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"they are just too masculine for their own good. "
Possibly true. Perhaps we all are born with this instinct of being numero uno.
"do you find you have to make alot of compromises to make a long term relationship work "
True for myself. Love can melt much of the resistance, though. Inherently, I dont like stability and prolonged spells of relative peace and prosperity ( with me being the center ) because it adds to the pressure of delivering consistently on all dimensions which means that I wouldn't be getting enough space and spare energy to explore things unknown. Keeping one person happy all the time is a difficult proposition for sure. And a woman has to exploited into believing that shez happy, a trade which we Aries are not adept at unfortunately.
" have you always been aware of your tendancy to control?"
Yes, I am fully aware. Am always plotting a rebellion even when forced to stay quiet.
"are you aware of your inability to listen to the woman you are with?"
I have been accused of this a number of times. But it has more to do with my inability to detect and process the subtle. Am too occupied or too helpless.
"and are you prepared to do so?"
I dont think so. Am not looking for an anchor but a crusader. But why would she come to me ?
"my ex tried very hard to change "
That a male has to do in order to succeed in relationships. I really dont know how to strike a balance - one moment I may go overboard with genuine love,support and admiration almost bordering slavery, and the next I am your next cage Gorilla. I feel that permanence of any form ( including sentiments ) would rob me of any chance of staying objective. One change which I have brought about in myself is to criticize in mute and to express displeasure as a newsreader would - in a dispassionate manner.
Possibly true. Perhaps we all are born with this instinct of being numero uno.
"do you find you have to make alot of compromises to make a long term relationship work "
True for myself. Love can melt much of the resistance, though. Inherently, I dont like stability and prolonged spells of relative peace and prosperity ( with me being the center ) because it adds to the pressure of delivering consistently on all dimensions which means that I wouldn't be getting enough space and spare energy to explore things unknown. Keeping one person happy all the time is a difficult proposition for sure. And a woman has to exploited into believing that shez happy, a trade which we Aries are not adept at unfortunately.
" have you always been aware of your tendancy to control?"
Yes, I am fully aware. Am always plotting a rebellion even when forced to stay quiet.
"are you aware of your inability to listen to the woman you are with?"
I have been accused of this a number of times. But it has more to do with my inability to detect and process the subtle. Am too occupied or too helpless.
"and are you prepared to do so?"
I dont think so. Am not looking for an anchor but a crusader. But why would she come to me ?
"my ex tried very hard to change "
That a male has to do in order to succeed in relationships. I really dont know how to strike a balance - one moment I may go overboard with genuine love,support and admiration almost bordering slavery, and the next I am your next cage Gorilla. I feel that permanence of any form ( including sentiments ) would rob me of any chance of staying objective. One change which I have brought about in myself is to criticize in mute and to express displeasure as a newsreader would - in a dispassionate manner.
Aww shucks
if we could all learn to oblige the bad character traits that were meant for us
not in a passive and neglectful way
but a way to acknowledge them as the pair of good and bad ones that are perfect one's for us
Ex.
I know my ideal would be too honest for comfort
if we could all learn to oblige the bad character traits that were meant for us
not in a passive and neglectful way
but a way to acknowledge them as the pair of good and bad ones that are perfect one's for us
Ex.
I know my ideal would be too honest for comfort
after all,
you take the good with the bad, or nothing at all
right?
you take the good with the bad, or nothing at all
right?
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What kind of an stupid question is this..??
What kind of an stupid question is this..??
LOL 
"If he isn't ready than he won't be until he is over her. You cannot rush these guys into anything. If he isn't emotionally available, then he won't be until he decides to be. There is nothing you can do for now" OH YEAH, just get on with life and maybe he'll turn around one day (and this could be 6 months or 6 years), and you'll still be available...who knows? but dont sit and wait for him, he'd not appreciate that either.
Friendship is amazing if you can keep that up
....I have been trying to remain friends with my Libra for the past 2 months...he's been luke warm and cold but today I tried one more time and sent a text and OMG 5 minutes later he sends the most inspiring text in return and gave me plenty of hints that we'll be catching up in the new year....these guys are totally unpredictable and I now believe it when everybody says it takes them forever to figure out what they really want.....I think at the end of the day, those who continue to be there through thick and thin will retain their respect and most of all, their love...i think it takes an amazing woman to handle one of these wishy washy men...they also know it!!! THATS why they take so damned long to make up their minds....just my $ 0.02 worth. In my case, I really just want to remain friends as I dont think i could go back to the FWB thing and maybe not even a r/ship if he were to want one....but OMG when they are your friend??? that is so wonderful
Friendship is amazing if you can keep that up
....I have been trying to remain friends with my Libra for the past 2 months...he's been luke warm and cold but today I tried one more time and sent a text and OMG 5 minutes later he sends the most inspiring text in return and gave me plenty of hints that we'll be catching up in the new year....these guys are totally unpredictable and I now believe it when everybody says it takes them forever to figure out what they really want.....I think at the end of the day, those who continue to be there through thick and thin will retain their respect and most of all, their love...i think it takes an amazing woman to handle one of these wishy washy men...they also know it!!! THATS why they take so damned long to make up their minds....just my $ 0.02 worth. In my case, I really just want to remain friends as I dont think i could go back to the FWB thing and maybe not even a r/ship if he were to want one....but OMG when they are your friend??? that is so wonderful All I can say is he has made my day!!! and I dunno why, its not like I've seen him over the past 2&1/2 months....its just those few words that make it all worth it sometimes
Anyway I am going on holidays and I wish you all well
Anyway I am going on holidays and I wish you all well
If he's lost a lot of arguments with you in the past. Then it is your answer to why he's so stubborn. He's gotten tired of losing one battle after another with you. The Scorpio's secret desire is to triumph. So if he keeps losing, eventually he's going to put his foot down and stand his ground.
Honey...I know he is lying! But I am still curious.
It was not a really bad year...cause I am still here. However, it could have been better.