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Aug 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1660 · Topics: 107
thanks roxi...just have the holiday blues...i sure could use a hug (sniff)
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Jul 17, 2007Comments: 7 · Posts: 2275 · Topics: 58
lol@ can i get some nachos and salsa with that. Every great composition has crescendos and decrescendos. And they also have different movements and codas....which means the pace will change, the tempo will change, and sometimes you have to do some parts over.
My aqua boyfriend has many platonic female friends and i have to say i was a little uncomfortable with this at first however as time has gone on i am perfectly ok with it.I have a male aqua friend who i work with and i chatted with him in the early days of my relationship and he told me that Aquarians don't see the sex of a person when it comes to friends, they are just friends and thats all they see.I read this somewhere too. My Aqua boyfriend is friends with a few of his exes aswell and i told him once that i was unsure that he still has feelings for them and thats why he wanted to stay in touch with them. He said " i do but care for them more as friends than as "exes " and his reply was "Its nothing like the feelings i have for you, you're my Girlfriend !!. He was quite put out that i could think that.Dont forget these guys just like to be everyones friend and don't see that sometimes not everyone sees it that way too!!.
Having said that i wouldn't be happy with your friends situation at all, seems she is not much of a priority in his life.These Aqua guys will get away with murder if you let them ...he needs a kick up the backside me thinks !!!
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Nov 14, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 819 · Topics: 41
I think she should take him at his word. Seems like most Aquarians don't lie. They tell you how it is. Also, she needs to remember how important friends are to the Aquarian. Seems like I always see my guy with friends, and when he's not, he's lonely.
I have many platonic friends of the opposite sex -- my Gem rising plays into this. Yes, I'm aware that they're men, and some harmless flirting goes on, but they have their girlfriends, and I have my boyfriend, so that's where it ends.
I think your Virg friend should also remember how vulnerable men feel when they are without a job. I'm sure her Aqua boyfriend is very aware he's not pulling his weight financially, and maybe hanging out with his former work buddies is a way to disengage from his own feelings of being inadequate.
Also, it's highly unlikely they would get up to any monkey business seeing as there are two girls and one guy. LOL, I may be opening myself up for jokes here -- but, getting real, most people don't generally participate in three-ways.