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Posted by SolaristicYes i am.
You're a Libra moon right? My ex roomie did that and WORSE. Literally.stole.my.mattress lol.
I did nothing. Took it as a lesson.
Posted by nikkistarI didn't know he was TinMan, damn..Posted by EmhendoLol TinMan aka Gemlover. He likes feet.Posted by nikkistarWho?Posted by EmhendoCarlos would agree with you. LolPosted by nikkistarThey are friendlier than feet.Posted by EmhendoCrazy, but that's cause you posted spiders.Posted by nikkistarWhich one am I..
Welp guys. I was wrong.
So it is true, cancers are crazy or not. Lol
Crazy or not?click to expand
Posted by solidsnakeBecause I've gone through everything in my head so many times I can't work out where it's actually gone wrong. We had never argued. I just always feel like I have done something to upset him. He told me when a person upsets him he cuts them out to protect himself. He's cut me out and I want to work out where it went wrong or if he's just lost interest. If he lost interest I can stop wasting my time thinking about him and trying to pull myself apart.Posted by WhathaveidoneYour statements, when compared to your questions are contradictory. Youve already explained everything youve done right, so why do you need to figure out what youve done wrong. What is their to get over if youve been upfront honest & courteous. What is the "string" if u ever see him again?Posted by solidsnakeMaybe the way I write is confusing because I'm so confused myself? I've had this spiralling in my head for 6 months. He told me he liked me because I was so honest. I have never lied to him or about him. He always knew that. I would never want a relationship on lies. People take me as I am if they don't like me I won't lie or change myself. Unless I'm hurting someone who means something to me.Posted by WhathaveidoneUndercover drama meaning you like to play with the minds & emotions of people who are not psychologically inept. I can tell by the way u write you like confusion. I dont get the feeling of fluidity and upfrotness when reading your descriptions. Virgos can be very honest & upfront, qhich is a foolish trait when using with wrong people.Posted by solidsnakeGemini.
Whats ur sign?
I can tell youve got undercover drama
Maybe he was mentally preparing himself by being distant so hed be more comfortable being away from you.
Haha what do you mean by undercover drama?
What is ur goal now that u arent together?
The reason it might not be fluid is because of how confusing the situation was. And how quickly it U turned.
I'm 100% honest with everything I've said about the situation for the reason being I want to know what I've done or how I can change it because I care about him. If I didn't care about him why would I be honest? If I cared about him why would.i waste my time and lie?
My goal is to figure out what I've done and work out how I can get over it and be string for if I ever see him again.
Maybe im confusedclick to expand
Posted by EmhendoOops, yea wouldn't.Posted by nikkistarI didn't know he was TinMan, damn..Posted by EmhendoLol TinMan aka Gemlover. He likes feet.Posted by nikkistarWho?Posted by EmhendoCarlos would agree with you. LolPosted by nikkistarThey are friendlier than feet.Posted by EmhendoCrazy, but that's cause you posted spiders.Posted by nikkistarWhich one am I..
Welp guys. I was wrong.
So it is true, cancers are crazy or not. Lol
Crazy or not?
But I guess he *wouldn't* agree with me. I hate feet..click to expand
Posted by GemCurioAll sorted nowPosted by Whathaveidone@Whathaveidone I sent 2 DMs back before Irealized you weren't getting them. You have to go to your profile and make Direct Mail receivable from anyone. Then I can send a response back.. Thank youPosted by GemCurioThanks. Because it was a long time ago and it all changed so quickly I have a hard time wording it. I'm seeing a therapist atm because of it and other things. Because I find it difficult to word the whole situationPosted by WhathaveidoneForgive me. I owe you an apology... You shouldn't of had to defend yourself. There were too many blanks and filling in the gaps anyone naturally has to assume the worst. I sincerely apologize because I have been dealing with a bunch of lying sacks lately..Posted by GemCurioI'm not trying to play victim in any sort of way. If you knew me personally you would know I dfend him constantly when people say he's not good enough for me. I'm not excluding information on purpose. I just didn't think half of it was needed. I was trying to keep it brief.
Ok.. I reread the combination of the add on and your original explanation and I'm calling you out @Whathaveidone
You know exactly what you did. And you know EXACTLY why everything went sour. You casually skipped you "friend's" birthday and gender on the same weekend he wanted to go for the trip and you casually keep forgetting about the next 48 hours after that. Don't play dumb to try and make yourself a victim.. You know well what happened and what you did, how it looked, and probably the actions you took that made him back up gradually away from you. I could speculate and make up some Jerry Springer type stuff or you can stop playing victim of the Virgo ghosting and tell the truth. He began to pull away for what happened at that friend's party and the following days.
Do you really think you're the first person to try provide selective information in the story to make us look bad??? That started with us real Virgos in childhood....
Ready to tell the real truth yet??? Nothing is beyond repair with us (most of the time) but you can't lie your way into love... AND YES GEMINI CHOOSING TO EXCLUDE INFORMATION IS LYING FOR THE RECORD...![]()
I don't know what I did. That's what I'm trying to figure out. I want to figure it out not for my sake but so I can apologise to him. I am not a lier of any sort. I was always 100% honest with him.
I have told the truth in all my posts. Nothing has been changed as in any stories. I just didn't think some parts were needed. I thought they were normal things. When I have mentioned that to people before they have told me it's normal. Maybe I'm dealing with the wrong people? You asked for the full thing. I told everything on a time line.
I've honestly not lied at all. If I'm going to lie why would I be asking for help?
Nothing happened at the friends party. As I've said. She's a girl and my best friend? He was invited.
With the trip he didn't state a specific day as I told you. That's why I said let know a few days in advance so I don't let you down. It wasn't something with a set date. My friends birthday had been planned for weeks. He already knew that.click to expand
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowsYeah... and since him I've been on 3 dates. All virgos 🙈Posted by WhathaveidoneGeminis and Virgos date each other?!Posted by solidsnakeGemini.
Whats ur sign?
I can tell youve got undercover drama
Maybe he was mentally preparing himself by being distant so hed be more comfortable being away from you.
Haha what do you mean by undercover drama?click to expand
Posted by Yodi
Soooo let me get this str8..
when I move in with you.. I can't borrow your underwear anytime I want?? TF!
You're selfish yo 🙄 and I'm going to have to rethink moving in with you.
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