issues, call it whatever you may...but again, you only know HIS side not hers.
Do you want to put so much energy into someone who thinks so little of your friendship?
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Sep 28, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2181 · Topics: 82
I just always felt like he was trying to change me, or mould me into his idea of the perfect woman.
Not saying I'm perfect far from it, but I never asked him to change and I at least tried to understand where he was coming from. But it was his way or the highway.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
sagangel ... do you know this mans birthdate?
In looking up his natal chart ... this is where his venus sign will be found. In other words .. we know his sun was in Pisces, when he was born, where was the planet venus?
Do you know his birthdate?
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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
YES!!! Great Story!!! Hilarious!!!! I luv happy endings!!!!