PROVERBS HELP!!!
RF-LIONESS72...."It sounds like he's not sure about you yet. He's still observing and analyzing"
I feel that too but that day that I had spent with him, He took me around and introduced me to sooo many poeple. His Uncle, who immediately said, OMG, your beautiful!! Shannon just laughed and then asked him to guess my age!! (Which I wonder if it's a factor, i'm 7 years older but he always says no!!) I think he loves the fact that NO ONE ever guesses it right, I always get hit 10 years younger which is great for me!! It's that child-like spirit as Proverbs says about us Aries, along with the olive italian skin...we age pretty well
He had to make sure that I met Miss Betty in the Pro shop, Mr. Andy and of course a couple of his friends. Nothing but wonderful comments from everybody which made him SO PROUD!!!! I think it is important to him to have a beautiful women under his arms!!
I just want him to know he can have the whole package deal and everything that I have given him so far.... trust, loyalty, laughter and love!!! Only when he's ready to realize it and want it, is when it will his him, right, smack, in the forhead!!! haha!!
I feel that too but that day that I had spent with him, He took me around and introduced me to sooo many poeple. His Uncle, who immediately said, OMG, your beautiful!! Shannon just laughed and then asked him to guess my age!! (Which I wonder if it's a factor, i'm 7 years older but he always says no!!) I think he loves the fact that NO ONE ever guesses it right, I always get hit 10 years younger which is great for me!! It's that child-like spirit as Proverbs says about us Aries, along with the olive italian skin...we age pretty well
He had to make sure that I met Miss Betty in the Pro shop, Mr. Andy and of course a couple of his friends. Nothing but wonderful comments from everybody which made him SO PROUD!!!! I think it is important to him to have a beautiful women under his arms!! I just want him to know he can have the whole package deal and everything that I have given him so far.... trust, loyalty, laughter and love!!! Only when he's ready to realize it and want it, is when it will his him, right, smack, in the forhead!!! haha!!
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Chatz, you are correct in your assessment. You of all people understand all too well how hard it is.
I recently handed out this advise to someone and I intend to follow it myself.
": Sometimes we have to let go of something or someone in order to proceed or progress. If you know that some form of sacrifice or self-sacrifice has to be made, then do it. You won't be able to move forward until you've done so."
I'm just trying to move forward and not allow the mistakes of the past to get the better of me this time around.
I recently handed out this advise to someone and I intend to follow it myself.
": Sometimes we have to let go of something or someone in order to proceed or progress. If you know that some form of sacrifice or self-sacrifice has to be made, then do it. You won't be able to move forward until you've done so."
I'm just trying to move forward and not allow the mistakes of the past to get the better of me this time around.
lol @ all the kinky answers to the question ...
sorry to hear that aqua 
im not sagitt but i am a fire sign and i WILL NOT say i love you just because someone told me that they unless i feel the same way
i usually like to be the first one to utter these words....
and yes sagitts get bored very quick ...
y saying that you two have something special and different is just a way of avoiding the subject and getting you away from that love thing...but im sure u already knew that
try to feel him out...and maybe dump him first if you feel he is insincere with you because when he is ready to dump you it will hit you like a tone of bricks....saggs are brutal like that....but im still mesmerized by them lol
im not sagitt but i am a fire sign and i WILL NOT say i love you just because someone told me that they unless i feel the same way
i usually like to be the first one to utter these words....
and yes sagitts get bored very quick ...
y saying that you two have something special and different is just a way of avoiding the subject and getting you away from that love thing...but im sure u already knew that
try to feel him out...and maybe dump him first if you feel he is insincere with you because when he is ready to dump you it will hit you like a tone of bricks....saggs are brutal like that....but im still mesmerized by them lol
Bravo ! It takes a lot of effort to move in another direction other then the one you've set your intentions on. Just keep busy Chatz baby. Being busy (no matter what it is as long as it leads you back out into the world again)...is good therapy!
P-Angel: "Just have to continue searching for the one who is a "Good Bad Boy", if he even exists."
You know if he does exist I am bound to find him. Though I don't want to go through them like a box of chocolates that I didn't like any of the candies I bit into and put back lol.
You know if he does exist I am bound to find him. Though I don't want to go through them like a box of chocolates that I didn't like any of the candies I bit into and put back lol.
Juls .. maybe it's not you at all that he's not interested in and just the event, itself, but is just using work as an excuse not to hurt your feelings.
I don't know that I would give up on him just yet ... perhaps, plan another outing more towards his interests and see if he wants to go. If it's something he would really, really like .. but, STILL won't commit, then I'm afraid that maybe the ladies in here may be right.
However, if it is just the event you've planned that he doesn't want to attend and is making an excuse to save your feelings .. then this might be an indicator that he's considerate of how you feel.
I don't know that I would give up on him just yet ... perhaps, plan another outing more towards his interests and see if he wants to go. If it's something he would really, really like .. but, STILL won't commit, then I'm afraid that maybe the ladies in here may be right.
However, if it is just the event you've planned that he doesn't want to attend and is making an excuse to save your feelings .. then this might be an indicator that he's considerate of how you feel.
LOL* Hey Genome, what about the breathtaking cinematography and sound effects in Titanic? I thought they were spectacular. The sunsets, the iceburgs, the formal attire, the grande staircase, the cold Atlantic water rushing madly into third class, etc. etc.
*A Titanic feast for the eyes and ears..
yeah..both 'Abyss and 'Alien were fun to watch.. I think he directed 'Terminator' movies too; his wife starred in them. The 1st Terminator was really good.
my very favorite Director is the much respected Steven Speilberg. Whatever he touches turns to Gold. The midas touch. .. a real pro ..
*A Titanic feast for the eyes and ears..
yeah..both 'Abyss and 'Alien were fun to watch.. I think he directed 'Terminator' movies too; his wife starred in them. The 1st Terminator was really good.
my very favorite Director is the much respected Steven Speilberg. Whatever he touches turns to Gold. The midas touch. .. a real pro ..
I really don't understand ... if you know he's an asshole, and you know he is using you, and you know that he will continue to take advantage of you ....... then, why in the hell would you even WANT him back?
Seriously .. I don't get it.
Fuck him !!!!!
Seriously .. I don't get it.
Fuck him !!!!!
ahhhh...... okay NOW I get it.
well...... I think he must have skipped taurus.....
well...... I think he must have skipped taurus.....
"so he told me to have a good life. help me understand."
pookie ... sometimes, we spend too much time trying to understand, and in so doing, drive ourselves nuts over it. I know your mind is reeling, trying to come to terms .. and being a Virgo, these wheels are going to be turning in your head, feeling like the gears are ready to jamb up.
For your own sanity ... you just have to figure a way to let it go, without finding a reason for it. Sometimes, two people just end. People are complicated, and the only person you can really figure out is yourself.
If you put all your focus into trying to figure him out, then you are neglecting yourself ... focus on yourself and your children, and their well-being.
Think of it this way ..... if this guy would walk out on you, then he really isn't that good of a guy for you, and your children. That doesn't change the fact that you love him .. but, without respect, love isn't enough.
Love means NOTHING if the man doesn't respect you, pookie.
Chin up ... find a sitter for the kids and go hang out with your girlfriends .. get this off your mind.
pookie ... sometimes, we spend too much time trying to understand, and in so doing, drive ourselves nuts over it. I know your mind is reeling, trying to come to terms .. and being a Virgo, these wheels are going to be turning in your head, feeling like the gears are ready to jamb up.
For your own sanity ... you just have to figure a way to let it go, without finding a reason for it. Sometimes, two people just end. People are complicated, and the only person you can really figure out is yourself.
If you put all your focus into trying to figure him out, then you are neglecting yourself ... focus on yourself and your children, and their well-being.
Think of it this way ..... if this guy would walk out on you, then he really isn't that good of a guy for you, and your children. That doesn't change the fact that you love him .. but, without respect, love isn't enough.
Love means NOTHING if the man doesn't respect you, pookie.
Chin up
... find a sitter for the kids and go hang out with your girlfriends .. get this off your mind.