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Posted by SarayoungPosted by Endless
JFC and I thought keeping friendships on THE SIMS™ was difficult, you expect such maintenance like wtf.
I doubt there's anything "special" going on, in fact, I dare say between his job making him busy, and his new friend who are fresh blood keeping him interested, he have no time for you, and you're gonna say blablabla he's just a friend, he doesn't have the responsibility to keep you happy, if he have enough social interaction on his day, he probably get home wanting to just relax, but you expect him to talk and talk with you? man what a drag
you're a freaking task.
I didn’t say I expect him to talk to me when he’s trying to relax after a day at work. < if you read correctly I actually used his job as an understanding.
He’s one of my best friends who has started to act differently towards me without an explaination. I don’t know what type of friends you have or that you are BUT I am genuinely concerned and was looking for some feedback on what I should do. Which is because I care not because I need his constant attention ——- or that I am a task but thanks for that.
I hope you made someone smile today!click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoI agree with this. Dude knew he wasn't ready to jump into a new relationship deep down but it's very selfish and rash to drag the kids into this and then keep them in this awkward position. It's gotta be hard enough dealing with the separation of their parents then this smh. Plus I don't like his handling of his daughter being bullied. Not saying he's a bad father just that the whole decision seems immature for a parent.Posted by libra77777Posted by pisceswoman123Thank you. Yes, I really agree - it's just so hard. He came into my bedroom at midnight last night and when I asked him why he kept making stupid excuses about wanting to speak about his daughter. I said to him, just tell the truth, you didn't come in at midnight to discuss her and he's apologised today and said he came in to check whether I was still out or whether I was in bed and he's unsure why he did it or why it would even matter.
Very nice of you to think about his children.
I think he just rushed into your relationship and he is regretting it.
Just do what you are doing, but think about your self and move on.
If is meant to be he will come back to you, but right now you just have to let him be and figure what he wants by himself. Anything you do to try to bring him back will backfire because he’s in a dark place right now.
Do your life and don’t try to make him jealous or play any games.
I kind of feel that if he's wondered where I am, then he must still care and maybe there is hope. I said 'I don't want to argue, just don't come in my room at that time again, let's forget it even happened and move on'
He was really grateful that I didn't let it escalate, but I'm just unsure as to whether I'm being too nice about everything.
Tell him he can call you if he’s wondering where you are.... this is the way i see it...
Look if you’re going to open your house to him and the kids then he can’t be going back and forth. It’s not fair for you or the kids. They need a stable environment and you acting like everything is okay between you two isn’t helping at ALL, if anything it’s making things worse and more confusing. He’s the one bringing around his kids and you have accepted them as your own, put your foot down. That kind of behavior where he’s not really speaking isn’t acceptable.click to expand
Posted by rejuvenatedheart
You guys have been dating for how long and had had how many conflicts and y'all are... Moving in together...?
Posted by FireStarter
yeah I would reccomend talking to a health professional
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