Fathers and kids
Ummm no! How do those even correlate?
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I have no idea why I feel like that
Sounds like he has you a bit up on a pedestal and it’s motivated him to step up in his career. Wanting to be ‘worthy’ of you.
I think it does hurt him when you talk about your life post him moving. He retaliated by saying he’s single to gauge your reaction.
Would you consider long distance for a time if you had a plan in place to be under one roof again?
I think it does hurt him when you talk about your life post him moving. He retaliated by saying he’s single to gauge your reaction.
Would you consider long distance for a time if you had a plan in place to be under one roof again?
Posted by LentoBull91that's a whole lot of speculation you're using to justify murdering children and blame the victim...children are not just one's personal "source of happiness"...you're responsible for them, to protect them, provide for them, put their interests first, etc....this dude is a monster and I have no idea why you'd make excuses for his behavior....Posted by Black-MambaPosted by LentoBull91Its her fault he had kids with her?
He didn’t kill her over his side piece he killed her because he knew she was going to make his life a living hell with the divorce and all that child support. His life was over and he knew it probably causing him to do what he did. Events like this are becoming more common this isn’t going to be the last time something like this happens. These kind of things happen more often than you think you just don’t hear about them like in this case.
Thats his seed his responsibility
Its her fault that she was probably going to use his children against him to bleed him dry. Making his children the source of his misery instead of being his source of happiness in life like children are suppose to be. I bet she threatened that he would never be able to see his kids as much as he wanted too like most dads who want to be in their children’s lives.click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by BlackburnI could feel appreciation but I do not sense selflessness on his part, to be honest. Which is why, I am now pulling back on my selflessness, because you could only give so much before you realise, maybe this is not a balanced enough exchange. Lots of reflection needed, of course, and hopefully an honest conversation with him some time soon. He has been a bit distant in communication lately.
"and pleased that he finally found someone who he never knew could be what he wanted, whilst having her own professional ambitions as well"
Beware of manipulation maneuvers where you are felt valuable for making decisions that don't belong to you, expect selflessness from him as well, not appreciation for your sacrifices. Boundaries are necessary in life.
I would not advise any game or change of route more than your reflection over how your needs are being met in this relationship and his effort in fulfilling them in general.click to expand
Same here, time to step back and evaluate my relationship. Why do we as women mold and give, only to not expect just as much in return? I'm much stronger and smarter than this, but love screws my head up...
Posted by LadyNeptuneInteresting @LadyNeptune, I never saw it that way. What makes you think that I am on a pedestal ?
Sounds like he has you a bit up on a pedestal and it’s motivated him to step up in his career. Wanting to be ‘worthy’ of you.
I think it does hurt him when you talk about your life post him moving. He retaliated by saying he’s single to gauge your reaction.
Would you consider long distance for a time if you had a plan in place to be under one roof again?
Though he always did say, he is always surprised at how clever and intelligent I am, it never ceases to surprise him how much knowledge I know on so many things. Especially, knowledge regarding his field of work, even though it is completely different to my own.
The way he speaks of stepping up in his career, sounds more for his own happiness, than for me though. He is unhappy about where he is now, but no woman before me, actually knew about his field of work enough to discuss where he envisions his future, and how to go about achieving it. Only through me, has he redeveloped goals and plans to follow through on. He told me so, prior to me, he never saw or had the motivation to change this way.
Well @LadyNeptune, if he said it to gauge my reaction, I clearly showed him I cared, want, and choose him. Yet it backfired on me, so what kind of a test was it ? he went so far as to say he wanted his keys back and I should go during that argument, even though I fought to not let a moment of anger between us blow everything up ?
If it hurts him to hear me speak of my life, post him moving. Why does he keep talking of his life, after he leaves this city ? He never stops speaking of it, it hurts me to hear it, he knows it. So is he not pushing for me to detach as well, because when I do not detach and remain attached. He pushes more. He even proposed that I could live at his home once he leaves. I could take over should I wish to stay at his place. I told him I could not, the memories of him would kill me. I would have to try to forget he ever existed once he leaves my life. The pain would be too hard on me, then he goes silent. He told me that was silly, that it should not matter, that I should take over his place.
If I could manage to plan my life out, then I would consider being with him in another city. However, I would only move for a man if I know he is solid. His behaviour now, makes me have doubts. I need to know that if I move for a man, he will be reliable, someone I know who will be there through thick or thin, and not abandon me.
Posted by Black-MambaHell no. If that was the case why didn’t he call the police after he killed the wife and before he killed the wife? Why kill her and conceal all the bodies?
anybody believe this?
He claimed his wife then strangled their daughters and that he, in a rage, strangled her. He said he put the bodies in his pickup truck and took them to the work site.
Posted by Capricorn91Ok the teats bit was me being dramatic 😂. Well we'll see about wether or not he puts effort in. The frustrating thing is as a gemini if I'm not given alot of attention at the beginning my interest starts to go, the first Capricorn worked with me and honestly he made alot of effort. I didnt have time to wonder if I liked him or not. It was rather unhealthy now I think back at it. As for the newer one, Good vibes but not so much effort. I dont think it was meant to be (which is a shame).Posted by GemalitIf a Cap is making efforts he is interested in you or likes you. Otherwise we don't care much. Wow tears?🙄 Hope this one's a good one. All the best.
See I'm very curious about this, Ive had past experiences (well one) with a capricorn. And I used to be so sure we vibed really well but now I look back and think...we talked about nothing and everything at the same time, and maybe He was just being polite (but then i read what you put and he made ALOT of effort to spend time with me- until i put my foot down and demanded answers...woops).
Anyway, Another capricorn has entered my life, I was sure I'd fucked things up but we made eye contact all night, and when id get really nervous and clamp up hed just be really open and fill in the gaps, (you can imagine the impact he had if a gemini becomes speechless 😱). They both share the same vibe, its kind of creepy how alike they are, even down to their walk. I'm hoping this time it doesnt end in me in tears 😂. Id like to think ive done alot of growing up since then.click to expand
Posted by Jules-llLove, a feeling we cannot control. The heart wants what the heart wants. However, at the end of the day Love is a choice, we could only hope others will make the same choices we do.Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by BlackburnI could feel appreciation but I do not sense selflessness on his part, to be honest. Which is why, I am now pulling back on my selflessness, because you could only give so much before you realise, maybe this is not a balanced enough exchange. Lots of reflection needed, of course, and hopefully an honest conversation with him some time soon. He has been a bit distant in communication lately.
"and pleased that he finally found someone who he never knew could be what he wanted, whilst having her own professional ambitions as well"
Beware of manipulation maneuvers where you are felt valuable for making decisions that don't belong to you, expect selflessness from him as well, not appreciation for your sacrifices. Boundaries are necessary in life.
I would not advise any game or change of route more than your reflection over how your needs are being met in this relationship and his effort in fulfilling them in general.
Same here, time to step back and evaluate my relationship. Why do we as women mold and give, only to not expect just as much in return? I'm much stronger and smarter than this, but love screws my head up...click to expand
You are still with your Stinger Gent ?
how has the last month or so been?
I dont know. One day I woke up and decided to buy a house. Im closing in 2 weeks.
Any major or sudden changes in your life?
I joined a indoor cycling bar and now go twice a week. It's a second home. Lost some inches as well.
Gemini crush kinda fell off the face if the earth after a pretty good run. He seems to be picking up steam again.
In your heart?
Alot more selective openness. Desire to keep stepping out on my own individuality.
In your mind?
Change is good. Be a lover not a fighter
And do you have any placements in Leo/Aquarius or Cancer/Capricorn?
5th house stellium
Cancer rising
Venus in capricorn
Sun, moon, mercury conjunct Uranus
I dont know. One day I woke up and decided to buy a house. Im closing in 2 weeks.
Any major or sudden changes in your life?
I joined a indoor cycling bar and now go twice a week. It's a second home. Lost some inches as well.
Gemini crush kinda fell off the face if the earth after a pretty good run. He seems to be picking up steam again.
In your heart?
Alot more selective openness. Desire to keep stepping out on my own individuality.
In your mind?
Change is good. Be a lover not a fighter
And do you have any placements in Leo/Aquarius or Cancer/Capricorn?
5th house stellium
Cancer rising
Venus in capricorn
Sun, moon, mercury conjunct Uranus
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by BlackburnI could feel appreciation but I do not sense selflessness on his part, to be honest. Which is why, I am now pulling back on my selflessness, because you could only give so much before you realise, maybe this is not a balanced enough exchange. Lots of reflection needed, of course, and hopefully an honest conversation with him some time soon. He has been a bit distant in communication lately.
"and pleased that he finally found someone who he never knew could be what he wanted, whilst having her own professional ambitions as well"
Beware of manipulation maneuvers where you are felt valuable for making decisions that don't belong to you, expect selflessness from him as well, not appreciation for your sacrifices. Boundaries are necessary in life.
I would not advise any game or change of route more than your reflection over how your needs are being met in this relationship and his effort in fulfilling them in general.click to expand
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IME when we give more often than not the other person ends up feeling too worthy of the sacrifice. I'm wary of not meeting people halfway because we usually expect some kind of exchange and it's easy to either start keeping track of things or give in too much in other's demands.
It sounds like a good idea, hope you get things straight.