Signed Up:
Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
Ahhh yes, once again another Libran culprit... J/k... I know these wonderful guys too well... If he said friends he means it... Simple. They can't be hoaxed into anything more. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE HIM. Librans love all who they care for so at times it may seem he is "in love" with you, although he may care for you deeply and "love" you as a friend, you can't get that mixed up with him being "in love" with you.
You have fallen for him, so back away for awhile and get your emotions in check, otherwise you will get your feelings hurt... If you can check your emotions and come back to being "just friends" with him, then they can be the best friends in the world.
Signed Up:
Sep 12, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 501 · Topics: 35
"A good way to get back on track with eachother is having a date night once a week. During this time you have the opprotunity to court eachother, romance one another and possibly rekindle a little spark."
I agree totally but he is so determined to have me move back in right away and I feel like we should take time to date again. He blew my phone up yesterday with text messages saying "Forget what I said I just want you to come home. We can work this out at home.See that you driving me crazy come home it will be better. I promise! If you're tryig to hurt me back then you did it. All I want is my family back home with me. Where yall belong. Shit I'm sorry. Come home. Stop doing this. Your husband is saying come back home. Is that so bad. Your husband is saying I love you. Come back where you belong!"
Now this really hurt me because I want to go home so bad..but I'm so scared. I just want to take it slowly but every time I tell him I want to wait and just date for a while he gets angry and says that I don't love him and I'm not really tryig to work it out. But that's not true. I just know that we need to take our time and get it right.
That's funny though,
Cause we both agreed on being friends ok fine. We had dinner at my place that night and spoke about not getting entwined but we had sex again that eveing after he initiated that he wanted to have sex with me. He slept over at my place that night, woke up in the morning and started stroking me again and like I could not resist I give in and we had sex that morning again. We had a lovely breakfast and then all of a sudden he had to run home so I just let him go.(he was suddenly in a hurry)
Told me later that week that he needed time to think things through for himself.
After that I didn't see him again but he called me every other day to check up on me and a week later he left for England to visit his family there. He returned (to the Netherlands)a week and a half later and in the week that he was not here I finally realised that I have fallen for this guy. I am now taking my distance and will not call him anymore nor do I want to see him for now. He knows what turns me on and everytime he sees he plays on that. I cannot bear the fact that the feelings are not mutual and may never be mutual. Why can't one ever choose who they fall in love with? This is not fear!
Signed Up:
Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
"1 year dating ???"
We are NOT dating. I've just know him for a year and I am interested in dating him. We've just been friends and getting to know eachother for the most part. We havent been on a formal date and havent even kissed.
Signed Up:
Sep 11, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 263 · Topics: 17
"Sadge, I think this is an issue of timing. If you have a need to talk to him about your relationship and that need is so great that it is causing you anxiety, then you need to risk talking to him. Do not behave in a way that is against who you are simply because he is an aqua and you want to please him."
I don't exactly want to totally air my laundry on this site, but let's just say that I've been used quite a bit in the past... I have a lot to offer someone, yet I am taken advantage of more often then not... I've had 3 serious relationships... and not once have I been in love... I don't fall easily...actually I have never fallen at all. This relationship isn't causing me anxiety... it's actually causing me much joy in my life... and not just cause of him, but his friends and the richness they have brought to my life as well. I've already rolled over the fact that the bottom could drop out of this at any time, and I can walk away no problem... trust that I can, that's just the way that I am... This situation is different though... we're all one big happy group of friends, yet this little sidebar relationship is developing between me and the aqua... and I'm here to obtain your advice and insight as to how to manage and maintain my situation in such a way that our relationship is able to progress while making sure our group and the overall friendship is uneffected.
Signed Up:
Oct 25, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 130 · Topics: 22
are taurus men big on women who make the first move, be it in flirting, asking them out or maybe in bed?!