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Posted by MyStarsShineMy ego didnt want to let go but I have a female cousin who is 26 or so and is marrying a 51 year old.Posted by DMVWisdom here ^^^
I can empathize with your post.
I was feeling a guy 14 years younger then me.
I felt like I was settling way b4 we went out on a date but also my scorpio moon wanted to explore the unknown.
I knew I was settling throughout the first date and the second. Maybe I stuck around because I was waiting for the passion.
Grown woman/man passion!!
Ugh never came. The only thing that developed was the feeling of inequity between us. Like with you!
I cant handle feeling like I'm giving more than what I put out.
Plus I'm grown and so are you.
Grown gotta match grown.
Leave him be finding his way through the world. That's what his 20s are for.
I didnt want to rob my date of his sowing years
I felt the same way.....robbing and also stunting their growth in some way
Letting go is so important in these situations....click to expand
Posted by MaraiYep, I feel the same. It's just difficult to accept that a guy who seemed to be a great one could do this. Especially a crab guy who has a vibe of vulnerability as well 🤦Posted by Libra_galHe said you should give him time, so you know something is going on. The behaviour he has sounds like he's married. Would keep a distance until you have some answers.Posted by MaraiThank you for your reply!
Not 100% free? Something 🐠 is going on.
If you feel he is worth it to hear him out, why not.
You can always decide later to not pursue it.
I really really liked him, it is just weird that he first said he's not seeing anybody and now that it was obvious I am into him, he tells this and asks for my patience. I am scared as I know this is what married players tell to be able to play some more so I am really confused and didn't even reply to his last messages 😞click to expand
Posted by CaliopeThank you for the input, I needed some confirmation as my friends tell me to listen him out, but they've never heard all the bad stories which start just like this.
He told you he wasn't 100% free.
He has a girlfriend or a wife.
You guessed right, he's a player.
Posted by nakedgirlavalancheLol I reckon someone had been crying to you in DM ?Posted by PhishFoodnah, just a try-hard forum heroPosted by nakedgirlavalancheRising and Asc.Posted by PhishFoodbet you're a scorpioPosted by nakedgirlavalancheI call it calling out folks on BSPosted by PhishFooddramatic you arePosted by Squishy_MarshmallowsPosted by AneemA04Are you sure??!!
Following yesterday's thread about a capricorn having female friends while being around me, I have an update.
So I ended up expressing my concerns about the frequency of him interacting with females from his country through video calls.
At the same time, I know given it is only around 2 mnths with us being with each other, there is no need to commit into anything. Both from his and my side. But noticing him having these video calling activities kind of enforcing me not to commit from this point on.
Now today, in my new workplace, I have made friends with a guy who is also a new employee like I am. He invited me to see a movie together. The schedule isn't fixed yet but I'm not going to limit myself for a friendship with the guy.
I don't plan to tell the cap about this.
No questions, I know where I'm going with this.
I'm not going to limit myself interacting with guys. From our discussion a while ago (not that 2 nights ago), I derived from his response that he doesn't mind me to have male friends.
So, with this, I can take him having those female friends as long as I can do the same.
I wouldn't do it. And wouldn't advice my friend to something like this.
Talk to the Cap. I thought you guys are a couple. Don't jeopardize things...
Yup judgement central " I thought you guys are a couple. Don't jeopardize things..."
Read before and after pre suggesting advice.
And aren't you the one who said you FORCED someone to date your friend? Charity at its finest!!
JESUS FECKIN CHRIST![]()
Blunt, honest and low tolerance for double standard hypocritical BS
You are welcome
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Posted by Black-MambaJust difficult to accept the guy with soft eyes and an air of vulnerability is a predator. I guess I got thrown into a bit of a cognitive dissonance. Thanks for the help 🤞Posted by CaliopeExactly... not really neuro science
He told you he wasn't 100% free.
He has a girlfriend or a wife.
You guessed right, he's a player.click to expand
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