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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"I say never yes to sex today if I know I will regret tomarrow.
Whatever the reason or reasoning."
How do you know that, likeBrad?
And second ... there are no regrets unless you look at them for their negative input, instead of positive growth.
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Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
likeBrad---
So what is your opinion? Are you saying that sex should come after the emotional attachment or not?
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Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
"And second ... there are no regrets unless you look at them for their negative input, instead of positive growth."
Are you saying focus on the positive and you'll always be satisfied? Or choose to focus on the negative and you'll never be happy?
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Chocolate!!!!! you sexy thang..how are u?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I mean .. why regret something simply because it didn't work out?
Many things don't pan out that we try in life ... it's what we do with the information .. we can close ourselves off because we regret that we even tried, or we can be open to what could be seen as a gain.
Personally .. I don't see how an ex-relationship could possibly been seen as a regret. Every person has something valuable to bring to us. Do we see it? Do we embrace that every person is different, therefore even the same situation is unique because it was shared by a different person? Or, do we say it was a waste because we expected each person to live within a preconcieved idea of what we wanted it to be, based off of our own standards or ones from a prior relationship?
The same scene could be painted a thousand times ... but, if each artist is different .. then each of those same paintings have a different meaning because it came from a personal expression.
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"Have you discovered something new? did you break through a plateau? I'm curious about this because I've heard stories and know some older married couples who just stop having sex altogether. I just wonder the cause."
Unsure, virgolibra .. I know that there is a place in me that is not happy with my marriage, and though I've thought for a long time that it was because of not having emotional support .. yet, since he's still here eventhough he doesn't get laid .. I can now see that I've been in error .. therefore, I have to re-evaluate my assessment of the meaning, "emotional support".
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"I can now see that I've been in error .. therefore, I have to re-evaluate my assessment of the meaning, "emotional support".
Either that or your assessment of the meaning of "unconditional love"
just a thought.....
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Maybe that's exactly what it is, Southern .. since I don't believe in unconditional love. Maybe there is such a thing, and I can't understand how a person could live with this concept.