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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
yes i have. you noticed? *blushes*
i'm the same. i don't try to push my beliefs (or lack thereof) on others, so i hate it when people try and do that. although, the belief in god and religion are pretty much two separate things. religion is what makes people go crazy, and fundamentalist [insert religion here]/crusaders are annoying as hell.
As a Libra I'm very open, however in order for me to feel totally comfortable I have to get the right vibes from the receiver of my information. Hell I'll tell the right person everything and a little more... I don't shy away from talking about myself, but I won't talk about myself to those that aren't flexible in their thinking..with my cancer boyfriend I usually feel him out if he's in a positive frame of mind then I open up if not I just wait for the right time.
Well ya gotta remember Bullerina - not all signs are the same. Trust is usually a big thing for all earth signs esp. but depending on the other signs of their birth chart they may be influenced to lie otherwise. Kind of like how I almost knew before my pisces even left that she may meet someone else. It just doesn't surprise me that I would end up finding someone like that only to have them end up with someone else when I think everything is peach king otherwise. I'm currently in a mental limbo right now because I know that on one hand I know that she has alot of things to deal with @ the moment - lets just say things haven't been going great @ all for her ever since she got there - but @ the same time I know she's the type of girl that guys look for to be in a relationship with and possibly settle down with - hell even her ex still wants her - even though hes a dirtball for how badly he treated her shes the only one that's still put up with so much before finally giving up on him - i just dunno why this always happens to me - I do in turn trust her because I want her to trust me - but @ the same time my mind can't help but wonder if she would really do anything to keep me from feeling the need to trust her - cause she knows how much trust means to me - and in turn @ the same time I know how much it means to her - but bullerina I kid you not when I say that EVERY relationship I've been in has ended up the same way - the woman finds someone else (particularly @ their workplace - actually that's really too much of a coincidence now that I think about it) and with my Taurus of 3 years I finally gave up on her after realizing how much of a - well - whore she was - my Leo ex of a year has insecurity issues and always thought that I was cheating on her when it turned out that it was only to cover the fact that she too had admitted to basically giving her body to any guy that was interested before meeting me - course I found this out after she too found someone @ work and after she finally broke it off with me because of it (thank God for protection right?) then I end up meeting my pisces @ work and well - she cheated on her ex with me so it makes me wonder if she would do the same thing to me despite the fact that it took alot for her to commit such an act as having an affair - yet I've remained to be true to everyone I was with - so I know that I myself as a cap have been true to others - I can't speak for everyone - only because I want to be trusted by others
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Apr 10, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 329 · Topics: 23
Thanks, CC, for asking. I'm doing great and really appreciate the concern.
Also, thank you to everyone else for the insightful comments.
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Mar 20, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2764 · Topics: 36
UC is right on about staying friends with the ex. LA...i am sure he still cares about her as a person and doesn't want to lose that friendship they have. but that's all it is...friendship. he probably does not want anything more than that from her.
i understand because my aqua bf is still good friends with his ex...and we are doing long distance right now. and conveniently, she happens to live 30 minutes from where he lives. so, they hang out and i get to hear about it, and i am thousands of miles away. tough situation!!! but, i trust him and i know that he looks at her only as a friend and he values her as that and nothing more. she is the ex for a reason!
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"We're just not compatible as lovers and romantic partners."
-yes! this is how it is with my aqua and his ex...they were horrible together as lovers and had a terrible romantic relationship, but they were good friends before hand and they are just meant to be friends. they click as friends, but not as lovers. it is what it is...
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
So long as I have what I need from you in the emotional/spiritual sense, then I can keep you in my spirit; oddly enough, It was through death that I grew closer to the people in my family, including the departed; I learned that I have all I need to know from that person, and that I can let them go becuase they've served their purpose (even if it's unbeknownst to them). Alot of people have died in my family, and it DID hurt, but I know that I have them with me. So I don't grieve, I don't regret, and I just let go.