An Interesting Article...
"What I have found, and what many of these women have yet to discover, is that the
skills that make one successful in the church, community or workplace are
not the skills that make one successful in a relationship."
I am so sick and tired of people claiming that it's the women fault that because we are successful, and can carry our own that we have to be at fault for not having a man. What about the women that choices to not have a man but to only have a man to help her make a baby and he can go...would we look down on that women? or the women that don't want a man right know but just want to enjoy the single life (that would be me). What about the asshole men that lie, cheat, on us do we overlook that and still continue to claim or believe that he still love and want to be with us inspite of what he has done....
I don't think Bill Clinton is going to leave Hillary will she becomes president because of her success...
And what we have yet to discover....
I personally have discovered enough stuff about men over the last 10-20 years to know that regardless of what I do for a living and or the community I am going to still hold my own and he needs to be a man and except that and he should look at me as a person that wants to achieve success just as much as he wants it and that maybe if we put our heads together and work towards it we both can achieve success together and not just achieve because society has put in a man heads that he should be the bread winner and not the women.
I think society should stop making us women look like me are the problem and look at the role that men and the women play in keeping the relationship together and the faults with us both and not just one.
skills that make one successful in the church, community or workplace are
not the skills that make one successful in a relationship."
I am so sick and tired of people claiming that it's the women fault that because we are successful, and can carry our own that we have to be at fault for not having a man. What about the women that choices to not have a man but to only have a man to help her make a baby and he can go...would we look down on that women? or the women that don't want a man right know but just want to enjoy the single life (that would be me). What about the asshole men that lie, cheat, on us do we overlook that and still continue to claim or believe that he still love and want to be with us inspite of what he has done....
I don't think Bill Clinton is going to leave Hillary will she becomes president because of her success...
And what we have yet to discover....
I personally have discovered enough stuff about men over the last 10-20 years to know that regardless of what I do for a living and or the community I am going to still hold my own and he needs to be a man and except that and he should look at me as a person that wants to achieve success just as much as he wants it and that maybe if we put our heads together and work towards it we both can achieve success together and not just achieve because society has put in a man heads that he should be the bread winner and not the women.
I think society should stop making us women look like me are the problem and look at the role that men and the women play in keeping the relationship together and the faults with us both and not just one.
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aren't virgos nice to everyone in the fear/worry of hurting people's feelings?
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I totally don't want to rain on your parade PA ( 
), but consider it from a different perspective... What if it's not about trying to figure out whether or not the sex was good? What if it's about confirming the "oh my God was that as incredible as I think it was?" feeling that you've got with your partner?
Two sides of the coin. Just saying.
), but consider it from a different perspective... What if it's not about trying to figure out whether or not the sex was good? What if it's about confirming the "oh my God was that as incredible as I think it was?" feeling that you've got with your partner?Two sides of the coin. Just saying.
Hello,
I am hoping that you Libran ladies out there can help me decode this Libran girl's behaviors because I am really confused right now.
So I know her for about 3 months. I know her through her friend. Her friend told me that I should asked her out, but I was a bit late and some other guy asked her out. They got a long well so I was just cut my loss and moved on. Well, she broke up with him a month ago (the only reason I knew was because she was all of a sudden seemed to be really interested in me). So I asked her to go play racket ball with me one Saturday. At first she told me that she had a lunch date with her girl friend and that she would be interested in playing the Saturday after Thanksgiving. I told her that would be too far ahead. She then said that her lunch date would end at 4 and we can go play after. She did not have a racket but she went and bought one that after noon! We had a great time and at the end she said that we should play again.
After Thanksgiving, she seemed pretty excited to see me again and asked me if I want to play again. I said we can play on Tuesday. When she came, she told me that she had a racket ball class that morning so she was kinda tired. We had a good time still. After the game, I asked if she would like to go skating with me on Friday that week. I told her that I would make some dinner. She said that would be fun.
Anyway, Friday came, I surprised her with a very nice candle light dinner (I heard Libran like dine and wine). She seemed to enjoyed it a lot and we had a great time. Then we went skating. This is when I start noticed something was wrong. She seemed to have fun and smiled a lot, but refused to let me help her skate (i.e. hold her hand). It's not like we are holding hand and walking down the street. It's pretty normal for me to hold girls' hands to help them balance or to pull them. Her reason was that, in the past, she had fallen a few times whenever someone hold her hands. I took her home early because her skates were rubbing against her legs. Anyway, she told me that she had a great time and thanked me for taking her skating.
I am hoping that you Libran ladies out there can help me decode this Libran girl's behaviors because I am really confused right now.
So I know her for about 3 months. I know her through her friend. Her friend told me that I should asked her out, but I was a bit late and some other guy asked her out. They got a long well so I was just cut my loss and moved on. Well, she broke up with him a month ago (the only reason I knew was because she was all of a sudden seemed to be really interested in me). So I asked her to go play racket ball with me one Saturday. At first she told me that she had a lunch date with her girl friend and that she would be interested in playing the Saturday after Thanksgiving. I told her that would be too far ahead. She then said that her lunch date would end at 4 and we can go play after. She did not have a racket but she went and bought one that after noon! We had a great time and at the end she said that we should play again.
After Thanksgiving, she seemed pretty excited to see me again and asked me if I want to play again. I said we can play on Tuesday. When she came, she told me that she had a racket ball class that morning so she was kinda tired. We had a good time still. After the game, I asked if she would like to go skating with me on Friday that week. I told her that I would make some dinner. She said that would be fun.
Anyway, Friday came, I surprised her with a very nice candle light dinner (I heard Libran like dine and wine). She seemed to enjoyed it a lot and we had a great time. Then we went skating. This is when I start noticed something was wrong. She seemed to have fun and smiled a lot, but refused to let me help her skate (i.e. hold her hand). It's not like we are holding hand and walking down the street. It's pretty normal for me to hold girls' hands to help them balance or to pull them. Her reason was that, in the past, she had fallen a few times whenever someone hold her hands. I took her home early because her skates were rubbing against her legs. Anyway, she told me that she had a great time and thanked me for taking her skating.
As we parted, she hugged me (that was like the first physical contact for the whole date). Before this, she was really playful, hitting me on the arm, etc?. Anyway, I asked her if she wanted to go play racket ball the week after. She said Friday (today) would be good.
Well I saw her on Sunday and she acted like she was not into me at all. Anyway, I called her last Wednesday to see if she wanted to go see a play with me. She did not answer the phone so I left a message. She texted me back ?Hey, do you need something?? I texted her saying that I wanted to go see a play wither her this Saturday. She said she was headed to Salt Lake. I said we can go see it on Friday, and she said ?I don't think that would be a good idea?. So I said ?Yea, that's a bad idea. Forget I ever asked. Are you still good for the game on Friday or is it bad too?? She said ?racket ball is good, 3:30? I said ?yeah, 3:30?. Well today she texted me ?Hey, I'm kinda tired today. I don't think I'd do very well at racket ball. Do you think we could find a time before you leave next week? Or are you too busy?? I was going to tell her in person that we can play whenever she feels better. When I stopped by her place, she was asleep (I am not sure she was or not, since her room door was closed and her roommate told me that she is asleep). So I texted her back ?I understand. I can play next week but it's best if you let me know when you are good and ready. It's no fun when you are not interested?
Okay, sorry for the long posting but I just want to provide as much details as possible so you Libran ladies can help me. At this point, I don't care whether I have a chance with her or not. I just want to know why she behaved in such a strange way.
Thanks,
Confused Aqua_guy
Well I saw her on Sunday and she acted like she was not into me at all. Anyway, I called her last Wednesday to see if she wanted to go see a play with me. She did not answer the phone so I left a message. She texted me back ?Hey, do you need something?? I texted her saying that I wanted to go see a play wither her this Saturday. She said she was headed to Salt Lake. I said we can go see it on Friday, and she said ?I don't think that would be a good idea?. So I said ?Yea, that's a bad idea. Forget I ever asked. Are you still good for the game on Friday or is it bad too?? She said ?racket ball is good, 3:30? I said ?yeah, 3:30?. Well today she texted me ?Hey, I'm kinda tired today. I don't think I'd do very well at racket ball. Do you think we could find a time before you leave next week? Or are you too busy?? I was going to tell her in person that we can play whenever she feels better. When I stopped by her place, she was asleep (I am not sure she was or not, since her room door was closed and her roommate told me that she is asleep). So I texted her back ?I understand. I can play next week but it's best if you let me know when you are good and ready. It's no fun when you are not interested?
Okay, sorry for the long posting but I just want to provide as much details as possible so you Libran ladies can help me. At this point, I don't care whether I have a chance with her or not. I just want to know why she behaved in such a strange way.
Thanks,
Confused Aqua_guy
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sensual= in it with all of our senses. And I know I go in with every sense.
She's keeping you on the back burner....you're her just in case. So I would recommend not contacting her....if anything drives us crazy it's people who shower us with attention and then act dis-interested
or its the good ole libra indecisiveness...step back and I guarantee she will come to u