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Aug 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 5176 · Topics: 77
If he isn't ready than he won't be until he is over her. You cannot rush these guys into anything. If he isn't emotionally available, then he won't be until he decides to be. There is nothing you can do for now.
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Pull those emotions waayyy back. He isn't emotionally avaialable. Believe me. I have been there. However we were able to remain friends.
I am a Virgo woman with an Aqua man as you can see by the name To be honest this has got to be one of the best relationships that I have ever been in he more like my best friend then anything else and I like it that way he doesn't smother me and I damn sho don't smother him but one thing tho is that he tends to pull away from me when I am the one that should be doing that it seems we both have a cold side to us can I please get some help on that
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What sign Is Chef Gordon? He seems like a Leo to me.
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So you finally had the courage to come o'er and post, huh?
"whats a suggestion to mellowing out scorp men when they're all grrrr im gonna fight till the end?"
Depends. If it's a core issue, he's just not going to stop until he gets his way.
If it's a trivial issue and he's being argumentative, just refuse to stop talking about it. Doesn't mean you gave in. Means you didn't give him any more fuel to fire it up.
How is it driving you wacko? I thought you hated Scorps. I'd be *shocked* if you were involved with one right now.
He has a Taurus moon and a Scorpio rising.
He certaintly doesn't act like a Leo. I have a few Leo friends and they are all the same...always needing or wanting to be the center of attention and always doing things to stand out in the crowd. They are all total divas but I love them to death.
This guy is not like that at all. If he says he's a Leo, than fine but it makes following anything written about Leos difficult cuz he doesn't act like one. Hmmm...
What scorpio_rising said isn't even 30% correct. If you stop the argument. It's going to turn from arguing to resentment. Also if he's determined enough it's just going to continue till he makes his point clear. It isn't necessarily about getting his way all the time it is also about making it clear about what he thinks. Listen to what he has to say first and then tell him what's right and what's wrong about his points. Then show him there's other possibilities. You have to be calm, respectful, and open minded to what he says also. The other condition is if he sees you as a possible asset for a specific purpose he might be more willing to listen to what you have to say also.