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Sep 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 501 · Topics: 35
"He is probably worrying about things that he doesn't talk to you about. Bills, cars, mortgage, work, coworkers, the list goes on...many Aries don't like to bring their burden upon their partners because well to be honest we don't like advice and we think we can do everything and anything."
Yes, he finally admited this to me when we were talking... he said that he wanted to take care of me and didn't want me to think he couldn't handle things. He said this was part of the reason he was uptight.
Once agian thank you...
LOL I hope the Cancer that I am with feels the same way... lucky to have me.
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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
Ahhh yes, once again another Libran culprit... J/k... I know these wonderful guys too well... If he said friends he means it... Simple. They can't be hoaxed into anything more. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HIM. Librans love all who they care for so at times it may seem he is "in love" with you, although he may care for you deeply and "love" you as a friend, you can't get that mixed up with him being "in love" with you.
You have fallen for him, so back away for awhile and get your emotions in check, otherwise you will get your feelings hurt... If you can check your emotions and come back to being "just friends" with him, then they can be the best friends in the world.
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Sep 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 501 · Topics: 35
"A good way to get back on track with eachother is having a date night once a week. During this time you have the opprotunity to court eachother, romance one another and possibly rekindle a little spark."
I agree totally but he is so determined to have me move back in right away and I feel like we should take time to date again. He blew my phone up yesterday with text messages saying "Forget what I said I just want you to come home. We can work this out at home.See that you driving me crazy come home it will be better. I promise! If you're tryig to hurt me back then you did it. All I want is my family back home with me. Where yall belong. Shit I'm sorry. Come home. Stop doing this. Your husband is saying come back home. Is that so bad. Your husband is saying I love you. Come back where you belong!"
Now this really hurt me because I want to go home so bad..but I'm so scared. I just want to take it slowly but every time I tell him I want to wait and just date for a while he gets angry and says that I don't love him and I'm not really tryig to work it out. But that's not true. I just know that we need to take our time and get it right.
That's funny though,
Cause we both agreed on being friends ok fine. We had dinner at my place that night and spoke about not getting entwined but we had sex again that eveing after he initiated that he wanted to have sex with me. He slept over at my place that night, woke up in the morning and started stroking me again and like I could not resist I give in and we had sex that morning again. We had a lovely breakfast and then all of a sudden he had to run home so I just let him go.(he was suddenly in a hurry)
Told me later that week that he needed time to think things through for himself.
After that I didn't see him again but he called me every other day to check up on me and a week later he left for England to visit his family there. He returned (to the Netherlands)a week and a half later and in the week that he was not here I finally realised that I have fallen for this guy. I am now taking my distance and will not call him anymore nor do I want to see him for now. He knows what turns me on and everytime he sees he plays on that. I cannot bear the fact that the feelings are not mutual and may never be mutual. Why can't one ever choose who they fall in love with? This is not fear!
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Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
"1 year dating ???"
We are NOT dating. I've just know him for a year and I am interested in dating him. We've just been friends and getting to know eachother for the most part. We havent been on a formal date and havent even kissed.