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Aug 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1660 · Topics: 107
love to me ever. Well the next day he didnt call...i call him he didnt answer and then for a bout a week NOTHING. Then he texts me saying Whats up! Gem, please explain this to me. Maybe the passion we felt scared him off....I dont know. But whats so interesting is Im surfing the net and there is his picture in the singles.net saying he is looking for love.....what is up with that?
wow...things have suddenly changed.."scorpio behindyou"..u were wrong i think..coz he has suddenly started avoiding me..i mean like few days back he used to sms me on his own and call me whenever i wanted him too..and he used to giv me cmpany in office..
but suddenly 2 days back 2 of his guy frnds teased us a little about being so "close" frnds..and he just grinned at me and i too smiled blushingly..but then after that i didt show up to him for 2 days..but he didn even bother to call me /sms me..then then yesterday i asked him to meet me (that was quite a casual thing..i used to ask him so even few days back)..but he didnt turn up..and then when i called him he said he was going somewhere(it was true..and he never lies)..and said he'll call me up later..but then i waited and waited..no fon call from him(yet i found out that he had called another girl that same evening twice)..
fine..i realised that he was ignoring me..then today..at lunch i found him eating alone at office..i was with other frnds..and seeing him alone i thought of accompanying him..coz i never like to make any1 feel bad(no matter how they behave with me)..ok..still then i saw him talking to my other frnds more than to me..strange!!but still i managed to talk with him..but still i had this feeling he was avoiding me..and then after he had his lunch..he was about to leave..didnt even bother to stay back to giv me company while i finishd my lunch(earlier he alwaz stayd back till i finishd mine)..then he got up..and i askd him to saty but he said ..his frnds wer waiting and without waiting 4 answer he left
It made me very sad,almost on the verge of crying,so my best frnd asked me to call him and ask him wats up.
i asked him meet me then and there,and he came and i asked him"so what did those guys say to u about me?are they teasing u coz of me?"
he said"ya.u know frnds r like that ,they jus need a cause for teasing,but i dont like to b teased frankly.u know,but they wont understand it.and staying with u for such long hrs are making people think in other terms abou us,but thats not the case u know"
i said "ok.so thats where ur prob is?u dont like 2 b teased and even i dont like 2 be teased,so i had avoided u 4 these 2 days at lunch coz i felt the same ,but u shud have understood that,and i think u were avoiding me coz of all that stuff?if hav prob,then be clear about it and i wont interact with u that much again"
he said"no,i didnt avoid u..did i?"
and then he tried to convince me that he wasnt avoiding me..and somehow i pretended to give him the impression "its ok..i didnt mind"..and left him..till then no call or sms frm him..
so people ..wats ur opinion about his reaction?can u plzz throw some light?i am feling real bad,,i cant concentrate in my work since then..i feel like i am losing a frnd too..i agree that i was becoming more attached to him than simply a frnd..but i never wanted to lose him as a frnd..he was so nice..i miss him..
may be i hav lost him..
What's wrong with venus in gemini?
I do have one.
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
It's not effortless for me if there is not a goal in mind when going into a relationship...I tend to cut off a relationship as soon as I sense that it may not be forever regardless how much I feel... in fact the more I feel the faster and complete I cut off the bond
AHHH!!!! My astro sister and I have yet another thing in common, I have done that too! Oh dear, isn't that funny? I'm afraid of falling for a guy that doesn't really love but only pretending. Thats such a fear for me. In my relationships, I've always cared but never loved a guy.
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