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Oct 03, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1887 · Topics: 46
I don't have nearly enough patience to read all that.
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Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
"Oh stop being dramatic already."
Virgo's are just as moody as Scorpio's. (sticking my tongue out at you)...lol
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Wow, FD ... she's hot !!!!
Have fun !!
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Oct 03, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 1887 · Topics: 46
Haha... You are a goofball and fun to talk to.
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"for the fact that he is NOT willing/eager for The Talk is your answer."
yeah you're right.
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I know. I'm always right.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I ran into him at a shopping center. We hug and greet. Start talking and he says "I wish I had somebody to cook for me" "
Bingo .... my original thoughts come full circle ..
"he laughs and says "i was telling a friend the other day that I dont think I'll be able to have a girl friend for 2 or 3 years because nobody can handle my work schedule""
Southern .. I am uncertain why you then blurted out about being on the same page. By him saying the above is in essence saying, he does NOT want to have a girlfriend for several years.
:: pulls out club ::
"and said "so what your saying is that you dont want a girlfriend right now" (I clearly gave him the chance to say "no I'm not looking for anything like that right now") he said "NO, that's not what I'm saying""
Yet, that's exactly what he meant, Southern .. he's playing you ..
Bail .. now, while you still have your dignity in tact.
"I said "well, you cant necassarily make that assumption about somebody not being able to handle your schedule without being willin to at least discuss it" he says "yeah well. Man, I dont know"......"
This sounds desperate ... he makes the suggestion that he's NOT interested in a relationship, while jokingly making the comment that he's wanting a woman to cook for him ... and you respond by giving the impression that this is acceptable to you, and you will cater to him anyway ...
You're gonna get so fucked ... swim, now !!!!!!!!!!!
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Let her decide what to do. I think you should bail too but your feelings might get in the way of your most practicle outcome.
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Which is why I've gone above and beyond with him, from day one, and will doso until I die .... for it's quite common to treat our children the way we were treated by our parents.
I refuse to ignore this .... he knows it was fucked up, and I don't ever ignore what he did to him as a boy .. we discuss it frequently.
We went to counseling ever since he was 10 years old, until he became an adult .. and the counselors always got on my ass about reminding the boy about what he endured and said I was causing emotional scars and that he cannot mend until I let it go .. I disagree, and still disagree with this assessment ... ignorance breeds ignorance.
My brother and father had a horrible Father/Son relationship and so I imagine this is where most of it came from. From my brothers perspective, my father treated him like crap .. from my fathers perspective, my brother was disobediant and got what he deserved.
The circle has ended ...... and my son knows full well that if I ever find out that he's abusing my grandchildren .. I WILL protect them, no matter what.
He won't though .. he's a great father. He's the complete opposite than how he was treated as a child .. even to the point of overcompensating and being too giving .. creating brats, lol