i hate myself for being a libra!!!!
When you turned someone down, there is no way to make it easy on the other person. That person is hurt, no matter what you do, or how you try! The only different is that if you let them know early, they have more time to recovery and move on.
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Once a Cappie feels all "secure" in any relationship, they won't bother with the excessive calling/msging etc etc....and the fact that he gave you the password to his voice mail, means he trusts you a lot! Just don't betray his trust 'cause then it goes downhill...
hmmm...why do I get the feeling from all the above that I'm asking too much from a friend??
Hi Angelfish,
I am a Cancer mooner and I had a 8yr friendshi8p with a Cancer Sun/Cancer moon male. He was very very shy and would not make any move in the beginning so if it wasn't for me being aggressive, we'd have gotten nowhere. (I pulled him to me and kissed him before he moved away since I thought it was the last time I'd see him again- this was our first kiss). The only move he did was give me his number when we met but he did it in a indirect way (asking the waiter to send me a drink and then I didn't see him or know who he was until I went to the bathroom. When I returned to my seat, he was sitting in my booth).
He would call me but I had to also initiate contact to give him some security that I was interested. He needed to know how I felt before he told me how he was feeling. He was indirect in his actions and words but his vibes told me everything I needed to know. As a Pisces, you should be able to read him well. We got closer when he went through a bad situation. I let him know I was there for him and if he ever needed someone to talk to, I'm here. I always kept in touch in a casual, friendly but interested way and encouraged him to keep in touch. Because I was consistent and patient with no pressure whatsoever, he eventually came out of his shell and moved very slowly with me(his Venus is in Taurus & overshadowed his Mars Leo). I would do things like send him holiday and b-day cards (he was big on that thing) and send him jokes.
I don't know your entire story (how long you been friends? Is he seeing someone? Did he ever tell you he liked you?) so its kinda hard to give you tailored advice. I am not sure what happened at Thanksgiving why you didn't say hi but try to make up for that by making a friendly phone call. ScorpioChick's advice is good. What is his Rising, Venus & Mars? I will try to look at your older posts to read your background story.
I am a Cancer mooner and I had a 8yr friendshi8p with a Cancer Sun/Cancer moon male. He was very very shy and would not make any move in the beginning so if it wasn't for me being aggressive, we'd have gotten nowhere. (I pulled him to me and kissed him before he moved away since I thought it was the last time I'd see him again- this was our first kiss). The only move he did was give me his number when we met but he did it in a indirect way (asking the waiter to send me a drink and then I didn't see him or know who he was until I went to the bathroom. When I returned to my seat, he was sitting in my booth).
He would call me but I had to also initiate contact to give him some security that I was interested. He needed to know how I felt before he told me how he was feeling. He was indirect in his actions and words but his vibes told me everything I needed to know. As a Pisces, you should be able to read him well. We got closer when he went through a bad situation. I let him know I was there for him and if he ever needed someone to talk to, I'm here. I always kept in touch in a casual, friendly but interested way and encouraged him to keep in touch. Because I was consistent and patient with no pressure whatsoever, he eventually came out of his shell and moved very slowly with me(his Venus is in Taurus & overshadowed his Mars Leo). I would do things like send him holiday and b-day cards (he was big on that thing) and send him jokes.
I don't know your entire story (how long you been friends? Is he seeing someone? Did he ever tell you he liked you?) so its kinda hard to give you tailored advice. I am not sure what happened at Thanksgiving why you didn't say hi but try to make up for that by making a friendly phone call. ScorpioChick's advice is good. What is his Rising, Venus & Mars? I will try to look at your older posts to read your background story.
I don' t think your paper crane did much to determine the destruction of monogamy. (wow if you read that litterally it's really grotesque)..LOL... but good question... why? it was a peaceful conversation wasn't it?
I found the Libra stats shocking. Besides myself I know about five other Libras really well, none of us have had any accidents and as far as making snap decisions one in particular would rather just play it safe and take the slow lane on the highway (male) another has been in several close calls that were only close calls because of excellent snap decisions in avoiding/correcting the matter and is rather impulsive while driving (changing lanes and passing) and has never made me feel unsafe to ride with her (my girlfriend). I was in a near miss today on the highway. It was a near miss because I was able to check my mirror, swerve, and drop it a gear and punch it while correcting in order to not lose control.
I have also been told by MANY people they feel I am the safest person to drive with. Not because I am the most attentive, but I react the best in scary situations. I don't get frustrated, I never feel out of control, and pretty much always make the best snap decisions out of anyone I know. In fact, when stuff gets really tense I usually take control of the situation because I feel I am the best suited to handle it.
I don't really understand why Libras have the most accidents.
I Gem best friend is on his second DUI and has had over five accidents and this is his second license suspension.
My aries friend has almost gotten us killed several times from initiating road rage then not having the balls to back it up.
I have also been told by MANY people they feel I am the safest person to drive with. Not because I am the most attentive, but I react the best in scary situations. I don't get frustrated, I never feel out of control, and pretty much always make the best snap decisions out of anyone I know. In fact, when stuff gets really tense I usually take control of the situation because I feel I am the best suited to handle it.
I don't really understand why Libras have the most accidents.
I Gem best friend is on his second DUI and has had over five accidents and this is his second license suspension.
My aries friend has almost gotten us killed several times from initiating road rage then not having the balls to back it up.
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If u want to know how my story ended...well, we were still talking and when I started to withdraw (because I didn't want to have a long distance relationship), he pursued me and told me he loved me. He also told me he wants to move by me and marry me. I didn't want my feelings to grow because after 8 yrs I still felt like I didn't know him well enough. He was reserved & opened up too slow for me. He also had issues with employment & legal matters. I then met the Scorpio so I had a choice to make so I chose the Scorpio. When I told the Cancer, he told me to leave him alone and never speak to him again 
I didn't even get a chance to respond because he didn't even want a reply. I think I might send him a xmas card but maybe I won't. I still wonder if I made the right choice.
I didn't even get a chance to respond because he didn't even want a reply. I think I might send him a xmas card but maybe I won't. I still wonder if I made the right choice."gemini and gemini?
that'll be one crazy ass relationship..."
I was going to ask about the best same sign couples. I have heard they generally aren't the best idea. I am a Libra and my girlfriend is a Libra. This is the girl who has me comfortable with the fact, of all of the other realtionships I have had....I want to marry. I have never met anyone, friend or girlfriend that makes me want to merge like she does.
that'll be one crazy ass relationship..."
I was going to ask about the best same sign couples. I have heard they generally aren't the best idea. I am a Libra and my girlfriend is a Libra. This is the girl who has me comfortable with the fact, of all of the other realtionships I have had....I want to marry. I have never met anyone, friend or girlfriend that makes me want to merge like she does.
I've been with my Scorp for two years now. Most compatibility readings say that the Aries/Scorpio pairing is highly difficult. Its true, it is difficult...at first anyway. The first year of our relationship included a lot of power struggles...and tears on my part. Eventually we came to an unspoken "truce", and there is now a mutual respect between us. I would just like to let any Aries/Scorp couples know that it IS possible for harmony with this pairing. I was frantically looking for advice on here when Scorpio and I would fight. Now the fights are pretty much non existant. Yeah there's disagrements but no more volcanic explosions. As long as you stand up for your beliefs with Scorpio, he'll respect you and vice versa. He knows he can't control me, but trusts me as I trust him. I should also mention that I have a Scorpio moon and Venus in Pisces. This also really helps me understand the depths of my scorpio.
I know another Aries/Scorp couple and I dont know how they are still married. She is the most "aries" i've ever seen. Extremely abrupt, bossy, messy, careless and SELFISH. All the negative aries characteristics rolled into one. I at least try to keep those traits in check, she lets them fly. Anyway, I just dont see how someone as self centered as her could still be with a scorpio. It blows my mind, but also gives me hope. If anyone saw these two together, you would know that your aries/scorp relationship is possible. If they could do it, so can we.
As long as Aries learns patience, he or she can really gain a lot from a scorpio. And I mean REALLY gain a lot, Scorpios are seriously the best in bed. Sensual as all hell. While most guys barely take the time to get a girl going, my scorp somehow gets me going wayyyyy before we hit the sheets. Ahhh, ain't life grand?
I know another Aries/Scorp couple and I dont know how they are still married. She is the most "aries" i've ever seen. Extremely abrupt, bossy, messy, careless and SELFISH. All the negative aries characteristics rolled into one. I at least try to keep those traits in check, she lets them fly. Anyway, I just dont see how someone as self centered as her could still be with a scorpio. It blows my mind, but also gives me hope. If anyone saw these two together, you would know that your aries/scorp relationship is possible. If they could do it, so can we.
As long as Aries learns patience, he or she can really gain a lot from a scorpio. And I mean REALLY gain a lot, Scorpios are seriously the best in bed. Sensual as all hell. While most guys barely take the time to get a girl going, my scorp somehow gets me going wayyyyy before we hit the sheets. Ahhh, ain't life grand?
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