Not Over An Aries Ex
Hmmz this one has been going on a while and it might not be healthy, long distance relationships aren’t and you are thinking about it too much. We might not really know the answer why he keeps in contact. I think he probably still wants to know how you are. The Instagram likes mean nothing.
You need to look out for yourself, he went away, regardless of reason, it’s not healthy thinking about it, wondering if he still likes you. Get out there and meet new people. If this guy comes back then that’s fine, but you are seriously wasting your life waiting for him, don’t get confused, it’s not romantic to wait for a guy or anything. It’s not romantic if he goes away and leaves you, even if it is for work. It’s not romantic to spend this much time apart. And I really think that if you let go, then something else would come into your life. I’ve done it, I’ve been there, and I look back now, I’ve met nicer women, and the long distance relationship I had was a waste of time, it makes no difference why the distance is there in the first place, it’s there. Ask yourself, really, what is best for yourself? Meeting someone nicer, or waiting for someone who left you?
You need to look out for yourself, he went away, regardless of reason, it’s not healthy thinking about it, wondering if he still likes you. Get out there and meet new people. If this guy comes back then that’s fine, but you are seriously wasting your life waiting for him, don’t get confused, it’s not romantic to wait for a guy or anything. It’s not romantic if he goes away and leaves you, even if it is for work. It’s not romantic to spend this much time apart. And I really think that if you let go, then something else would come into your life. I’ve done it, I’ve been there, and I look back now, I’ve met nicer women, and the long distance relationship I had was a waste of time, it makes no difference why the distance is there in the first place, it’s there. Ask yourself, really, what is best for yourself? Meeting someone nicer, or waiting for someone who left you?
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Not to knock single life or people who enjoy it, just my pov.
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Opinions on dis?
I'm not. I don't jump from one to another like that. I hate changes when it comes to rs just so you know. Starting all over again with a new person is just so urghhh..
So...NO..not me.
I have seen earth signs dating one after the other more than any other signs so stop tryin' to make it sounds like your sign is so perfect.
And really, what is with you with the air signs? I just don't understand you at all.
The only real successful relationships ive seen stick have been aqua gemini couples.
In your guys minds you can make up anything to make u feel better about terrible decisions making and be totally oblivious to the reality of the how your presence affect others. Like above you totally blame your ex for cheating and doing drugs as if you didnt have any part to play in choosing ur partner. The problem wasnt ur ex, it was your decision making. Then presto, six months later your in serious relationship & in love again lol
Shit is just kinda silly to me
Im sure this has been the cycle of your romantic life, no?
And it's half a year not 6 days. And I wasnt even searching. It happens. If you think I like changing partner, you are so wrong. But I dont need to dwell over someone who hurt me for a long time. Been there, done that. It is stupid! Once someone cheat on me, its easy for me to get over shit.
You're really a judgemental freak. Yeah stay there and be hurt until the world ends. Good for you...I guess.
Also this is like the 3rd or 4th thread in as many days about air signs from him. Someone is obsessed 😏
Im trying to control myself but its hard, cos' I have seen him doing this over and over again. Get over it already. 😑😑click to expand
“All air signs are sluts and cheaters”
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Let him say it first is my rule. Of course rules are meant to be broken.
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I find it strange how alot of air signs i know bounce around from serious relationship to the next. Or maybe they just come off like they take it serious by hanging out with one person constantly until they get tired and dispose of said person. I guess this is part of what they refer to as the whole detached thing. This concept is foreign to me being an earth sign. Its seems scattered & unstructured with no real reasonable intent, other than a way to pass the time. I myself choose not to give one person so much of my time to the point where they think they are more included inside my life than they really are. If i jumped in & out of serious relationships i would feel empty & confused.
Opinions on dis?
I'm not. I don't jump from one to another like that. I hate changes when it comes to rs just so you know. Starting all over again with a new person is just so urghhh..
So...NO..not me.
I have seen earth signs dating one after the other more than any other signs so stop tryin' to make it sounds like your sign is so perfect.
And really, what is with you with the air signs? I just don't understand you at all.
The only real successful relationships ive seen stick have been aqua gemini couples.
In your guys minds you can make up anything to make u feel better about terrible decisions making and be totally oblivious to the reality of the how your presence affect others. Like above you totally blame your ex for cheating and doing drugs as if you didnt have any part to play in choosing ur partner. The problem wasnt ur ex, it was your decision making. Then presto, six months later your in serious relationship & in love again lol
Shit is just kinda silly to me
Im sure this has been the cycle of your romantic life, no?
And it's half a year not 6 days. And I wasnt even searching. It happens. If you think I like changing partner, you are so wrong. But I dont need to dwell over someone who hurt me for a long time. Been there, done that. It is stupid! Once someone cheat on me, its easy for me to get over shit.
You're really a judgemental freak. Yeah stay there and be hurt until the world ends. Good for you...I guess.
Also this is like the 3rd or 4th thread in as many days about air signs from him. Someone is obsessed 😏click to expand