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Sep 13, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 455 · Topics: 31
"So ST...what are YOUR resolutions in those areas then????
May I suggest avoiding Scorps until you can think with your intuition????
Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces.
But please....please....dahling...don't wait a year.....k?????????????"
I have nooo problem at all sharing and admiting my faults. No hang ups in that department.
My resolutions:
For at least 12 months, I vow to simply hang out with guys and not have ANY expectations and enjoy their friendships. Just have a good time and take life one day at a time. Part of my problem is this mental image that I have in my head of the end result that I want: Marriage and kids. I have this HUGE fear that it will never happen for me. In fact, that is my #1 fear in life and as a person. That no one will love me enough to want to marry me. (regardless of how much I know I love myself) And it shows through my actions with men. Next year, I will let go alot sooner and be more cut-throat about letting go of a situation. Won't stick around where I'm not wanted or needed. No expectations...No intentions. No feelings.
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Jul 09, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15279 · Topics: 125
why does social work suck the life outta you?
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-The first night he seemed rather interested. Once it became too late, I was going to head back in but he said "15 more minutes or I'll never speak to you again." We hit it off SO WELL. Even made a comment how we're both alike.
-We hung out again 2 days later. He contacted me. That night, we were together for 4 hours just talking, walking. But he became sexually aggressive. I told him to back off. I'm not like that. Go find a wore somewhere else.
-I was firm. No meant NO. I was VERY detached. We just talked about random things. His touchiness was only for a moment. He was VERY open from the first night. I knew more about him than vice versa. But he seemed sincere but he seemed out of character that night. Like he was more silly, he treated me like one his guy friends. Never a silent moment/dull moment, he laughed at my sarcastic comments, and when he noticed I was getting tired ( was quiet and "droopy" and it was 5 am), he said I should go home or else he'll feel bad.
-Call him the next night and told him I was knocking out for most of the day. Said he shouldn't have hung out with me because I felt drowsy. Guess he felt bad. This was the awkward/heated conversation I had with him. We talked for 3 hours. I guess I was being a little meaner than usual and he said I had made other plans with him and we would have to put me on his "Black List." He said I might be playing games. We then decided to be friends. It happened that fast. Said I was acting weird. Next thing I know he's asking me if I have friends that I could hook him up with. They have to be 'good' and 'freaky'. I kept thinking, "the bastard..." I guess I seemed 'unstable' to him.
-Then the conversation did a 180 and we started talking about our lives, what we liked, he played his favorite songs to me,food, movies,his past relationships, and how he would give me ride to my friends houses if I needed one when he gets his car. He was still being nice after the tension we had earlier. Like it NEVER even happened.
-NEXT DAY calls me and seems he was very 'up'. We talked for a long time, actually, he was talking to an elderly man he knew, he told me to listen in, like he wanted me part of the banter.
-Asks me to come out. Told me he wanted to come and talk to me earlier when he saw me outside, but me being me, I ran and hid from him. Said to call him later after he showers.
-This was the night he told me liked me. He said I was acting weird on the phone and wanted to give me a few months to relax,
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Fundamentalist religion of any sort is dangerous. Because it's brainwashing.
Emeraldgem - I was in a 9 year relationship with a Virgo (on and off). He did ground me, but then got into drugs and changed.
I then married a Scorpio. After a 5 year marriage (6 year relationship in total - we married quickly) we split up. Great sex, lots of excitement - we were always up or down never stable. But the fights got too much for me so I left.
Yeah, Merry Christmas to everyone! eat, drink, play, flirt, and be merry!