"Aqua men tend to get close to women as friends and will even hang out with them a lot and call them a lot."
-- This is true, at least for me and my aqua guy friends. We treat everyone equally. Everyone is a friend (level 1) . Status, wealth, life style , political view, and even gender does not matter much. We are independent and accentric, so we respect everyone's differences. After we get to know you, and like you a little bit more, you move up to be level-2 friends. Level-2 friends are friends that we deem worthy to invite over for parties. Once we know you for a while, you move up to level-3 friends. Level-3 friends are the ones that go on road trips with us, stay over until 4-5 in the moring after we kick everyone out of our parties, listen to our relationship problems. It's a long process but once you get to level-3, you are pretty much our friends until the day we die.
The problem with this (we ourselves don't think it's a problem, since we are pretty rational) is that our female friends sometimes think we are leading them on. We may move a female friend up to level-3, but not in a romatic sense.
Now it does happen that we sometimes develope romantic feelings for our female friends, but it is entirely unplanned. It just happens. It's not like we string them all along and then pick one of them.
I have quite a few female friends that thought I am a biggest flirt/tease/player. Some of them resent me for leading them on. But once they got to know me better, they realize that I am just genuinely interested in people, male or female. I have to admit, that sometimes, I do fall for one of my "little sisters" (that's what I call my female friends), but it's proven to be more troubles than it's worth. The ones that thought I was leading them on became bitter, and the one I liked felt like she betrayed her friends by stealing me for herself. Jealousy and dramma between friends are not my cup of tea.
So yeah, there you have it.
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Nov 19, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 187 · Topics: 27
I felt like I experienced a lot of personal growth this year...but overall, for family and friends it was horrible...there were so many deaths in my family this year...sad.
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Feb 19, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 4444 · Topics: 44
Exactly how long are we going to continue this lie that Christ was born on Dec. 25th? *snort*
Why can't we just celebrate the real holiday that was stolen from the pagans? Winter Solstice?
HLG, you are welcome. Here is something I found on the net about Aquarius with Leo rising:
You have an energetic spirit as well as a clever and intellectual mind which customarily creates a dynamic and social individual. You are proud, independent and self-reliant but also have strong emotions which need to be reckoned with. You are basically a mental type but those logical processes can easily be disrupted by your powerful emotions or an ultra-active imagination.
You like being the center of attention and have charismatic leadership abilities especially in political and social groups. You like the idea of wielding power and making people happy in the process, especially if they know it was you who helped them. When dealing with people, your mostly expansive and trusting nature can be fooled by those who really wish to mislead you.
Your creative energy naturally makes you an extremely prolific inventor but the balance of those inventions are more on the ethereal side than for the practical world. If most people knew the inventive power of your mind they might be scared of you, thinking you a freak. The number of interests you have is considerable and rigorous study under a guru or master is suggested, from early in life.
In business you may wonder the gamut from scientific endeavors to speculative financial projects. For you, learning focus will bring success as much as anything else. Remember completion of the job is always necessary to collect the money. A socially conscious labor organizer might also be a good career for this Astrology combination. This is a position of considerable nervous energy and vigorous outdoor exercise is recommended regularly.
In love and relationships you are loyal, passionate, romantic and may appear fickle but are not. You just have the capacity to love more than one person as well as having the right to do so. So you will.
"And I know that next time I will work double hard and not allowing this feeling to happen again."
thats a mistake in my humble opinion. the typical unsocial introversion which is counter productive to a healthy life, marriage and all.
Now suppose you are head over heels in love with someone but that person seems disinterested, so you'd just walk away, because you have no other choice, right?
So if you barricade yourself in because you got hurt once, what really happens is that you are chucking out more than one partner who probably is far better than the one that hurt you.
We are allowing the person who hurt us win by fortifying ourselves into seclusion. In my opinion we should keep on looking as long as we could for years and years. Go through different experiences and when we find the right person we win, right? We have come on top. DEFEATED HURT. Defeated the person who hurt us. So don't let us wither away. Go out and experience the experience. ha
Pain is something TIME WILL heal. The important thing is to try not to make the same mistakes each and every time. In short, gain some experience at falling in love :O
Keep on loving and soon hopefully we'll find the almost right person.
Isnt that enough or are we all looking for the perfect one, which doesnt exist.
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May 04, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1078 · Topics: 68
I'm going to see how accurate I am (dating an aquarius now for 3 and a half years) before anyone else responds. Let's see how receptive and
1. Being creative and having that self-expression recognized by others, they love innovation and what they perceive as progress.
2. Relationships are not initially important but once someone passes a certain threshold of importance to an aquarius, they become indispensable to them and central to their life.
3. Family and close friends because of feelings of closeness and loyalty (loyalty is big for aquarians)
4. Feeling comfortable and secure (such as having a home)
5. Being politically and socially active/conscious
6. Retaining their freedom
7. Material things. yes, aquarians can be quite materialistic.
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
*VE's mouth gapes in awe at mystic fish; VE walks away unable to retort...*
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
There is tension not nervous energy in my make up; I struggle to reconcile my intuitive side with my logical side. Most days it's easier to balance out than others, but generally I'm a hair pin away from an explosion.