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...So anyway. Tell me of your experience and if it's consistent with a Cap whose interested. I don't have emotional ties to him anymore because I learned to cut myself off (he doesn't know this b/c I refuse to contact him. It's been a month and a half. Just read on...). So if I see him it's like whatever. For me, old feelings take a LONG time to come back. I see him as a friend now as I became impatient and bored. I was hurt before but now it's like "Screw him"(although he never did anything to make me hate/dislike him except for the disappearing act.). My pride always gets the best of me. Here's what I've gone through: (more positive than negative. If he hadn't disappeared I wouldn't have my doubts and feelings of resentment/bitterness)
-Met through my cousin. Saw me while in car with his cousin and drove by 2nd time after he saw me to speak to my cousin. Said I was cute, age, school I go to, etc. Never made a move. Cousin told him I was interested. But he never came around, but he watched me from afar (I'm talking about being with friends and checking to see if I would come out of my house since we were both always outside (summer)).I told a friend I thought "that guy's cute". He went and told cap one night and I SAW HIM RUN upstairs to call my cousin for me to call him. It happened SO FAST. I guess he was waiting for me make the 1st move. I called and he asked me to come out for 15 minutes to meet me. I refused (tired, lazy). Persisted for 10 minutes. But no. Didn't feel like it. He was a jerk, stubborn, called me a baby, other names, I cursed at him too, etc. Pissed me off. We battled for 10 minutes over something stupid. He gave up and we hung up.
-Next day, he comes looking for me and makes plans with my cuz to meet up with me. You have no idea how much I tried to avoid him. Late @ night, stopped by my housing asking for me. I wouldn't come out. Wasn't feeling well (honestly). Asked my cuz if he could come inside to see me. He persisted. I got angry and said he better f****** leave or else. Later that night I met up w/him.
-FIRST thing I ever said to him was how stubborn he was, jerky. My cousins thought I was being mean. Whatever. We talked about a lot of things. Serious,funny, asked what I did for fun, joked with me, acted silly, seemed sweet and sincere but also awkward. He was fidgeting, pacing. Told me of his many girls. Called him a whore, slut, ho, etc. I was very blunt the first night.
...So anyway. Tell me of your experience and if it's consistent with a Cap whose interested. I don't have emotional ties to him anymore because I learned to cut myself off (he doesn't know this b/c I refuse to contact him. It's been a month and a half. Just read on...). So if I see him it's like whatever. For me, old feelings take a LONG time to come back. I see him as a friend now as I became impatient and bored. I was hurt before but now it's like "Screw him"(although he never did anything to make me hate/dislike him except for the disappearing act.). My pride always gets the best of me. Here's what I've gone through: (more positive than negative. If he hadn't disappeared I wouldn't have my doubts and feelings of resentment/bitterness)-Met through my cousin. Saw me while in car with his cousin and drove by 2nd time after he saw me to speak to my cousin. Said I was cute, age, school I go to, etc. Never made a move. Cousin told him I was interested. But he never came around, but he watched me from afar (I'm talking about being with friends and checking to see if I would come out of my house since we were both always outside (summer)).I told a friend I thought "that guy's cute". He went and told cap one night and I SAW HIM RUN upstairs to call my cousin for me to call him. It happened SO FAST. I guess he was waiting for me make the 1st move. I called and he asked me to come out for 15 minutes to meet me. I refused (tired, lazy). Persisted for 10 minutes. But no. Didn't feel like it. He was a jerk, stubborn, called me a baby, other names, I cursed at him too, etc. Pissed me off. We battled for 10 minutes over something stupid. He gave up and we hung up.
-Next day, he comes looking for me and makes plans with my cuz to meet up with me. You have no idea how much I tried to avoid him. Late @ night, stopped by my housing asking for me. I wouldn't come out. Wasn't feeling well (honestly). Asked my cuz if he could come inside to see me. He persisted. I got angry and said he better f****** leave or else. Later that night I met up w/him.
-FIRST thing I ever said to him was how stubborn he was, jerky. My cousins thought I was being mean. Whatever. We talked about a lot of things. Serious,funny, asked what I did for fun, joked with me, acted silly, seemed sweet and sincere but also awkward. He was fidgeting, pacing. Told me of his many girls. Called him a whore, slut, ho, etc. I was very blunt the first night.
Nothing in the world could make me want to go through the hell of being a social worker. Damn, am I the only one whose shallow enough to want to be the bunny? =P Maybe it's because I have a thing against caseworkers, particually the one who has dealed with my mother. She has lied to me and my family about my mother's conditon several times. Even if I did have to report some shady business going on in other people's homes, I wouldn't feel good or justified about it like I've gone out and did some wonderful deed. I'd feel guilty as hell.
Is This a great match?
Lol. Neither. =P
emeraldgem - well, out of the blue yesterday he contacted me to tell me he was 'thinking of me'. My male friend (Mr Libran) told me not to trust him.
I'd decided not to contact him, after getting advice from Mr Libran and my sister (Ms Aries). I'm going away tomorrow till the New Year. Who knows if we'll catch up after that. He seemed so keen on the date, yet now I'm beginning to wonder if it's just the Gemini charm? And while I'm good at the Gemini charm, I've never had anyone do it to me!
I'd decided not to contact him, after getting advice from Mr Libran and my sister (Ms Aries). I'm going away tomorrow till the New Year. Who knows if we'll catch up after that. He seemed so keen on the date, yet now I'm beginning to wonder if it's just the Gemini charm? And while I'm good at the Gemini charm, I've never had anyone do it to me!
"So ST...what are YOUR resolutions in those areas then????
May I suggest avoiding Scorps until you can think with your intuition????
Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces.
But please....please....dahling...don't wait a year.....k?????????????"
I have nooo problem at all sharing and admiting my faults. No hang ups in that department.
My resolutions:
For at least 12 months, I vow to simply hang out with guys and not have ANY expectations and enjoy their friendships. Just have a good time and take life one day at a time. Part of my problem is this mental image that I have in my head of the end result that I want: Marriage and kids. I have this HUGE fear that it will never happen for me. In fact, that is my #1 fear in life and as a person. That no one will love me enough to want to marry me. (regardless of how much I know I love myself) And it shows through my actions with men. Next year, I will let go alot sooner and be more cut-throat about letting go of a situation. Won't stick around where I'm not wanted or needed. No expectations...No intentions. No feelings.
May I suggest avoiding Scorps until you can think with your intuition????
Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces.
But please....please....dahling...don't wait a year.....k?????????????"
I have nooo problem at all sharing and admiting my faults. No hang ups in that department.
My resolutions:
For at least 12 months, I vow to simply hang out with guys and not have ANY expectations and enjoy their friendships. Just have a good time and take life one day at a time. Part of my problem is this mental image that I have in my head of the end result that I want: Marriage and kids. I have this HUGE fear that it will never happen for me. In fact, that is my #1 fear in life and as a person. That no one will love me enough to want to marry me. (regardless of how much I know I love myself) And it shows through my actions with men. Next year, I will let go alot sooner and be more cut-throat about letting go of a situation. Won't stick around where I'm not wanted or needed. No expectations...No intentions. No feelings.
why does social work suck the life outta you?
TaurusBabe...I shared mine...your turn.