Can I Share a Story With You All? Pisc. (Me, M26) - Pisc. (Her, F24).. To Her, How am I Significant?
Posted by besarlalluviaPosted by Placiddwhen i realise i’m not being myself.. i’m not happy. so i run. ghosting at least for me is my attempt at being assertive without hurting youPosted by besarlalluvia
i still don’t know why i broke up with my ex. i had my personal fears that i projected, and knowing this, i ended up blaming myself and pushing him away. but i also know that i wasn’t satisfied emotionally by him. anyway that’s a tangent- not trying to make this about me.
as a pisces woman, i try to do the right thing, but either for myself or for the other person. it’s a constant battle between selfishness and altruism.
this makes it hard to know what to do. in the end i can’t be myself in relationships.
this didn’t really answer your queries but it gives some perspective. i related to your pisces woman
ok, thats very interesting... when you say you cant be yourself, once you reach that point do you just push away? or is it something that youre only self-conscious of often?
the problem in my head is: can i be myself without pushing you away? so i push you away firstclick to expand
That's really intriguing honestly.. From an outside-looking-in perspective a significant other of yours would be blindsided by it and cause you to push away faster and harder because of not knowing what's going on and therefore not giving you the time or space to approach the issue(s) your own way. It sounds almost self-sabotaging to me, no offense intended.. Maybe it's just the way you click with certain people? 🤔
I try not to ghost but the question I ask myself is, "is this person right for me and why?" usually the answer stems down to how much of a good friend they are to me, despite the differences. I'm sure that's a cliche answer but getting black and white about it, having that friend you need at the end of. The day is vital imo.