So confusing, Friend , Boyfriend-ughhhh
Goes without saying that "goodness" is something other good people gravitate towards....I think most people when they aren't being reasonable would be amazed at how well you handled the situation above and calmness almost always wins over screaming/bitching/fighting, etc. Time also cools these situations.
I also had a disagreement with Libra...I told him some home truths....he didnt like it and said "there's no way we can keep in touch now" but I explained to him in a much nicer and reasonable way what I actually meant (I made my point but in a better way and I did learn a lot from this experience) and because I made that effort we will remain friends but for the time being we need to keep our distance....too many feelings there still.
"Some people -- maybe all people -- want to have their cake and eat it, too. Obviously your man isn't ready to commit to the whole boyfriend thing, but he definitely wants to be someone special in your life, and you are special to him, though he won't commit to those feelings either"
ABSOLUTELY
I also had a disagreement with Libra...I told him some home truths....he didnt like it and said "there's no way we can keep in touch now" but I explained to him in a much nicer and reasonable way what I actually meant (I made my point but in a better way and I did learn a lot from this experience) and because I made that effort we will remain friends but for the time being we need to keep our distance....too many feelings there still.
"Some people -- maybe all people -- want to have their cake and eat it, too. Obviously your man isn't ready to commit to the whole boyfriend thing, but he definitely wants to be someone special in your life, and you are special to him, though he won't commit to those feelings either"
ABSOLUTELY
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OMG look at the can of worms I opened with that ONE comment!!! LOL....
I think I should take back my comment. Maybe I'm bored, because it's gonna take quite some work to bring that out. Well I'm a Capricorn, so all I know is work. :-) LOL!
I think I should take back my comment. Maybe I'm bored, because it's gonna take quite some work to bring that out. Well I'm a Capricorn, so all I know is work. :-) LOL!
OMG u can say that again! I've never dated a Taurus until now and I've never been treated so much like a lady!!!
Wow that's nice, Thetis!
update: so i texted him saying im confused about us. And basically he tells me that when he has a girlfriend he wants to give her his all and he feels he cant do that right now because he is too busy. Sounds like a cop out to me. I guess I'm just not his "ideal" girl that he is 100% sure about. 
im upset. And i basically told him that ive given him too many chances and im letting go. All we will ever be is friends from now on. He said "I'm sorry" and i said, "its fine. its your loss not mine" I sooo want to be done with it. I hate how they always come back and i hate how i always let him back in expecting a different result. The only result ive ever gotten is heartache and embaressment for believing his lies. So what do you all think? Will he be back? Realize what he lost? Or has he just been keeping me around for shits and giggles.....a girl to have when its convienient..... while hes looking for his "ideal"
im upset. And i basically told him that ive given him too many chances and im letting go. All we will ever be is friends from now on. He said "I'm sorry" and i said, "its fine. its your loss not mine" I sooo want to be done with it. I hate how they always come back and i hate how i always let him back in expecting a different result. The only result ive ever gotten is heartache and embaressment for believing his lies. So what do you all think? Will he be back? Realize what he lost? Or has he just been keeping me around for shits and giggles.....a girl to have when its convienient..... while hes looking for his "ideal"*meant to say shits and giggles....no idea where butter came from!
Hello muse,
Just wanted to say:
- He knows he should have spend more time with you. That is why he was nervous and apologetic and that is why he called when he got home.
- He is extremely insecure about something, that is for sure; probably about how you fell about him or some other issue like that. I do not know enough to give an opinion on your situation but Leo Man are extremely easy to understand to someone who knows them.
Just wanted to say:
- He knows he should have spend more time with you. That is why he was nervous and apologetic and that is why he called when he got home.
- He is extremely insecure about something, that is for sure; probably about how you fell about him or some other issue like that. I do not know enough to give an opinion on your situation but Leo Man are extremely easy to understand to someone who knows them.
LOL Mercinaries!
I do too...whenever i stop listening to my instinct all went wrong! But somehow seems like i've lost touched with my own feelings.
He's being frank about the girls he's been dating right now.. and i mean a lot! Like u know it Merc...Taurus guy attracting lots of gurl out there.
I guess that's why i always keep on hiding my own feelings just in case to be sure that he will not gonna hurt me.
Updates: He confessed to me that he likes me. And thank me for not being pushy and all..being open and reliable. Is cancer being pushy? I keep on wondering because I think i did it once in previous relationship but I know myself that I don't like to be push either.
I do too...whenever i stop listening to my instinct all went wrong! But somehow seems like i've lost touched with my own feelings.
He's being frank about the girls he's been dating right now.. and i mean a lot! Like u know it Merc...Taurus guy attracting lots of gurl out there.
I guess that's why i always keep on hiding my own feelings just in case to be sure that he will not gonna hurt me.
Updates: He confessed to me that he likes me. And thank me for not being pushy and all..being open and reliable. Is cancer being pushy? I keep on wondering because I think i did it once in previous relationship but I know myself that I don't like to be push either.
LOL! now U got it! ..just sent you some info on your pluto aspects, ME90.. 
Hi!
I'm a Taurus boy, been married, had a few great relationships, and while I'm a quintessential Taurus (I like pretty, well-made, and great-tasting things!) with a need for security, I've grown in the last several years. Sure, sometimes it's still hard to get me to go out, but I enjoy new things, new places, and I *love* change: I quit my well paying job just to have fun for a year, and loved it. And I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I'm also not a very jealous guy anymore -- in fact, I prefer that my partner have their own life outside of me sometimes, so I can do the same.
I just met an Aquarius girl. Neat chick, adores good music, seems to love good food. Also, she seems to *love* to snuggle, has been very touchy-feelie, and seems to enjoy intimacy. 'Course, as a Taurus, that's my thing. It's still early, though, only a couple of dates.
I know all about stereotypical Aquarius coldness, need for freedom, lack of close intimacy, etc.
My question, as I'm new to horoscopes: how much variation is there in match potential? Everything I've read so far says that we're doomed to failure. I'm really digging this gal, though, and think it'd be great if it worked! Of course, I know only time will tell, as it's early yet... but should I not even get my hopes up?
I'm a Taurus boy, been married, had a few great relationships, and while I'm a quintessential Taurus (I like pretty, well-made, and great-tasting things!) with a need for security, I've grown in the last several years. Sure, sometimes it's still hard to get me to go out, but I enjoy new things, new places, and I *love* change: I quit my well paying job just to have fun for a year, and loved it. And I'd do it again in a heartbeat. I'm also not a very jealous guy anymore -- in fact, I prefer that my partner have their own life outside of me sometimes, so I can do the same.
I just met an Aquarius girl. Neat chick, adores good music, seems to love good food. Also, she seems to *love* to snuggle, has been very touchy-feelie, and seems to enjoy intimacy. 'Course, as a Taurus, that's my thing. It's still early, though, only a couple of dates.
I know all about stereotypical Aquarius coldness, need for freedom, lack of close intimacy, etc.
My question, as I'm new to horoscopes: how much variation is there in match potential? Everything I've read so far says that we're doomed to failure. I'm really digging this gal, though, and think it'd be great if it worked! Of course, I know only time will tell, as it's early yet... but should I not even get my hopes up?
That's a pretty wide range of activities there, vOiCe. It's like saying, "Oh, I stopped by the convenient store to blow it up then walked very slowly home to bed."